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no qualified matches ever
Mostly scammers
Most are looking for someone to take advantage of and the rest are women who don’t take care of themselves. There are a few but there are so many men trying to talk to the few that are worth while and have something going on and bring positive energy.
Don't waste your money
Ended up paying. Never again.
Disappointed
I wish that I didn’t pay for a 6-month subscription! BPM doesn’t even follow my dealbreaker preferences. And it’s hard to easily tell if someone has sent me a message. I don’t plan to renew my subscription.
Looking for marriage and not finding anyone interested in marriage! And I am tired of the deception.
Why, why, why, can't you require people to be honest with their profiles: anywhere from age and height to education to actually looking for a serious relationship and only wanting a hookup. It makes finding your match like finding a needle in a haystack in the haystack is as tall as the Empire State Building. Please, please, please make this more user-friendly! Some of us are actually looking for our life partner!
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Awful
This is one of the worst dating apps. Everything is monetized, so it’s really hard to use the app freely and easily because they want you to pay for every single feature. Also, it seems very antiquated. Even the profile pictures don’t look crisp and clear. it’s just an awful experience. I don’t recommend it. I wish I could give it zero stars.
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Over priced!
It’s over priced compared to other dating apps that this company owns, why? Also no one is in your own town.
Not understanding the app
Not really getting an understanding of the app. Will not renew
Boost
Constant pop ups asking to buy boosts while scrolling is annoying.
Misleading
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Too expensive
It’s too expensive just to meet people. It shouldn’t cost this much. And it’s the same people over and over again who aren’t honest.
Too expensive
The monthly is too expensive and site should offer weekly subscriptions.
Not worth it
My emails is always flooded with notifications saying I hand a message. Finally broke down to check it because this app is unnecessarily expensive and when you go to check all these messages there isn’t even anything there. They bait you into paying an extreme amount of money for nothing. Do not use this app
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Not sure abt this app
It sucks that you can’t see at least a few messages.
Subscriber
I question how this could be the number 1 dating site for black singles? I won’t doubt the ability to connect singles, but subscribers only being able to connect with other subscribers limits the ability to connect. At this point I consider BPM to be more of a number 1 viewing site for black singles, I don’t think it’s worth the membership.
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Check your external references
I am so sorry to say that you really need to go deeper than what is put before you. Go on Facebook and other platforms to see if who the person presents is the same and if you find absolutely nothing anywhere else about an individual that is a BIG RED FLAG! Just my experience and I am sharing just to help the next person out! Be safe out here in BL LAND!
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Hopeless
Date sites have killed the natural order of meeting and dating someone.
High Tech Ripoff
This site is designed to NOT match you. It is making tons of money by exploitation of technology.
We won the lottery!
I had been on this site for over five years and then a cryptic message that was sent out as a “fishing bait” to who knows how many women, but apparently my sassy response and the fact that I included three reasons why long distance shouldn’t be an issue has us where we are. … In love and planning a future.
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Leaves much to be desired
While the app may appear easy to navigate, it is quite glitchy. It freezes and there are issues with navigating while messaging when attempting to send a message. Some likes do not appear in the mobile app so you have to log in on the website. Saved passwords on the mobile app don’t work when signing in on the website. Swiping sensitivity is too high so there are many inadvertent matches with no way to retract them and there is absolutely no regard for preferences.
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