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Needs a Serious Upgrade
Update: not changing the stars because the app is still really bad, but excited to say that I met someone and this might actually work out. I know we never would have met without the app even though we live literally 3 minutes away from one another. So grateful to have met him. I’m happy!
The app and the website reminds me of MySpace. It’s just old and outdated and now the app is experiencing a lot of glitches. I have to log on to the site via my computer sometimes because the app won’t load content. I also tried getting on the website from my phone, and it says my credentials were wrong, yet it let me login on the computer using the same information.Show lessrja0015
Trash
You get the same matches everyday (even though I live in a metro area) and apparently you show up in areas with low singles because I have men who try to match with me that live more than three states over. Unlike other apps it doesn’t let you hide who you don’t want to match with. I also hate how un-user friendly how the app is. For the first week all I met was a 50+ men that wanted a young girl to shake up with. I eventually found the filter that makes it so that only a certain age could search for me.
I wanted to support black businesses and was tired of matching with men I wouldn’t date so I joined and paid for 3 months, better believe once my 3 months are over I’m deleting the app. Also, remember to take it off reoccurring payment or you will get a surprise bill.Show lessLemmeB.Great
Nah.
My best friend convinced me to create a profile, because she knew a friend that had success some years back on this site. Now, the site is clearly saturated with people that are creeps, can't spell, look slow, strange, weird, and bats out of hell. No one I would ever give a second of my time to and would probably run away from if I saw them in person. I came across a few profiles that had the exact same bio and info too, clearly fake accounts. I deleted my profile entirely 2 hours after scrolling through nonsense. Better off on Tinder. Then they got the nerve to be asking for $75 dollars. It’s a no from me dawg. It’s disappointing honestly. I thought this website would be legit and promising. SmdhShow lessCanesheewa
A waste of time and money
I’ve had this app for less than 24 hours and I am already irritated with it. It doesn’t allow you to get familiar with the app before it asks for money. I purchased the 1 month plan just to try it out and here’s where my second problem lies... my filter is on for age range 28-35. Tell me why are all of my messages are from 52-61 year olds. I’m not even interested in becoming a sugar babe. My next problem is, I’m in Georgia. But their suggestion is people in Mississippi and further west. One of the grandpas was in California. How am I supposed to date him and he is all the way in California? I want my money back...Show lessNika_boo
My Experience
I joined BPM in Late September I met 2 really decent guys on thus site. I only went on 2 dates the first one had good conversation but when we went out the chemistry and vibe wasn’t there on my end. I still believe that he was a very decent/nice guy just not for me. The second date was surprising he wasn’t very talkative over the phone and his text were pretty dry. However I must say on the first date I really liked him and was very attracted to him. We are still very much connected, the chemistry and vibe is still flowing. He is definitely holding my attention and I hope that we continue to move forward to bigger and better things in the future. No Regrets !!!Show lessJayewitthelocs
Needs a Little Work
Although I have seen a fair amount of men on BPM, there were none that I connected with. Most of the men here on BPM were catfishing. I do thank BPM for giving us warnings and advice on how to be safe when meeting people you don’t know. However, if you use a specific age group on your profile, BPM should use that information with your profile. So far I haven’t met anyone yet, but I only been on the site for 2 months. I’m gonna continue to look and hopefully find my match.Show lessPeach Blossum
There’s about 30 men available in your area
I’m paying for this app only to see the same guys over and over... even after saying I’m not interested, they still show up... I even change locations to see if there’s any difference.... there isn’t! One day into using the app, I cancelled my subscription so it wouldn’t renew... you have got to do better... I live in the Midwest, so I’m sure there’s more than 30 guys here, and yet, that’s all I see... no matter how you change your preferences, it’s still the same 30 guys... I can have access to 30 or more guys just going out... online, I SHOUKD have more options.... please fix it... this site is causing me to feel some kind of way because there’s only a few guys available and hardly any of them ACTUALLY want to meet.... what a mess!Show lessLRB825
I did find a good man....
After about 6 months in we were in love; but because I didn’t marry him 3 days after the first 3 weeks of meeting; he never got over it; he had proposed within 3 weeks of meeting; tried to marry me 3 days later; I said yes to being engaged because we did actually Fall in love🥰💯😇😇
But I said No to getting married 3 days after such a quick proposal; he was crazy upset with me; I said let’s give it 6 months and if you still feel the same and I do too; we’ll get married, he was so disappointed, and we never got married; stayed together for 4 years, and now I have a Great Christian Friend for life. ( and we still are in love) who knows, we might just end up getting married one day🥰
Thank youShow lessBarbluvsGod
Disappointed
I’m sure this could possibly be a good app, but it has too many issues for anything above 1 star. The same exact men, in the same exact order, all on the same day are constantly being displayed after I’ve swiped left (the red x) many times. It’s ridiculously annoying. I’ve saved my search criteria many times, yet it does not register any men outside of the age range in which I’m interested are also constantly in the search. Why give you the option to have preferences if it’ll display whatever it wants!?!? I feel that I’ve wasted $21 on this app when it doesn’t follow/display any of your preferences. IM SO SICK OF SEEING THE SAME MEN ALL DAY, EVERYDAY, OUTSIDE OF MY DESIRED AGE RANGE THAT IVE ALREADY SWIPED NO TO.....UGH!!Show less07Elle
App Is Trash
You have to pay to message someone., even to see your messages & to see who likes you as well. Basically you’re just uploading pics., not worth the cash in my opinion. The app isn’t even organized enough. Filter on it doesn’t work either. Soooo you’ll see everyone you didn’t ask to showBeingReal..
