HER User Reviews

Customer Experience

Positive experience32.6% of reviews
Neutral10.0% of reviews
Negative experience57.4% of reviews

~ Based on 1,655 written reviews from the US App Store.

What users say

Is HER Safe?

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating appears safe based on user ratings. AppsHunter Safety Score for HER is 88/100.

This assessment is based on 63,835 user ratings, with an App Store average of 4.4/5.

Safety Analysis

84.9% of ratings point to a safe experience
6.6% of ratings suggest some concerns
8.5% of ratings point to a risky experience

~ Based on 63,835 App Store ratings for HER.

Is HER Legit?

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating appears to be a legitimate app. AppsHunter Legitimacy Score for HER is 83/100.

Based on 83 of 100 points across 7 verification signals from App Store and developer data.

Top reviews

Paywall

If you actually want to find love, you have to do it in person.. I’m not paying just to see a “potential”. I’ll take my chances in person….

Good intentions

Basic free version but you can message and like people, seems a wide variety of people which is good and clear about what their intentions are

Hello? Tech support?

I tried to set up an account five days ago and I’ve never been able to access it. I keep getting an error message when I try to log in. I’ve sent numerous requests to rectify it and I’ve never heard from them. Frustrating, to say the least.

Sucks

That’s it

App needs scammer controls

I like the app, but the amount of scammer accounts have been overwhelming this recently. Fake accounts from China especially. We need an option to Geo Block regions of origin.

Also we should be able to report an account that has been unmatched. This is their MO, get you on another app and they unmatch you. After the scam, you can’t report them to HER.
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UNFAIR APP & COMPANY

My account was banned over moody sapphics? Not sure because they won’t even tell me! Yet tranny men can wear diapers?????? This app makes no sense and is completely unfair to its users! Garbage

Wtf

My account was put on pause for breaking a community guideline and it wouldn’t even tell me what guideline I broke.

Garbage.

Too many fake profiles, lots of cis guys and a membership is pretty pricey..

hopeless

if you can’t afford spending $20 a WEEK then you’re not able to use the app at all.

don’t bother

man i just downloaded it and i can’t upload literally any picture… am i not gay enough?? anyways feels like a hate crime bye

Weird and ignorantly expensive

Makes you pay for every little feature or wait to see accounts behind a paywall. Even then dudes get on there being weird and creepy. Just stuck to tinder

Better App

This is much better than the other apps I have used. Only complaint is they will ban you for no reason sometimes? Maybe if it gets reported they just have to look into it first but that was annoying. Besides that it’s wayyy better then any others I have used

strange

i flagged a cis man on the app and i got suspended, the app is now becoming full of cis men preying on lesbians for their fetishes

Disappointed

I allegedly broke community guidelines. I'm above 18, posted photos only of myself, and sent one slightly flirty message. I've sent multiple emails to the support email asking for an explanation,and haven't received anything in return. I would warn others but I don't even know what I'd be warning of. Don't get this app
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Too restrictive

The focus on this app has become about making money, instead of helping people find love… you can’t do anything, but create a profile and swipe (w/ limits) — can’t do much without paying… we as people have to start pushing back against all this subscription BS and stop paying for it so they understand what the purpose is here… ridiculous! $15-19/wk or even $20-25 is WAY TOO MUCH, yall are way too GREEDY!!!
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App needs scammer controls

I like the app, but the amount of scammer accounts have been overwhelming this recently. Fake accounts from China especially. We need an option to Geo Block regions of origin.

Expensive, scammy, and NOT queer friendly

First and foremost, WHY are there men on app called her?? AMAB men on a lesbian dating app??? And this was a common occurrence btw.

Next, just about every feature is locked behind a paywall. And at $20 a month, I find that ridiculous and unfair. I truly hope to never reach the level of desperation one would need to pay that. However, if I did, it certainly wouldn't be with this godawful app. I'd go to one of the straight ones like hinge.

Letting your users sort basic preferences like age and gender should absolutely not be locked behind a paywall and raise serious ethical questions for an app that's marketed towards queer people. We continue to fight and search for safe spaces, and this app certainly is not that. Do better.
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Overrated

This app has way too many bots and people who report things for no reason for me to pay money for this app or even use it. Wasted my money and I barely had it for 2 days. I guess it helps some people out but not for me or my community. I’m just stunned with no words right now. I’m pretty embarrassed. So strictly opinionated based rates snd based on our personal experiences so you should just figure it out yourself and then give your feedback.
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The best

The best dating app for queer

Best

This is the safest dating app and i just love it!!!!