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Kindred is built on behavioural science. Before names, photos, or chat, you learn how you think, communicate, and handle life, so you can understand each other before you commit. FIVE AREAS, READ SIDE BY SIDE Every shared read looks at the same five areas: • Values Alignment: what each of you puts first, and where your priorities overlap. • Conflict Style: how each of you handles disagreement. • Temperament Fit: how your personalities sit together day to day. • Communication Pattern: how each of you opens up, listens, and asks for what you need. • Lifestyle Fit: the rhythm of the life you each want. The areas draw on published research on conflict, values, attachment, personality and life stress. HOW IT WORKS • Start with yourself. Answer questions about your personality, attachment style, and values, and read your own profile in Insights. • Every day at 9 am, see three people who fit your preferences. No names, one photo each. Saying yes is private. • When you both say yes, Level 1 opens. You each answer four short levels on your own. No two pairs get the same questions, and each level goes a little deeper. • After every level, you both receive the same shared read: where you line up, where you differ, and what is worth talking about. • After Level 4, a final report brings everything together. Reads start conversations. They are not a test or a verdict, and they never decide for you. IT OPENS STEP BY STEP • Names, more photos, and chat open once you both finish Level 2. • Phone numbers, emails, and links stay hidden in chat until you both finish all four levels. • The other person never sees your answers, only the shared read. • Women can turn on Modest mode to blur their photos until Level 2, and Women initiate only to send the first message. FAMILY, IF YOU WANT Invite a guardian to follow your levels and shared reads. They never see your answers or your chats, and you can remove them at any time. SAFETY • Every member takes a selfie when they sign up and can add an official ID. Our team reviews them. • Every profile photo is checked before others see it. • Report or block anyone from their card or your connection, any time. • Kindred is only for single adults who are at least 18 and at least the minimum age where they live. ABOUT THE AI Shared reads are written by AI (Anthropic's Claude) from both people's answers. Anthropic isn't allowed to train on them. You can flag any read for our team to review. FREE No subscriptions and no in-app purchases. You can delete your account and your data at any time from the app. Privacy Policy: https://www.findkindred.app/privacy/ Terms of Use: https://www.findkindred.app/terms/