HER User Reviews

Customer Experience

Positive experience32.3% of reviews
Neutral9.8% of reviews
Negative experience57.9% of reviews

~ Based on 1,686 written reviews from the US App Store.

What users say

Is HER Safe?

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating appears safe based on user ratings. AppsHunter Safety Score for HER is 88/100.

This assessment is based on 64,302 user ratings, with an App Store average of 4.4/5.

Safety Analysis

84.9% of ratings point to a safe experience
6.6% of ratings suggest some concerns
8.5% of ratings point to a risky experience

~ Based on 64,302 App Store ratings for HER.

Is HER Legit?

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating appears to be a legitimate app. AppsHunter Legitimacy Score for HER is 93/100.

Based on 93 of 100 points across 7 verification signals from App Store and developer data.

Top reviews

money hungry..

you can only swipe on 2 of your likes at a time it's ridiculous. its unfortunate because i wanted a good wlw dating app but this one is so insanely annoying to use:/ the countdown timer for the likes has literally been paused for me.

50% bots or fake profiles

Too many women who probably aren’t real. You pay for a subscription and then you have to pay more just to see who likes you and be able to communicate with users on the app. You’ll get 50 likes you can’t see in just a few days and then pay to reveal those likes and they all end up being not real people.
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Constant Spam Messages

Do not get this app you will be constantly getting email after email from them. I blocked their email sent it to Spam filtered it and there’s no way out of it. It has been reported but do not get this app.

Match Group ruined HER

First of all, if you get blocked by someone you matched with because they’re a transphobe and don’t read, you still are forced to see them for 10 days in your messages. No ability to delete. So they self ruined the app for the next week and a half. Worst of all, HER was advertised on OkCupid, which I saw, that ad brought a ton of straight guys to this little lesbian bar, if you will. Now it’s overrun with straight guys harassing us. In the last week or so, way more straight guys liked me than women, extremely unusual. Or used to be! They trashed our space. It was such a nice experience. But Match Group is bigoted af anyway. They ruined dating. NEVER GIVE THEM ANY MONEY. They don’t deserve it.
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Hello

too much premium stuff

Transphobic app

The T4T filter is free for a certain number of profiles every week but after you reach that limit it says “see more curated profiles with Her Premium.” So essentially you have to pay to filter for T4T? Technically cis lesbians would have to pay to filter only for cis lesbians I guess but they functionally don’t need to cuz they make up the vast majority of users anyway
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useless

This app isn’t even helpful to find people to date, it’s money hungry. Why am i supposed to pay to see who has swiped on me. No i don’t want to pay on who has viewed my profile. So stupid.

Weird

They said it was an app for lesbians, which I myself am one, so naturally I went on, but no matter what men would always like or message me even though my profile says lesbian/attracted only to women. I don’t want to see trans men or non-binary, I only want women and it’s sad to see that it simply isn’t an option to be considered. When I did look and see if there was anything I could do to fix this, it didnt let me unless I paid. Why would I need to pay to only get women? That’s so weird and excluding to lesbians.

Anyway, I suggest getting another dating app. Dont get this one if you’re only attracted to one gender, because they will always throw anybody and everybody at you.
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Scam

Scammed no help.

Good vibes only

Good

Great when the person is real

The app is great but the chat is a little buggy and doesn’t refresh well. I have to go out and back in often.
My biggest issue is the abundance of fake profiles. If I talk to 10 connections, 8 of them are fake people trying to get your off app to chat for a scam. Yes, they are fake and soon after you refuse they block you. HER needs to verify people better that they are real. An email just isn’t enough. Other apps do better.
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Nah

Not enough engagement on the app like other dating apps. The girls are extremely desperate.

Disappointed

I’m already having a issue with the app can’t update the app

Pleas change your ai face review to ID photos

I’m sure the actual app is good but tbh I’m quite angry with it. I tried to make an acount as an 18 year old woman I have several health conditions that make my face seem a lot younger then 18 I was prepared to take a photo of my I’d to prove I was 18, which other apps do which I think is quite reasonably and important, but instead it wanted me to take a photo of my face and then let ai analyse it to work out if I was 18. which tbh I think is discriminative and exclusionary as a lot of people look younger then they actually are due to many reasons so then it blocked me from going on the app because some ai decided I wasn’t 18. I really think you should change this to taking a photo of passports and ids if you don’t want any other people to be excluded from your app.
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They do not respond to emails

Have been sending emails regarding a cancellation for 3 weeks requesting a refund and a cancellation of the subscription and no one has gotten back to me!

Unauthorised charges

Not using this app again. Just got charged for the next week subscription few day AFTER canceling and deleting my account. This is not cool at all

This app sucks

Not only is there guys on here but after like 3 messages with people, they just stop responding. This is extremely frustrating.

Really Bad

They only care about the money, features that should be free are an extortionate price. It’s frustrating and uncomfortable because i’ve set my preferences to women, not transgender, just women and i’m still getting them and men in general, it feels extremely odd considering i’m trying to form my algorithm for my preferences i’m still being shown people i have no interest in or it’s repeats and i have over 20 likes and can’t see any without having to pay and the only like i was able to see recently was a trans woman… this app is just gross
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Almost all bots

Downloaded with the hopes of finding company. 99% of the profiles that “like” me are bots pretending to be sugar mommies. You can’t see more than five people who “like” you at a time, and almost every time I ever did get to view them, four out of the five people were always bots or scams. If you’re a broke collage kid, don’t waste your time on this app. Just not worth it.
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ZERO STARS

Awful app. Can’t delete account?! Weirdos continue to text & ‘like’ me despite me being offline and inactive. I had multiple bad experiences with people I’ve met up with thru HER. Recommended ppl far from my age. Unethical. Not reality. Terrible. Stay away for your own good.