HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

64K ratings
1655 reviews
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Details

  • Released
  • Updated
  • November 24, 2012
  • August 10, 2026
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Connect with queer women, lesbians, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals for dating and community. Discover local matches, join interest-based groups, and express your authentic self with customizable profiles. Offers both free and premium features for enhanced experiences.

Safe queer dating and chat
Join 30+ interest-based communities
Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
Incognito mode
Advanced search filters
Ad-free experience
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What's New in HER

6.29.2

August 10, 2026

What's new: - When there are no events nearby, the Events tab now suggests people for you to discover, so you can always find your people. - Blocking and reporting are now clearer with a redesigned Support & Safety screen, plus new in-app links for reporting illegal content.

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Subscription plans

HER Gold

HER Gold provides premiere access on the app.

$9.991 Month
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Charts

Top Grossing

📉 37-3

Lifestyle

This app dropped -3 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on August 15, 2026.

Top Free

📈 155+8

Lifestyle

This app rose +8 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on August 15, 2026.

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User reviews

Paywall

If you actually want to find love, you have to do it in person.. I’m not paying just to see a “potential”. I’ll take my chances in person….

Good intentions

Basic free version but you can message and like people, seems a wide variety of people which is good and clear about what their intentions are

Hello? Tech support?

I tried to set up an account five days ago and I’ve never been able to access it. I keep getting an error message when I try to log in. I’ve sent numerous requests to rectify it and I’ve never heard from them. Frustrating, to say the least.

Sucks

That’s it

App needs scammer controls

I like the app, but the amount of scammer accounts have been overwhelming this recently. Fake accounts from China especially. We need an option to Geo Block regions of origin.

Also we should be able to report an account that has been unmatched. This is their MO, get you on another app and they unmatch you. After the scam, you can’t report them to HER.
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User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Repeated profiles showing up

Bug

Incorrect location detection

Bug

Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

Bug

Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to set permanent location

Feature

More profile customization options

Feature

Improved notification controls

Feature

Better messaging system

Feature

FAQ

What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.