HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

65K ratings
1777 reviews
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  • Released
  • Updated
  • November 24, 2012
  • September 28, 2026
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Connect with queer women, lesbians, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals for dating and community. Discover local matches, join interest-based groups, and express your authentic self with customizable profiles. Offers both free and premium features for enhanced experiences.

✓Safe queer dating and chat
✓Join 30+ interest-based communities
✓Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
✓Incognito mode
✓Advanced search filters
✓Ad-free experience
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What's New in HER

6.29.6

September 28, 2026

What's new: * Refreshed look and feel for likes * Smoother chat navigation * Other enhancements across the user experience.

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Subscriptions & In-App Purchases

HER Gold

HER Gold provides premiere access on the app.

$9.991 Month
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Charts

Top Grossing

📈 38+1

Lifestyle

This app rose +1 position in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on October 14, 2026.

Top Free

📉 133-1

Lifestyle

This app dropped -1 position in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on October 14, 2026.

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User reviews

Not the same anymore

The App should not be called HER anymore. Too many straight men allowed on the app.

No Support Help

My account got put on hold for no reason. I followed all of the terms and was having a lot of fun on there for about a week. After a week I got locked out and tried to contact support. I’ve been trying to get in contact with a representative for TWO WEEKS! All they have is a stupid automated bot that emails you and tells you “idk what happened, but you probably did something wrong. Good luck!” I eventually gave up and deleted the app. Thankfully I got a date out of it, but Jesus Christ fix your customer service.
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Customer Service is Abysmal

Really rough for queer people to be on an app and try to upgrade only to be met with major glitches and no customer service support.

Account frozen

This app froze my account, did not give me a notice or anything , when it was time to renew , I couldn’t even access the account so was charged for the subscription, reached out to customer service via email about the issue and never , til this day had gotten a response and I sent several
Beware - it’s a scam
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Needs to root out all the bots and scammers

Frustrating. Hard to find real ppl in your area if not living in a big city. Bots are convincing and inflate likes. Cannot view likes w/o $15 a month. Scammers are really around too. Be careful

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User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Repeated profiles showing up

Bug

Incorrect location detection

Bug

Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

Bug
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Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to set permanent location

Feature

More profile customization options

Feature

Improved notification controls

Feature

Better messaging system

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FAQ

What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.