HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

63K ratings
1573 reviews
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Details

  • Released
  • Updated
  • November 24, 2012
  • July 14, 2026
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Connect with queer women, lesbians, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals for dating and community. Discover local matches, join interest-based groups, and express your authentic self with customizable profiles. Offers both free and premium features for enhanced experiences.

Safe queer dating and chat
Join 30+ interest-based communities
Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
Incognito mode
Advanced search filters
Ad-free experience
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What users say

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What's New in HER

6.29.1

July 14, 2026

Updates and bug fixes

Subscription plans

Her Premium

Her Premium gives you the best of the best on the app. All the features, like Who Liked Me, Change Location, Unlimited Swipes and many more. Get ready to level up with this Premium subscription.

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7 Days trial
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Charts

Top Grossing

📉 28-1

Lifestyle

This app dropped -1 position in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on July 19, 2026.

Top Free

📈 142+10

Lifestyle

This app rose +10 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on July 19, 2026.

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User reviews

I thought this was supposed to be for women??

This app has gone downhill immensely over the years. It has decent features in concept, but politics ruined it because now you have to slog through a ton of MEN’s profiles (which are usually pretty perverted I notice, or blatantly lying by calling themselves actual lesbians, or both) so it’s harder to find actual women. I actually feel bad for the creator. It used to be an awesome place to meet other women even if it was just to have a running buddy or something.
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Why are there men on here?

If it’s an app for HER , let it be for HER not HIM, men have grinder. Why are there men on here?

I wish we could search users

Once you initially message, someone, you can’t go on their profile and start a message thread afterwards. You have to search through your archive to find them as there is no search bar on the message as well.. As a premium user, it is kind of an inconvenience because you can look at all of the likes, but you can’t message directly! Still a great app just wish this one bug was fixed
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Is there a zero star i can check?

Horrible app for emotionally available people or for good looking healthy people who are not looking for hookups only or threesomes or obese men pretending to be women- also can they clean up the scam phishing accounts who are somewhere in asia or russia and want to take you off app and on whatsapp only so they can ask you for money.
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Not worth your time

Pretty sure a large chunk of the user base is scam bots and inactive accounts. Also they lock the ability to see who liked you behind a paywall, making it difficult to actually connect with anyone.

I guess I’ll update my review if anything changes, but I’m probably gonna try something else.
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Update:
I have started a few conversations, but the majority of the people who like my profile are middle-aged men who want hookups, which is not what this app is supposedly meant for.
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User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Repeated profiles showing up

Bug

Incorrect location detection

Bug

Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

Bug

Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to set permanent location

Feature

More profile customization options

Feature

Improved notification controls

Feature

Better messaging system

Feature

FAQ

What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.