FairShare vs Couples Confluence Mental Load

FairShare — the mental load OS for couples. Not a chore chart, not a bill splitter. You're not crazy. You're carrying a lot. FairShare helps you split the invisible work, so your partner owns whole areas of household life — not just "helps" when asked. Inspired by Eve Rodsky's Fair Play method, FairShare replaces chore charts with over 100 cards. Each card is full ownership: Conceive, Plan, Execute. No more delegating. No more reminding. No more mental load running your life. WHY FAIRSHARE IS DIFFERENT • Card-based, not task-based — own the whole domain, not one-off tasks • AI Brain Dump — say what's on your mind; we turn it into cards • Noticing Score — the only app that measures who notices what needs doing, not just who does it • Visualizer heat map — see the invisible load made visible • A shared docket — recurring cards come back when they're actually due, instead of quietly settling forever • Built for every household — two-parent, same-sex, single, blended, roommates • Weekly check-ins — renegotiate with kindness, not blow-ups • Minimum Standard of Care — no more "but you didn't tell me how" KEY FEATURES AI mental load interceptor Speak or type what's running through your head. The AI turns it into clean cards across Home, Kids, Out, Wild, and Unicorn — and suggests who should own each one. 100+ card deck Every domain covered. Filtered to your household shape during onboarding, so you only see what's relevant to your life. Invisible load visualizer Dashboard heat map of who holds what. Track imbalance and watch it shift over time. Noticing Score The signature number: how much of the household's noticing — the invisible "I'll remember it" work — lands on you. Tap a card to rebalance, then share your Report Card to start the conversation. Weekly Re-deal About 15 minutes a week. Structured, calm prompts to renegotiate cards and update Minimum Standards of Care without the resentment loop. Renegotiation Coach One card not working? Say what's off in your own words. You get a no-blame reframe, three concrete ways to re-deal it, and one question to ask each other out loud. The Unicorn card Your hobbies, friendships, dreams. Protect your own bandwidth — it's a card too. Built for all households Two-parent, same-sex, single-parent + co-parent, blended, roommates, solo, multigenerational. Calendar sync (FairShare+) Two-way iOS Calendar, MSC reminders, fewer dropped balls. Facilitator mode (FairShare+) Invite a certified Fair Play coach for a session with read-only board access. SUBSCRIPTION FairShare Free — up to 20 cards, 5 Brain Dumps per month, one weekly check-in, basic visualizer. FairShare+ unlocks unlimited cards, unlimited AI Brain Dumps, full visualizer, MSC library, calendar sync, partner-share mode, facilitator invite, and priority support. 7-day free trial. One subscription covers your whole household. Pricing shown in app. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in Settings. PRIVACY & CARE Your data is yours. Encrypted at rest. We don't sell your data or train AI models on your conversations. GDPR- and CCPA-aligned. Export or delete your data anytime. ABOUT CULI FairShare is made by culi — a small studio building apps that make midlife lighter. culi.app Questions: help@culi.app Privacy Policy: https://tryfairshare.app/privacy-policy/ Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Welcome to a lighter load.

If you have to remind them, they don't own it. You already know that. You have known it for years. The shared calendar did not fix it. The chore chart did not fix it. Neither did the long talk on a Sunday night. None of them ever put a number on what you are actually carrying. HOW THE WEEK WORKS 1. Plan the week ahead. What needs doing. What needs remembering. What needs paying for. 2. Each of you picks what you are taking this week. 3. You get your balance. One number across all three, built from what you both actually chose. 4. The app picks three things he can take off your plate to move that number closer to even. Then you do the week. At the end you both see what got done, not what got promised. THE PART NOBODY ELSE COUNTS Remembering is work. So is paying for things. Most apps count the dishes and stop there. This one weights the remembering heaviest, because that is the part that never shows up and never ends. WHAT THIS APP WILL NOT DO It will not nag him. No reminder emails. No guilt notifications. You have been the reminder system for years. That is the job you are trying to quit. WHO BUILT THIS My name is Justin. I am a farmer in Minnesota. I built this after I found out what my wife had been carrying for years that I never saw. I did dishes for twenty years and called it helping. I was wrong, and I did not know I was wrong, because nobody ever showed me a number. I read every email that comes in. If this falls short for you, tell me. Together Pro is $7.99 a month or $49.99 a year, with a 7-day free trial. Subscription unlocks the full app for both partners on one plan. Cancel any time. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://www.couplesconfluence.store/privacy