Great idea
No option to message
When you rate how full your tank is, you have then opportunity to write a note. BUT that note is NOT visible to your partner. Only you. I think this is a BIG failure of this app. Because this is the perfect place to bring up the reason you decided on your number. It’s a great spot for your partner to go and look for hints on how you felt well loved or how you might do better next time.
My partner and I are great at communicating, but we are both guilty of not bringing up something small that’s bothering us, just to not interrupt a moment that’s already good.
To be able to message these thoughts in the app when you send your partner an update on how full your tank is, would be really helpful. It would be a great way to bring up how you could have felt more loved, without putting the other person on the spot or make them feel attacked. Because let’s face it, bringing these things up in the moment… can sometimes lead to expressing it in a way that was more emotionally charged than you wanted to come across. The whole point of this app is to help love each other better. I really hope they add a messaging part to it, specifically attached to the tank rating sound he so helpful.