FairShare vs Couples Confluence

FairShare — the mental load OS for couples. Not a chore chart, not a bill splitter. You're not crazy. You're carrying a lot. FairShare helps you split the invisible work, so your partner owns whole areas of household life — not just "helps" when asked. Inspired by Eve Rodsky's Fair Play method, FairShare replaces chore charts with over 100 cards. Each card is full ownership: Conceive, Plan, Execute. No more delegating. No more reminding. No more mental load running your life. WHY FAIRSHARE IS DIFFERENT • Card-based, not task-based — own the whole domain, not one-off tasks • AI Brain Dump — say what's on your mind; we turn it into cards • Noticing Score — the only app that measures who notices what needs doing, not just who does it • Visualizer heat map — see the invisible load made visible • A shared docket — recurring cards come back when they're actually due, instead of quietly settling forever • Built for every household — two-parent, same-sex, single, blended, roommates • Weekly check-ins — renegotiate with kindness, not blow-ups • Minimum Standard of Care — no more "but you didn't tell me how" KEY FEATURES AI mental load interceptor Speak or type what's running through your head. The AI turns it into clean cards across Home, Kids, Out, Wild, and Unicorn — and suggests who should own each one. 100+ card deck Every domain covered. Filtered to your household shape during onboarding, so you only see what's relevant to your life. Invisible load visualizer Dashboard heat map of who holds what. Track imbalance and watch it shift over time. Noticing Score The signature number: how much of the household's noticing — the invisible "I'll remember it" work — lands on you. Tap a card to rebalance, then share your Report Card to start the conversation. Weekly Re-deal About 15 minutes a week. Structured, calm prompts to renegotiate cards and update Minimum Standards of Care without the resentment loop. Renegotiation Coach One card not working? Say what's off in your own words. You get a no-blame reframe, three concrete ways to re-deal it, and one question to ask each other out loud. The Unicorn card Your hobbies, friendships, dreams. Protect your own bandwidth — it's a card too. Built for all households Two-parent, same-sex, single-parent + co-parent, blended, roommates, solo, multigenerational. Calendar sync (FairShare+) Two-way iOS Calendar, MSC reminders, fewer dropped balls. Facilitator mode (FairShare+) Invite a certified Fair Play coach for a session with read-only board access. SUBSCRIPTION FairShare Free — up to 20 cards, 5 Brain Dumps per month, one weekly check-in, basic visualizer. FairShare+ unlocks unlimited cards, unlimited AI Brain Dumps, full visualizer, MSC library, calendar sync, partner-share mode, facilitator invite, and priority support. 7-day free trial. One subscription covers your whole household. Pricing shown in app. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in Settings. PRIVACY & CARE Your data is yours. Encrypted at rest. We don't sell your data or train AI models on your conversations. GDPR- and CCPA-aligned. Export or delete your data anytime. ABOUT CULI FairShare is made by culi — a small studio building apps that make midlife lighter. culi.app Questions: help@culi.app Privacy Policy: https://tryfairshare.app/privacy-policy/ Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Welcome to a lighter load.

You've explained this a hundred times. This time, don't. Couples Confluence shows both partners what the household actually takes. Not who said they would do it. What got done. THE MENTAL LOAD IS REAL WORK Somebody remembers the dentist appointment. Somebody notices the milk is low. Somebody knows which kid needs new shoes. That work never shows up on a chore chart, and it never gets split evenly, because it is invisible. Couples Confluence tracks it. Remembering, planning, noticing, deciding. It sits next to the dishes and the laundry where it belongs. BALANCE THAT REFLECTS REALITY Your balance is built from what actually got completed, not from what got assigned. It updates as the week goes. It does not scold anyone and it does not keep score to punish. It just shows you the truth so you can talk about something real instead of arguing about who does more. SET IT UP IN ABOUT TWO MINUTES Pick a preset that sounds like your house. Adjust a few things. Done. No forty-item questionnaire. No sliders. No weighting system to figure out before you can use it. You should be looking at your household in two minutes, not building a spreadsheet. BUILT FOR TWO PEOPLE One household, two partners, one plan. Invite your partner by email and you are both in. There is no feed. There are no strangers. Nobody else can see your household. It is a tool for the two of you and that is all it is. WHAT YOU GET Own It — everything the household takes, in one place, including the invisible work Balance It — what each person actually carried this week Household — your two people, your presets, your settings WHY I BUILT IT I am not a developer. I am a guy who watched the same argument happen in his own house over and over, where both people are working hard and both people feel unseen. The dishes were never the problem. The problem was that half the work never showed up anywhere. So I built the thing that shows it. Subscription unlocks the full app for both partners on one plan. Cancel any time. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://www.couplesconfluence.store/privacy