HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

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Details

  • Released
  • Updated
  • November 24, 2012
  • July 14, 2026
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Connect with queer women, lesbians, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals for dating and community. Discover local matches, join interest-based groups, and express your authentic self with customizable profiles. Offers both free and premium features for enhanced experiences.

Safe queer dating and chat
Join 30+ interest-based communities
Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
Incognito mode
Advanced search filters
Ad-free experience
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What's New in HER

6.29.1

July 14, 2026

Updates and bug fixes

Subscription plans

HER Gold

HER Gold provides premiere access on the app.

$9.991 Month
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Charts

Top Grossing

📈 34+2

Lifestyle

This app rose +2 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on August 8, 2026.

Top Free

📉 167-12

Lifestyle

This app dropped -12 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on August 8, 2026.

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User reviews

Expensive, scammy, and NOT queer friendly

First and foremost, WHY are there men on app called her?? AMAB men on a lesbian dating app??? And this was a common occurrence btw.

Next, just about every feature is locked behind a paywall. And at $20 a month, I find that ridiculous and unfair. I truly hope to never reach the level of desperation one would need to pay that. However, if I did, it certainly wouldn't be with this godawful app. I'd go to one of the straight ones like hinge.

Letting your users sort basic preferences like age and gender should absolutely not be locked behind a paywall and raise serious ethical questions for an app that's marketed towards queer people. We continue to fight and search for safe spaces, and this app certainly is not that. Do better.
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Overrated

This app has way too many bots and people who report things for no reason for me to pay money for this app or even use it. Wasted my money and I barely had it for 2 days. I guess it helps some people out but not for me or my community. I’m just stunned with no words right now. I’m pretty embarrassed. So strictly opinionated based rates snd based on our personal experiences so you should just figure it out yourself and then give your feedback.
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The best

The best dating app for queer

Best

This is the safest dating app and i just love it!!!!

Don’t bother if you are a rural queer

Unless you live in a big queer destination city, you won’t find many real profiles from living breathing people. The few one does get shown while being queer in the sticks end up being bots 9.5 times out of 10… else someone far too young (or old depending on your age and life stage) and likely 200+ miles away. I’d rather go back to AOL chat rooms circa 1997 than spend another moment on this app. Glad at least I never wasted actual money here.
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User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Repeated profiles showing up

Bug

Incorrect location detection

Bug

Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

Bug

Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to set permanent location

Feature

More profile customization options

Feature

Improved notification controls

Feature

Better messaging system

Feature

FAQ

What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.