Cray – Dating Safety

Cray – Dating Safety

Find Red Flags Fast

1 ratings
9 reviews
Free
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  • Released
  • Updated
  • September 26, 2025
  • May 6, 2026

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About

This app helps users identify potential red flags and manipulative behaviors in dating situations. It offers private, on-device assessments with detailed reports and checks for common dating scams. The goal is to empower users to make safer, more informed decisions in their romantic pursuits.

Red flag identification
SchemerScore for manipulative behavior
Catfish check for fake identities
Background check for legal issues
Private, on-device data storage
Personalized risk reports
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What's New in Cray

2.3

May 6, 2026

- Removed New Catfish Checks and New Background checks for Contacts at Apple's request - Minor bug fixes & improvements.

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$0.99

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It gives better understanding of your relationship

User reviews

BS App

This app just wants to collect data from your contacts. There is no reason this app should need access to your contacts information since it is not your contacts that are using the app. Their come on is dating safety, in reality it’s data mining you. If it really was for dating safety then they would be looking to access your dating apps, not your personal contacts information.

The below response is complete garbage. It’s an app designed to make using dating apps safer but doesn’t want to access the actual dating apps themselves??? They just want to learn human behavior…from your contacts? This response throws more red flags than no response at all. The response shows the app is straight up data mining you.
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Response from developer

*ORIGINAL RESPONSE* The contacts access is requested so that users have a seamless experience and to gain insights into human behavior by linking assessment data. The data is not sold to anyone, but it will be used to gain better insights into human behavior and patterns of behavior. We do not access dating apps or other social media to generate our score because that method would not provide accurate data. People use impression management online to ensure they hide their red flags. I can promise you that the data I/we collect is not being used for bad purposes. The whole point is to make dating safer, which does require analyzing what kinds of red flags are most reported, if the red flags are consistent between dating partners, etc. You really shouldn’t assume the worst about us, the app was created to save lives and have a meaningful impact on dating safety. To be able to improve the product we need to understand both how it’s used and if it is revealing insights into behavior. Thanks for giving the app a try! *UPDATED RESPONSE* As for connecting to dating apps, the goal some day is to integrate with the dating apps somehow. But currently, the dating app profiles would not provide the kind of insight that would be valuable. People do impression management in their dating profiles and social media. The true way to know what someone is like is through their behavior not the way they post online. As for the phone number issue… The way to gain deeper insights is through overlaying data of multiple people’s experience dating the same person. The only way to do that is to be able to link those people, which would be next to impossible from a “linking data” standpoint without it being tied to phone numbers. Just because Cray plans to use the data to gain insights doesn’t mean it’s for nefarious reasons. For example, what if the same 4 red flags are reported consistently on the same person but another 10 vary greatly. That’s going to be helpful so that we can reorder the questions to be more responsive to real threats. It can also drive educational material we put out through our social media dating education campaigns. I already have begun using both terms and scenarios to educate our customers, the plan is to keep providing more and more help so that people improve their own dating experience, and possibly their dating partners as well.

Total scam

When you put in a name and state for a background check, then pay the $8, the app just crashes. Total scam. Don’t listen to the lame excuses devs will try to make, it’s just a scam for your info. Stay safe.

Response from developer

I’m really sorry for the bad experience, I’ve been trying to fix the app since January. Unfortunately Apple is refusing to let us update the app for the past two months. The in apps have been cut off by them and we have been working to update the app. In the meantime we are also building a web version of the app so that this won’t be an issue in the future, plus we can add some additional functionality. We are definitely not a scam, but I can definitely understand why it would seem that way since the app hasn’t been functioning. I’m hoping Apple will approve one of these submissions soon. The transactions should not be getting charged to your account. If you have been wrongfully charged please send proof to info@cray.app

IMHO, from a DV survivor.

This is SUCH an amazing idea for an app. I’ve had a similar idea, just technologically behind after coming out of behind held hostage in DV 3 years ago. However, IMHO, as a survivor, your app will be the most helpful to women like myself (and new potential victims) if you change the name. The name “cray” will most definitely bring up old (intentionally inflicted) wounds from past/still present abusers creating doubt in the app user on if “they’re really crazy” or am I the “cray” one for looking them up, am I the “cray” one for looking at their past and actions and judging them through an app? Etc.

I get where you’re going w it, but from a survivor who’s educated herself extensively, this is exactly what it will do to them personally, and will be easily DARVO’d by the abuser.
(Deny, Avoid responsibility, Reverse roles of Victim (you) and Offender (the abuser)

If you have any questions, I will gladly answer them, just send me an email. Keep up the good work and good fight.
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Response from developer

It sounds like your situation was a lot to deal with, I’m glad you made it out of it alive. I wish the app were around back the to be able to help you exit that relationship sooner. That being said, 2/5 stars feels a bit harsh over you disagreeing with the name of the app.

Horrible app

Asks for personal information and doesn’t actually provide any service just a long survey after giving away your personal information information, scam app please don’t waste your time.

Response from developer

We do provide a service - after you completed a CrayScore or SchemerScore it provides you with a free report. These reports both identify the red flags and provide guidance to the user - at no cost. Any information we ask for is used to help provide the service to you. The contact record is used for usability consistency or if the in apps are purchased. We do not give away any information of our users. This is a safety app not Facebook.

Thanks everyone

Thanks everyone for your support, this app is meant to provide clarity and peace of mind. Dating authentically is a thing of the past, which is why Cray is so useful.

FAQ

What is Cray?

Cray is a free dating safety app designed to help you identify red flags and potential manipulative behaviors in your dating experiences. It provides private, on-device assessments to give you clarity before making important decisions.

How does Cray help me spot red flags?

Cray offers assessments with over 70 red flags across 18 categories. You can choose from quick, medium, or full checks based on how deeply you want to analyze a situation.

What is the SchemerScore in Cray?

The SchemerScore is a unique feature designed to identify individuals who may be using dating for financial gain, sex, or emotional manipulation. It acts as a radar for potential scammers or opportunists.

Is my data private with Cray?

Yes, Cray is 100% private and all your assessments are stored securely on your own device. Nothing you enter is shared online or made public, ensuring your insights remain yours alone.

Does Cray have ads?

Yes, Cray contains advertisements to support its free service. Users may encounter ads while using the app's features.

What devices does Cray support?

Currently, Cray is supported on iPhone devices. Information regarding availability on other platforms may be updated in the future.

How often is Cray updated?

The latest version of Cray is 2.2, and it was last updated on January 20, 2026. This indicates a commitment to regular updates and improvements.

What is the age rating for Cray?

Cray has an age rating of 17+, suggesting it is intended for mature audiences due to the nature of dating safety and potential sensitive topics.