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I honestly was going to buy a subscription but I don’t think I am anymore the app needs some major work. I can’t even update what kind of person I am like where it says say something about yourself or what you look for in a person. It has another description that I didn’t even write, and I can’t even edit it. It’s giving false hope to men which I do not want. I am a lesbian and the details on my profile would have me look as if I am into a male. Not cool fix your site before I purchase any subscription or don’t and keep losing customers that’s trying to use your app to find someoneShow lessEchoSlowXx
Deceptive app
The app works fine and I am sure the rate of scammers on the site is the same as elsewhere...but for my area...Georgia...they have a relatively small number of subscribers. Hence you see the same sets of people again and again. They need to create a swipe left so you don’t see profiles that you previously de-selected...then, time spent reviewing profiles would be limited to new profiles or profiles that you would be interested in responding to or being contacted by...clearly the current app hides the small number of subscribers by m design.Show lessMT006
Still trying it out
I hate the fact that the age & location preferences mean nothing. I do not care to receive messages & flirts from 25 year old in California when I’m 50 in New York. Also stop showing the same profiles. If I swipe no, remove them from my preferences. I swiped 1 guy over 10 times, then he messaged me as to why I keep checking out his profile, really dude???... I met a few people so I won’t totally disregard the whole site. I have 1 month left & based on the reviews, I will probably end my subscription. I will cancel the card as well, to avoid “new charges”.. thanks anywayShow lessMs, New York
Needs sooo much work
Choices aren’t great but that’s not their fault. The inbox is messy every single interaction is a new message when it could all be organized into one thread by person. Hint...take a look at other sites. Not as clunky or messy. All of the flirts, likes, favorites, messages can be overwhelming! It’s just too much since it’s not organized correctly and you get a notification for every single one in a different place. And I swear I set my age preferences and that does NOT prevent men outside that range from contacting me so I have no idea the issue with this app.
And now we can’t log into the app because of some network issue? Waste of money.Show lessDr. Roxy
Terrible interface.
As a paid subscription me never, I have to say the interface of this app is horrible. I remember being a member in 2008 when everything was driven from a desktop experience rather than a mobile app. And in 11 years there have been no updates compared to other dating apps. Each morning I go through my daily matches and within 2hrs I am presented with THE EXACT SAME matches again. Also the low response rating is based on me not responding to people I am not interested in who don’t meet the requirement of at least being local. As a woman navigating this site, you’re doing a terrible job. I rejoined hoping for a better experience than Tinder or Bumble but alas, it is no different.Show lessElle Mercedes7
Hoodwinked
Black people meet is filled with some pretty decent people I’m sure. I have conversed with some nice ladies here and there and I am overall satisfied with the rapport I have built there. Outside of that, I am a little disappointed with how things work on the site. For instance whenever my subscription is at an end I get flooded with emails and winks and flirts that I never got when I was paying. The fact that the designers would think I’m stupid enough to believe that 50 women all of a sudden became interested in one day simply insults my intelligence. The next thing that bothers me is that I always get feedback from women that I never flirted with or never saw before which is disturbing to me. This means that when I swipe or interact with the app in any way it is communicating with people behind my back. This puts me in a very awkward position because I’m not a mean person but sometimes I have to just delete interactions with people that I never talked to in order not to get him false hope. I get bludgeoned when people are not interested in me and I take it in stride, but I’m not really the type of person to drop a load of bricks on somebody or lead somebody on so I don’t talk to them at all. I wish that they would just run an honest business and stop trying to scam people.Show lessoohhhdj
Developer Response
Hi there, thank you very much for writing us your review about the experience in our app! We would like to start by letting you know that we would never do anything that compromises the trust of our users, and rest assured that we would never think the way you mentioned. Regarding conversations with other users who you don't remember talking to before, we'd like to take a closer look at your profile, so that we can find an explanation and a solution. For that, please contact us by sending a message to appreviewBPM@support.peoplemedia.com. We will be waiting to hear from you!Horrible
I agree with most of the reviews. I am thinking of giving online dating a break but kept seeing the BPM commercials so decided to give this a try. It is the WORST online site of all the ones I’ve tried. I have been on Match, POF, and Bumble and I would recommend all of them over this. I just downloaded the app yesterday and I already cannot log on. I was using the app then it just automatically logged me out and I can’t log back in and have to use the website which isn’t very user friendly especially from a phone. I’m upset I paid for this. Please save your money and use a useful app!Show lessUnhappy Bride2B
Disappointed with bpm
The last day as a member I had over 60 flirts . I never had that many in one day. I corresponded to one flirt and the person stated he didn’t send any flirt. This makes me think that bpm sent these flirts. What a waste of time it’s been. Scammers and profiles you have to weed out. No pictures is a bummer. BPM should make sure these men are legitimate we as members should not have to deal with fraudulent folks. This is a dating site for mature people. This kind of nonsense gives BPM a bad experience. I personally would never use this site again. I also requested ages between 65-72 and got responses from men 50-55. Some of the pictures of the men were ridiculously displayed.Show lessall4ne
Jesus take the wheel!
This is simply not the site to meet a high quality black partner. The user interface is awful!!!! It is not worth any of your hard or lazy earned money. The marketing and advertising is strong. Their commercials made me tap into to my inner Erykah Badu...ready and willing to cultivate Black Love. However, you have to deliver the product. The site needs better programmers period end. I did meet a high quality black man on another site so I recommend just trying something else until the site matches with the false advertising. BPM could be a good thing...it really could but someone needs to roll up their sleeves and make some tough decisions.Show lessLadyLift83
Don’t Upgrade!!!! Read Reviews!!
Filters don’t work, can’t search Singles within certain mile radius. Whenever you put ANYthing negative about the site in your profile, they delete it and they don’t even want you to disclose if you are an upgraded member, or disgruntled in ANY WAY to give people who haven’t subscribed the impression that everyone is happy and content on the site. But read these reviews. There’s a reason they have in the terms of agreement that they don’t give refunds to anyone. Look at this complaints! They’d go out of business if they gave everyone who complained about the horrible app/site and Cust service their money back! Do not upgrade!!!Show lessTreble N Paradise
