HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

64K ratings
1686 reviews
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Details

  • Released
  • Updated
  • November 24, 2012
  • August 31, 2026
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Connect with queer women, lesbians, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals for dating and community. Discover local matches, join interest-based groups, and express your authentic self with customizable profiles. Offers both free and premium features for enhanced experiences.

Safe queer dating and chat
Join 30+ interest-based communities
Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
Incognito mode
Advanced search filters
Ad-free experience
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What's New in HER

6.29.4

August 31, 2026

What's new: * Better chat inbox reliability * Input reliability improvements * Other enhancements across the user experience.

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Subscription plans

HER Gold

HER Gold provides premiere access on the app.

$9.991 Month
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Charts

Top Grossing

📊 30

Lifestyle

The app has maintained its position at 30 recently.

Last updated on September 5, 2026.

Top Free

📈 130+9

Lifestyle

This app rose +9 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on September 5, 2026.

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User reviews

money hungry..

you can only swipe on 2 of your likes at a time it's ridiculous. its unfortunate because i wanted a good wlw dating app but this one is so insanely annoying to use:/ the countdown timer for the likes has literally been paused for me.

50% bots or fake profiles

Too many women who probably aren’t real. You pay for a subscription and then you have to pay more just to see who likes you and be able to communicate with users on the app. You’ll get 50 likes you can’t see in just a few days and then pay to reveal those likes and they all end up being not real people.
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Constant Spam Messages

Do not get this app you will be constantly getting email after email from them. I blocked their email sent it to Spam filtered it and there’s no way out of it. It has been reported but do not get this app.

Match Group ruined HER

First of all, if you get blocked by someone you matched with because they’re a transphobe and don’t read, you still are forced to see them for 10 days in your messages. No ability to delete. So they self ruined the app for the next week and a half. Worst of all, HER was advertised on OkCupid, which I saw, that ad brought a ton of straight guys to this little lesbian bar, if you will. Now it’s overrun with straight guys harassing us. In the last week or so, way more straight guys liked me than women, extremely unusual. Or used to be! They trashed our space. It was such a nice experience. But Match Group is bigoted af anyway. They ruined dating. NEVER GIVE THEM ANY MONEY. They don’t deserve it.
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User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Repeated profiles showing up

Bug

Incorrect location detection

Bug

Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

Bug

Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to set permanent location

Feature

More profile customization options

Feature

Improved notification controls

Feature

Better messaging system

Feature

FAQ

What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.