BeMoreKinky User Reviews

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don't waste your time

You cannot do anything meaningful here without having to pay. You get a teaser and everything else is behind a paywall. this app is false advertisement, making you think you can actually enjoy it for free. you cant.

Response from developer

Hi! We have over 250 free activities, free skills training, up to 12 habits for free, free date night games, and 20 free quizzes. You can also check out our blog, which has over 200 free articles. We try to move as much as we can onto our free plan :) If you think there's something else that should be free, let us know at support@bemorekinky.com

Fun but the app is buggy

The wife and I have enjoyed this app. It is fun and great for trying new things and building anticipation. That said the syncing between partners and their preferences doesn’t work great. Especially matching activities! Navigation is a bit counterintuitive also. Not earning points for habits either. Has great potential, but needs some more updates.
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Response from developer

We really appreciate this feedback! App version 5.4.0 rewrote how points for habits are provided and also rebuilt the our realtime systems for preference matching. Would love to hear what you think now! If you're still having any issues, please reach out to support@bemorekinky.com

Bad

Don't try it's glitchy and bad you have to pay for everything

Buggy & Crashes

I’ve only had the app for a short time but have noticed a lot of bugs and the app keeps crashing when I try to open it. Wish I hadn’t upgraded to the paid version.

Response from developer

Hi! Thanks for reaching out and apologies for the disruption! Please upgrade to the latest version, and your bugs/crashes will be resolved. We had an issue with our upstream CDN provider. We removed them in the most recent version (5.1.0), which has resolved the issues.

Can’t accept my partner’s request

I kept getting error messages when trying to accept or invite my partner.

On the right track

I really like the app in concept, I think just some quality of life fixes like notifications not clearing, repeat featured quizzes, and confusing format on different views/responses hold it back.

For example, If I view and compare quiz results with my partner, it doesn’t back out correctly. When I try to back out to the partner landing page, it brings me to the explore page. Then when I try to go back to the partner page, it only shows the quiz info. This remains until I quit out of the app and reopen.

It is also hard to compare/understand responses to things like names if you are both switch. The way it displays interest levels and intensity doesn’t feel intuitive. We ended up missing some things we both enjoyed because the way the information connects is confusing.

To be honest I would probably get the premium upgrade if I felt better about the general UI and functionality overall, but will hold off for now. Hopefully we see patches soon.
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Response from developer

We really appreciate this feedback! I grateful that you appreciate the features themselves, but we had a lot of work to do to make everything seemless and perfect, especially in offline mode. We've had since major releases since this feedback, and I'd be very curious to see what you think of the experience now! If there are any other bugs or interactions you don't expect, always feel free to reach out to support@bemorekinky.com

Great quizzes

Quizzes are great, both for people new/curious to kink as a means to reflect on things they might be curious about and for experienced kinksters to revisit things or start conversations with new partners.

The reason for three stars; the app cuts off words both when putting in play requests or selecting things you want to do. So the expectations can be unclear to the partner.

The app also cuts off the full text to partner when writing out reflections about activities.

I’d rather see these things fixed before the content developers add more experimental/labs sections.
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Response from developer

Hi, thank you for the great feedback! We got a bit excited about the length of some activities. We've now updated the app so that all of the text on play requests or activity ratings roll onto the new line.

Interesting content, poor design

TL;DR: interesting/useful content is let down by poor design that makes answering quizzes (and viewing responses) difficult and/or impossible. If the developer can fix these issues, they’ve got a winner.

Response from developer

Hi, thanks for reaching out! I'd love to more about what difficulties you've having in reviewing results, and whether you're reviewing the mini quizzes or deep profile assessments. This type of feedback would be hugely valuable, so please feel free to reach out to support@bemorekinky.com! Thank you!

aweful

;wife an I tried it out. Links often do not work. The ones that do lock don’t save your preferences;. Whenever I/we leave the site it asked us to do the intro stuff al over again. Waste of money

Response from developer

Hi, thanks for the feedback! On previous versions, interests were cached for five minutes and you sometimes needed to "pull to refresh" to see all of your (or your partner's) ratings. If you can, I'd recommend downloading the latest version (4.0.0) introduces an entirely new realtime system for activity management. If you have any other issues, feel free to reach out to support@bemorekinky.com

Learning and loving

I love the ideas in the app! And learning more about my partner

A surprisingly great Kinky app for couples !!

I am so glad that finally there is a great app that lets us explore the intimacy of kinky relationships. I really love how this Kinky app focuses on communication and discovery between partners. It’s designed in a way that you can express and share your interests with your partner and still feel genuine. The questions and daily activities (some kinky and some not at all) spark real conversations that open up and bring you closer. I like that everything stays just between you two.

It’s been such a refreshing way to explore connection, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally too. The layout is smooth, the reminders are gentle, and the app somehow manages to balance fun with sincerity. It’s definitely one of those tools that helps you grow as a couple and keeps things exciting in a meaningful way.
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I Wish I’d Had This App 30 Years Ago

I’ve been exploring deeper intimacy in my marriage, and recently found this BeMoreKinky app after being an active reader on their website. I have a lot of different relationship apps I’ve used over the years, and this BeMoreKinky app is the closest I have found to what I’ve been looking for. I love that my partner and I can explore different kinks and share them openly in the app. There is a lot to explore for free but the premium content is where you’ll get the most from this app. I only wish I had something like this 30 years ago when I first started exploring kinks and bdsm. This app could have been a real eye opener and accelerated my learning process early on.
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Response from developer

I'm so glad that this is giving you a chance to explore deeper intimacy in your marriage and making those conversations easier. Congrats to both of you!

Fun app

This is a fun app for discovering your kinky side. We use it as a conversation starter and it’s been fun so far. I like that they are adding features to it and seem open to feedback.

Unable to confirm email

I was looking forward to trying this app. I downloaded it on my iPhone, filled out the info and went to create an account. When I clicked the link to confirm my email, it brings me to a popup in safari and says link is invalid, even though the be more kinky site says my email is confirmed. When I try to sign in it tells me my information is incorrect. I tried downloaded chrome to see if it was an issue with safari, but chrome cannot open the verification link from my email, either. I’d love to give a better review if someone can help with these bugs!
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Response from developer

Hi, thanks for reaching out! It's possible your password was incorrect when you signed up originally. If you go to the login screen, input your email, and press "reset password", you'll receive an email with steps to reset your password. You can also bypass passwords entirely by using Google or Apple Sign-In. Please reach out to support@bemorekinky.com if you have any issues. We're here and happy to help you get logged in.

Finally!!! I’ve wanted something like this forever

This app is STUNNING. There are a bunch of apps in this space, but they’re either “tee-hee-hee”, misogynistic, or clinical and boring. This is full of genuinely beautiful art that feels sensual without being explicit. I wish they had art for more non traditional genders, but they do allow you to disable images if it causes dysphoria.

And the ideas in it are really good (but not all for me!). I’ve been in this space for a long time, and it has ideas I haven’t heard before but sound HOT.

Recommending this to everyone, and I think I’ll ask all new play partners to use it!!!
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Keyboard pops up and screen freezes

Happens during quizzes, I noticed. Just downloaded today.

Response from developer

Thank you for letting us know! We identified and solved this issue as part of version 1.1.1. For some phones, the keyboard took up too much space, and it was very difficult to move forward or close the keyboard. Now, whenever a keyboard is open, the screen automatically scrolls down, so it should be easy to either input your note or close the keyboard completely. We really appreciate you letting us know -- and would love to get even more feedback. If you have any more feedback or questions, feel free to email support@bemorekinky.com Thanks again!