Great idea
I was a good idea and enjoyed the process However it seems they want you to use the website instead. It’s really annoying to have “no in app pitches allowed” every time you click on something. Nothing to do with my settings it’s cause they want you to purchase through website.
No option to message
It is nice to be able to let your partner know how full your love tank is. But I find a number to be very subjective.
When you rate how full your tank is, you have then opportunity to write a note. BUT that note is NOT visible to your partner. Only you. I think this is a BIG failure of this app. Because this is the perfect place to bring up the reason you decided on your number. It’s a great spot for your partner to go and look for hints on how you felt well loved or how you might do better next time.
My partner and I are great at communicating, but we are both guilty of not bringing up something small that’s bothering us, just to not interrupt a moment that’s already good.
To be able to message these thoughts in the app when you send your partner an update on how full your tank is, would be really helpful. It would be a great way to bring up how you could have felt more loved, without putting the other person on the spot or make them feel attacked. Because let’s face it, bringing these things up in the moment… can sometimes lead to expressing it in a way that was more emotionally charged than you wanted to come across. The whole point of this app is to help love each other better. I really hope they add a messaging part to it, specifically attached to the tank rating sound he so helpful.
When you rate how full your tank is, you have then opportunity to write a note. BUT that note is NOT visible to your partner. Only you. I think this is a BIG failure of this app. Because this is the perfect place to bring up the reason you decided on your number. It’s a great spot for your partner to go and look for hints on how you felt well loved or how you might do better next time.
My partner and I are great at communicating, but we are both guilty of not bringing up something small that’s bothering us, just to not interrupt a moment that’s already good.
To be able to message these thoughts in the app when you send your partner an update on how full your tank is, would be really helpful. It would be a great way to bring up how you could have felt more loved, without putting the other person on the spot or make them feel attacked. Because let’s face it, bringing these things up in the moment… can sometimes lead to expressing it in a way that was more emotionally charged than you wanted to come across. The whole point of this app is to help love each other better. I really hope they add a messaging part to it, specifically attached to the tank rating sound he so helpful.
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Requires an account
Requires an email + password and doesn’t support google or apple login. The password field isn’t detected as a password so iOS doesn’t suggest or store the password. Sorry but nobody wants to have to remember passwords anymore. Even if I created an account it would be a showstopper for my wife.
Pointless
Great concept but cannot share mural goals to achieve together with partner. Only I can see the goals that I set? And my partner can see their goals? Just doesn’t work functionally for it’s purpose.
I love it
This app helps me and my boyfriend keep track of our progress and it helps us remind ourselves to keep loving in our partners love language. 10/10.
Long-Distance Language of Love
My partner & I have just recently started having to face long distance & this app has been such a breath of fresh air!! I looove the idea of love languages (though I’m very even & think they are ALL IMPORTANT) I do know for some, it’s very polar. So to assess ourselves for the other to see what we lean on really does help. & then I made my task list of things I can do from afar that touch on his top 3 & minorly on the other two. It is SOOOOOO HELPFUL to have a list on hand to work from to ponder over & think - hmm these I can do EVERYDAY & these might be fun surprises to really make him feel loved. I hope he uses it too cause I feel most loved when my partner just puts in the extra effort to make me feel thought about & little games or ways to connect, small or big, makes me feel safe, secure, & wanted. So THANK YOU for such a lovely app to accompany your book/philosophy & anyone getting it will in the least have a new way to communicate love better to their partner once you both take the short assessment.. love languages, the gottman readings, & attachment styles are to me the top 3 ways to learn about healthy care, habits, communication, & conflict management with your partner!! I wish you all the best of luck on your connective adventures!!!
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No love for singles
I guess this is only for romantic relationships which is disappointing since I came to the app from the website where it asked me if I was single or attached. Wanted to improve my other relationships & be more self aware but no such features. Wish it’d said “couples only”.
Lack of inclusivity is a massive oversight
Once I got to the gender section, I immediately uninstalled this app. You have sexes listed in your gender section, and they’re not even inclusive. Clearly this wasn’t made to consider LGBT+ folks 😒
Stupid suggestions; doesn’t work well if one partner is disabled
The quiz was ludicrous. I was forced to choose between two things neither of which I preferred or was something I can’t do. I do NOT want my phone “nudging” me but if I tell my partner OF 30 years that I hate this app, they will get upset with me. HATE HATE HATE this app!!! Thanks for ruining 30 good years doing it OUR WAY!
I should also note that some of us (spectrum, trauma, abusive past) do NOT want to touch or be touched, but that option was always pitted against a lesser evil I didn’t want either!!!
And forget about being inclusive! This is clearly for traditional male/female couples. You should be very VERY upfront that GLBQetc are not included!!!!
I should also note that some of us (spectrum, trauma, abusive past) do NOT want to touch or be touched, but that option was always pitted against a lesser evil I didn’t want either!!!
And forget about being inclusive! This is clearly for traditional male/female couples. You should be very VERY upfront that GLBQetc are not included!!!!
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Not what I expected…
I thought this would be a fun app, more like a game to play together and take silly quizzes together. Just something fun.
Who needs an app to learn how to love each other and remind you to show your love and appreciation for your partner?!
My husband and I have been together for 25 years and are just as in love today as we were back when we started dating and first fell in love. We have just as much fun, appreciation and love for each today, if not more, being older and more stable you have more opportunities.
Most everything this app suggests we’ve always done and said to each other, It just comes naturally in any good relationship.
This app seems to really be geared towards and pushing gift giving. Nearly every question in the quiz had something to do with receiving gifts. To me that’s very selfish and feels like you’re suggesting that love can be bought. Nobody should need/require gifts to feel loved. If you do you have other problems that need to be addressed!
Other than all of that, the app seems to work just fine. It’s just not for me and my husband!
Who needs an app to learn how to love each other and remind you to show your love and appreciation for your partner?!
My husband and I have been together for 25 years and are just as in love today as we were back when we started dating and first fell in love. We have just as much fun, appreciation and love for each today, if not more, being older and more stable you have more opportunities.
Most everything this app suggests we’ve always done and said to each other, It just comes naturally in any good relationship.
This app seems to really be geared towards and pushing gift giving. Nearly every question in the quiz had something to do with receiving gifts. To me that’s very selfish and feels like you’re suggesting that love can be bought. Nobody should need/require gifts to feel loved. If you do you have other problems that need to be addressed!
Other than all of that, the app seems to work just fine. It’s just not for me and my husband!
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