Are We Dating The Same Guy? User Reviews

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The App is great!

"All those 1-star reviews are from guys who can't get into the app. The idea is awesome!

Toxicity and invasion of privacy, masked as safety

Every girl on this app will spout “it’s for safety”, but really they just wanna gossip and be mad and not self reflect and blame every guy for their problems. They’ll post every single guy in the city and then when they’re done they’ll say “where did all the good guys go?!”. Go take a look around and tell me how many posts are about safety and how many are about games and gossip. And just throwing the buzzwords “narcissist and gaslighter” around without even knowing what those actually mean.

The jokes write themselves here. I mean as a good self respecting guy, and many others I know. None of us would date anyone who participates in these apps anyways so I guess it’s good for filtering out who NOT to give a ring to in the long term.
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Excellent app!

An excellent idea. Much needed for protecting women in the dating world. All of the features for protection and privacy are genius. It’s also a beautiful app. Thank you!

Very Useful

Extremely useful. Thank you! It’s a shame that bitter, angry men are giving this app bad ratings because they’re mad. 🙄 Maybe treat women well and you won’t have to worry about the existence of this app. There’s a thought! 🤔😒

Necessary in 2024

Joined the app to inform others of a convicted violent offender who blackmailed me, physically abused me & tormented me. These apps are necessary to educate and inform the public of potential risks in their area. Often an offender will skip around & travel to other potential victims. People need to be informed as much as possible.
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Safety for Women

This app is a safe haven for women who are dating in present day. It gives them a chance to check and see if a man they are speaking to is who he says he is. Unfortunately, there are a lot of red flags and married men out there who get posted. This app helps women avoid bad situations. Any one star review you see on here is likely from a man who has never been in one of these groups.
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Amazing group of women

Personally, this group has been a lifesaver for me. It has helped me avoid two potentially dangerous situations with men I was considering going out with. The collective vigilance and shared experiences have been invaluable in keeping me safe and informed.

One of the standout features of this group is its sense of camaraderie and mutual support. Members are encouraged to share their stories without judgment, and the advice given is often heartfelt and genuine. It’s refreshing to see such solidarity among women, especially in a world where dating can sometimes feel like a minefield.

The group also serves as an excellent resource for uncovering patterns of behavior that might otherwise go unnoticed. By pooling information, members can quickly spot potential warning signs and make more informed decisions about their dating lives. This collective vigilance is invaluable and has undoubtedly helped many women avoid toxic relationships.
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White supremacist/racist tool and should be illegal

White supremacists historically has used the argument of “safety” of women to justify truly horrible crimes. White supremacist societies utilize the crimes of a few members of a group to justify the hatred of the entirety of a group. See New York frisking all black men because of the crimes of a small minority. This tool exploits the worst of these instincts and should be illegal. It allows for the violation of privacy of an entire group under the false notion of safety. It allows for doxxing where people’s private information is shared to tens and thousands of strangers without their consent. There is no oversight or regulation and lies about doxxed individuals can be told without moderation. Anyone can post anonymously about others with no way to verify stories being told. People whose information are being shared are not notified and have no way to verify the potential lies being told about them. If in fact they are telling the truth why be anonymous? Why allow anonymous posting? If it were freedom of speech, why not allow the people most affected by the lies the same freedom?
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a necessity in an online dating world

This app has been instrumental in my dating life and those of my friends & strangers when it comes to staying safe when meeting men from online. Any man who is upset by this app, is most likely guilty of something — otherwise it shouldn’t be seen as a threat. Women supporting women! Thankful everyday for this app.
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Safe space for woman!

Safe place for woman to warn other woman! It has always been hard to reach out and tell others of abusive men! I have seen Paola around and cares about protecting woman but she won’t tolerate bullying either! That’s what men don’t see is she is one person and tries to monthly or biweekly let everyone know to only speak truths and no bullying of men on looks and to judge lightly on the situation. I think most woman understand that some relationships are great while others are toxic. Just because you were toxic to each other doesn’t mean they will be with the next person. Chemistry!
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