HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

64K ratings
1679 reviews
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Details

  • Released
  • Updated
  • November 24, 2012
  • August 19, 2026
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About

Connect with queer women, lesbians, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals for dating and community. Discover local matches, join interest-based groups, and express your authentic self with customizable profiles. Offers both free and premium features for enhanced experiences.

Safe queer dating and chat
Join 30+ interest-based communities
Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
Incognito mode
Advanced search filters
Ad-free experience
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What's New in HER

6.29.3

August 19, 2026

Various stability improvements and bug fixes to keep things running smoothly.

Subscription plans

HER Gold

HER Gold provides premiere access on the app.

$9.991 Month
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Charts

Top Grossing

📈 40+1

Lifestyle

This app rose +1 position in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on August 28, 2026.

Top Free

📉 168-10

Lifestyle

This app dropped -10 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on August 28, 2026.

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User reviews

Weird

They said it was an app for lesbians, which I myself am one, so naturally I went on, but no matter what men would always like or message me even though my profile says lesbian/attracted only to women. I don’t want to see trans men or non-binary, I only want women and it’s sad to see that it simply isn’t an option to be considered. When I did look and see if there was anything I could do to fix this, it didnt let me unless I paid. Why would I need to pay to only get women? That’s so weird and excluding to lesbians.

Anyway, I suggest getting another dating app. Dont get this one if you’re only attracted to one gender, because they will always throw anybody and everybody at you.
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Scam

Scammed no help.

Good vibes only

Good

Great when the person is real

The app is great but the chat is a little buggy and doesn’t refresh well. I have to go out and back in often.
My biggest issue is the abundance of fake profiles. If I talk to 10 connections, 8 of them are fake people trying to get your off app to chat for a scam. Yes, they are fake and soon after you refuse they block you. HER needs to verify people better that they are real. An email just isn’t enough. Other apps do better.
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Nah

Not enough engagement on the app like other dating apps. The girls are extremely desperate.

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User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Repeated profiles showing up

Bug

Incorrect location detection

Bug

Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

Bug

Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to set permanent location

Feature

More profile customization options

Feature

Improved notification controls

Feature

Better messaging system

Feature

FAQ

What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.