DateNotes vs Trysta

DateNotes is a private journal for your dating life — a calm place to remember who you met, how each date went, and what you actually felt afterward. It is not a dating service and it never connects you with anyone. Everything you write stays on your device. WHY DATENOTES After a few dates the details blur together — who liked hiking, which conversation felt easy, why you weren't sure about someone. DateNotes gives every date a clean record and a short reflection so your decisions come from what really happened, not a fading memory. RECORD EACH DATE • A quick 5-step entry: basics, the person, what you talked about, an honest reflection, and free notes • Capture place, how you met, meeting count, topics, and a one-line feeling • Rate your interest and choose a next step KEEP PEOPLE ORGANIZED • Every person gets their own card with tags, status, and a memo • See each person's full timeline of dates at a glance • Track status: ongoing, next date planned, still thinking, waiting for a reply REFLECT HONESTLY • A short self-check after each date — conversation, comfort, awkward moments, their response, your feelings • A clear score and report help you notice your own patterns over time SEE YOUR PATTERNS • Insights show your averages, most common topics, and trends • Understand what you enjoy and what keeps coming up PRIVATE BY DESIGN • 100% local storage — no account, no sign-up, no cloud • Optional app lock (biometric / device passcode) • Optional screenshot blocking • Export and import your data whenever you want Whether you're actively dating, on the apps, or meeting people through friends, DateNotes helps you slow down, reflect, and choose with a clear head. Available in English and Korean.

Trysta is a private diary for your dating life. Everything you'd never write down anywhere else, in one place, behind a lock. TRACK WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED • Every date, every partner — notes, photos, ratings, voice memos • The moments between dates: gifts, milestones, things that came out • What it costs you. Dating is expensive and nobody counts. • STI check-ups, with reminders that know exactly how many contacts a test would clear • Achievements for real milestones, not gamified nonsense THEN SEE WHAT YOU'VE BEEN MISSING Far enough in, patterns show up that you can't see from the inside. Who you actually go for. What your best relationships had in common. How things tend to end — and whether it's always the same way. Statistics do the counting. AI insights do the part that stings: an honest read on your own behaviour, drawn from your own history. They stay off until you turn them on — your text goes to Google's Gemini only when you ask for an analysis, and only after you agree. WHEN IT BECOMES SOMETHING Start a relationship and the app changes with you: a home screen for the two of you, a photo, and a count of how long it's been. NOBODY ELSE GETS TO READ THIS • Passcode and Face ID lock • iCloud sync through your own private iCloud — your data never touches our servers • No account, no feed, nothing shared with anyone, ever • Export it or delete it whenever you want Trysta is for adults keeping a record of their own dating life. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/