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Not even a decent app, this one.
Okay! Opinions may differ here, but for me this app is a genuine waste of energy (and also money). Remember those times when you could spend $35 a month and use whatever features it gave. Those days are of ancient past, just like the days when the world was normal. I’m not sure if it’s because of the pandemic they decided to make more money off of people or simple greed (I guess both point to the same thing). Because for some reason, now you don’t have the one month option. And you have to pay for at least three months. Such great confidence the developers have in the users getting a match! They’re basically saying- you need at least three months before you can find a match!
Secondly, do these guys even hire decent coders!? Without a premium plan, you can have a limited number of swipes in a 24 hour period. That’s fair! Except it’s not- even after 40 hours, the number of swipes don’t reset. So you’re saying no one can use this app unless they cough up money for those 3 months. C’mmon dude! It’s a simple flag you need to reset here!!
No wonder bumble is doing much better and the daily usage for dil mil is dropping. I expect better from an Asian app. We’re not even trying to deliver upto standards here! BooooooShow lessdilmil critic
Developer Response
Thanks a lot! If you'd like to suggest a feature or an improvement to the app, please write in to us at support@dilmil.co. We'll do our best to incorporate the same and earn a five star rating from you.Judgmental
Honestly, I downloaded this app for the hopes of meeting someone with my similar background. It didn’t happen, most people I have met at super judgmental. But the people on the app aside, the app it self is not very user friendly. I was flagged as a “fake profile” by one of your users and in order for me to unblock my profile I need to scan in my government issued ID which has all my private information. All I want is for Dil mil to delete all my data but they refuse to do it without my ID. I don’t feel comfortable sending that information over, I have had a back and forth with customer service fir weeks and I keep getting the same answer. They have made it difficult for me to come back to them(not like I had any success on this app anyway). I am sure others have had success with this app but honestly, this experience was pretty bad.Show lessjuddnental
Worst Customer support and Buggy Application
They have added new feature called Dil Details where we can see who has already liked you and not. So I was using this application from last two months with VIP elite subscription, suddenly I noticed that I am not getting Matches even if both the person has liked each other (yeah What’s the point of using the app which is made for one and only purpose and not fulfilling it ). So I raised a concern with customer support they accepted that this is going and their engineers are fixing this.(I believe that they are doing this purposefully so user just spends time here more and buy their stupid subscriptions). When I asked what about the money I paid for subscription, they refused to refund or extend my subscription and instead asked me to cancel subscription from apple app store.Show lessyug9522
So so
pros: they are adding more features. I really like that they added users astrology signs. The other day the asked for my license to verify my identity. I’m hoping they do that with others too. It would crack down on fake profiles and people lying about their age etc. because there are a lot of male profiles that state one age, but in the description they write 38 not 32. So I would just advise girls to be careful. Seems like since Dil Mil is for a younger group, older men are lying about their age to match with you ( something is kinda messed up with that, but just wanted to get that out there to help people in their early 20s, so that they don’t get exploited). I know it happens in all apps
Cons: it costs 35/month to be a member. Which is kinda better bc it gives more options and allows you to pick through people. But it’s very expensive compared to other apps like coffee meets bagel ( try that one and filter to south Asian ☺️ to meet more ppl in your area ) and it does not allow a radius selection. The smallest radius you can put is 500 miles. That makes me think that the creators are more about caste than about safety. It’s unrealistic to apply caste system in the west because someone raised on the west coast will be very different that someone from east coast of the US. So it’s more important to be closer and get to know someone than it is to pick someone who is your exact same background after meeting only a few times due to long distance.Show lesstinder user 90
Developer Response
Hi there! We appreciate you taking the time to tell us about your experience. Our team is constantly working to improve our product and has taken your feedback into consideration. We recently released a new feature called profile verification which will help us create a safer Dil Mil community and help tackle some of concerns you raised.Positive experience & Positive results
I had a great experience with using Dil Mil! I NEVER thought I would meet a significant other, my now fiancé, on a dating app since I met all my previous partners in person. I loved that the settings allow you and others to know exactly what you’re looking for, so as to not waste time .
I honestly felt like my fiancé and I met because we were at the right place at the right time. We both relocated to different cities within the same state around the same time. So I was lucky enough to have only had the app for a week when I matched with my now fiancé.
Thank you Dil Mil for bringing us together! We both had great experiences with using the app and can’t recommend it enough to others as well!Show lessrnb2021
Filters don’t work !!
After having some issues with my account I created a new account even though two months of subscription money went down the drain. This was premium membership. I normally use a filter for my community and i was shocked when after couple of swipes it showed there are no more people of that community (due to my previous account I knew this was not true). After couple of days I tried the filter and now it showed me some of the profiles that I had seen before, so clearly they were not created new. This went on happening every two days.
The algorithm is designed to hook you to this app for as long as possible by not showing you all the profiles but showing few at a time. They clearly are not interested in you finding a partner but making as much money as possible from you.
Really disappointed by such shady business tactics!!Show lessfixitdilmil
This app is a total scam
I did not realize I signed up for an elite member free trial that only lasted for 2 days. I was charged $175 for an entire year once my “free trial” was over. I reached out to Apple for a refund and they said that it didn’t meet the requirements for a refund. There are many issues with what happened. First, I have never heard of a free trial only lasting for two days. How does that give you enough time to understand if you like the app/membership? Second, the added benefits of being an elite member are non-existent. I honestly no idea what I am paying for. Third, there are no options to downgrade your subscription from 1 year to anything else. And finally, it seems like Dil Mil has to rely on predatory practices to scam people into paying for a membership. This is unbelievable. You should offer a great product and UX so that people want to pay for your product. I would highly recommend you stay away from this app if you don’t want to get scammed for money.Show lessDil Kill
False advertising
Wish it worked like they advertised. Cos you see it all over social media about their movie scene match stories. However everyone who I’ve been matching with, was fake. Asking for some verification ID in turn asking me for money. Didn’t stand up. Cos been through summit before. Plus when your talking to the opposite, have a look and try and fire random questions. You’ll see they are not even answered. Weird right. But annoyingly it’s the premium price to pay. I doesn’t do much in fact makes the app crash more easily. Recently I can’t even open the app. Sits on loading screen for ever, or asks me to uninstall then reinstall. And doesn’t fix it. If you read this review as a downloaded. Don’t. It’s useless. I’ve your Dil Mil and your reading it. FIX IT.Show lessTannubhai
Developer Response
Hi, we would like to fix this. As we don't have your email address, can you please write to us at support@dilmil.co so that we can help you better. We look forward to your email.Almost all desi women are social climbers
The app feels very similar to Tinder. I wouldn’t mind that, had the concept worked.
The thing that trips up the app from becoming really effective is the social-climbing mentality of desi women. Desi women look to marry someone who earns more, and overwhelmingly prefer the East Coast and West Coast (California in particular). I’m speaking from my 5 years experience on Shaadi, BharatMatrimony and now DilMil.
The whole tendency of Indian families to seek not just compatibility between bride and groom, but also families, has spilled over into the groom-searching habits of Dil Mil. Caste is often listed, which is very racist in the 21st century.
Elite Picks is a feature very similar to Tinder which again trips up because of the social climbing tendencies of Desi Women (even those born in the US, not just Fresh Off the Boat people). These Elite Picks are the most upwardly aspirational of the social climbers, and therefore are a waste of time for most men (who are largely decent people in good paying jobs and shouldn’t have to compete for an “Elite Pick”). I refuse to play the game of competing for “Elite Picks”.
One profile even said that the lady intended to marry to triple her bank balance.
The app needs to add features which make the playing field more level and take away some of the power from these social-climber Desi women.Show lessAndySingh58
Awful
I have been using Dil Mil for a few months now, initially it was fine then I decided to subscribe so that I can see my likes and have more actions available to me. Since paying the rather expensive premium (now a month) I still can’t see who has liked me even though I get notifications to say I’ve been liked. I go into the app, and it displays nothing. In addition, you are only allowed to send one request and super like a month. One a month, for the price you pay, this should be unlimited especially where there are a huge number of time wasters on apps like these. I’ve contacted Dil via their app two weeks ago and haven’t had a reply nor a fix to not being able to see my ‘likes’. The premium is paid upfront, there is not an option to pay monthly so you can’t just stop your payments and so Dil have your money from day one but you’re not getting a lot for it.
The last thing to mention, is girls be weary. I’ve been catfished twice on this app, luckily I google imaged search these individuals before I met up with them. Surely, this app has some sort of vetting system.Show lessSJ44123
Developer Response
Hi, We would like to chat with you with regards to your experience with us. Can you provide us your customer ID at support@dilmil.co so that we can reach out?
