Best Fetish Dating Alternative Apps

3+ iOS apps curated and reviewed

4.2 avg rating
3 free apps
Updated October 2026

With an average user rating of 4.2★, the fetish dating alternative category is one of the App Store's strongest. Browse all 3+ apps we track, sorted so the most loved ones surface first.

Compare top Fetish Dating Alternative Apps (October 2026)

#AppPriceRatingAdsIn-App PurchasesUpdated
1Kinkoo: Kink, Fet BDSM DatingKinkoo: Kink, Fet BDSM DatingFree4.1★ (96K)NoYesNov 2026
2FET: Alternative DatingFET: Alternative DatingFree4.3★ (26K)YesYesNov 2026
3Feeld: Open & Curious DatingFeeld: Open & Curious DatingFree4.3★ (103K)NoYesNov 2026

Top Picks for Fetish Dating Alternative

4.1😞(96K ratings)
FreeIn-App Purchases
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This app connects open-minded individuals and couples exploring alternative lifestyles and non-traditional relationship dynamics. It fosters a safe, inclusive community for finding meaningful connections based on shared values and preferences.

What We Love

  • 👍 Cool app
  • 👍 Good platform
  • 👍 Excellent
  • 👍 Best app ever

Room to Improve

  • 🚫 Meh
  • 🚫 Fake dating app
  • 🚫 Garbage
  • 🚫 You have to pay to see local people
  • 🚫 Beta at best
  • 🚫 Basically can't do anything without paying
  • 🚫 Horrible!!
  • 🚫 Waste of time
  • 🚫 Not good
  • 🚫 Tf
  • 🚫 Hard to use and not very good
  • 🚫 Spam/ Fake accounts avoid avoid avoid
  • 🚫 How does this have 4 stars
  • 🚫 So many things wrong. deleted app in 15 mins.
  • 🚫 Exploitive and Fake (you have been warned)
  • 🚫 Fake VIP accounts and no people locally
  • 🚫 Don't waste your time with this app
  • 🚫 Bad, horrible, the absolute worst
  • 🚫 90% fakes
  • 🚫 Flooded with scam bots, essentially requires paid subscription
  • 🚫 A few unfortunate issues
  • 🚫 Extremely buggy
  • 🚫 US Fakes Galore
  • 🚫 Way too expensive
  • 🚫 Don't make us pay to see nearby people
  • 🚫 Terrible app, do not trust any other review
  • 🚫 This app is horrible
  • 🚫 Ugh
  • 🚫 Heavy restriction for free account
  • 🚫 Not good and here is why I say so.
  • 🚫 Highly flawed and full of bots!
  • 🚫 Meeh
  • 🚫 Pretty lousy so far
  • 🚫 First impressions not good
  • 🚫 Scamland
  • 🚫 Waste of time unless you want to pay!!!
  • 🚫 Was great until it wasn't
  • 🚫 Complaint
  • 🚫 SCAM!!!r
  • 🚫 Terrible
  • 🚫 Please Fix
  • 🚫 App keeps logging me out
  • 🚫 Free is the only good thing going for it
  • 🚫 Needs a lot of improvement
  • 🚫 Good concept but
  • 🚫 Average site
  • 🚫 Oh yeah
  • 🚫 Works good needs more members!
FET: Alternative Dating#2

FET: Alternative Dating by Ideawise Ltd.

Open-Minded Chat & Community
Strong Contender
🌐 Social Networking
4.3😐(26K ratings)
FreeAdsIn-App Purchases
#52in Social Networking
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This app offers an open-minded community for singles and couples exploring alternative lifestyles. Connect through chat rooms, groups, and forums, or find local events. It prioritizes honest communication and consent for various relationship dynamics.

What We Love

  • 🚀 Smooth app experience
  • 👍 Respectful community
  • 🔒 Strict moderation
  • 💡 Unique features like spanking and gifting
  • 👍 Easy to navigate
  • 👍 Ability to filter messages

Room to Improve

  • 🐛 Glitchy notifications and messaging
  • 💰 Paywall for many features
  • 🤖 Presence of fake/inactive profiles
  • 🚫 Strict rules leading to bans
  • 🕰️ Slow verification process
  • 📍 Lack of users in some areas
Feeld: Open & Curious Dating#3

Feeld: Open & Curious Dating by Feeld Ltd

Meet, Date, Flirt & Chat
Worth Considering
🌟 Lifestyle
4.3😞(103K ratings)
FreeIn-App Purchases
#5in Lifestyle
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This app offers a private and safe space for open-minded individuals to explore dating and relationships. Connect with like-minded people worldwide, express your true self, and redefine connections in a diverse community open to all genders and sexual identities.

What We Love

  • 🚀 Great community
  • 👍 Concept is good
  • 💡 Unique features like pings

Room to Improve

  • 🐛 Extremely buggy and glitchy
  • 🔍 Lack of user verification leading to fake profiles
  • 💰 Paywall for basic functionality

FAQ about Fetish Dating Alternative

What are the best fetish dating alternative apps for iPhone?
Kinkoo: Kink, Fet BDSM Dating tops our fetish dating alternative apps ranking as of October 2026, with a 4.1-star average from 96K App Store ratings, and it's free to download.
Yes — 3 of the top fetish dating alternative apps we rank are free to download, including Kinkoo: Kink, Fet BDSM Dating and FET: Alternative Dating.
Kinkoo: Kink, Fet BDSM Dating has no ads and offers in-app purchases, according to its App Store listing as of October 2026.
We track 3+ fetish dating alternative apps on the iOS App Store as of October 2026, ranked by rating, recency, and analysis of real user reviews.