HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

64K ratings
1658 reviews
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Details

  • Released
  • Updated
  • November 24, 2012
  • August 19, 2026
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Connect with queer women, lesbians, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals for dating and community. Discover local matches, join interest-based groups, and express your authentic self with customizable profiles. Offers both free and premium features for enhanced experiences.

Safe queer dating and chat
Join 30+ interest-based communities
Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
Incognito mode
Advanced search filters
Ad-free experience
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What users say

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What's New in HER

6.29.3

August 19, 2026

Various stability improvements and bug fixes to keep things running smoothly.

Subscription plans

HER Gold

HER Gold provides premiere access on the app.

$9.991 Month
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Charts

Top Grossing

📊 43

Lifestyle

The app has maintained its position at 43 recently.

Last updated on August 25, 2026.

Top Free

📉 143-6

Lifestyle

This app dropped -6 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on August 25, 2026.

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User reviews

Men are ruining everything… as always

Too many men, too many profiles with no face pictures, and far too many fake accounts. On top of that, the option to filter and show only verified accounts is locked behind a paid feature.

That would be somewhat understandable if the app didn’t have more men and fake profiles than actual women. As it stands, though, it completely defeats the purpose of the app and makes the whole experience frustrating and practically unusable.
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Bait and switch

Seriously I used to like this app, but they have made it practically mandatory to have premium to get anything out of it. I am easing into things and got gold so I could just explore and see how I fit with it, but every connection, seeing who connects, is hidden behind an even higher paywall. If that’s the case then just have premium since that seems to be the only level that allowed for anything. I feel a little bit like they were bait and switching with what was possible to accomplish with the gold. It would be more transparent and better for users if they just skipped the games. I won’t be coming back.
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Garbage SCAM APP — DELETE

HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE. FIRST MESSAGE WAS A CRYPTO SCAMMER ASKING ME FOR MONEY. I TROLLED THE SCAMMER AND TOLD THEM TO F OFF AND SEND ME THE BITCOINS AND I GOT PERMA BANNED IN 1 hours— HORRIBLE HORRIBLE VOMIT APP, GARBAGE— CONTACTING CUSTOMER SUPPORT DOES NOTHING GARBAGE— GARBAGE —GARBAGE —-GARBAGE. They LET THE SCAMMED GET ME BANNED. New USER EXPERIENCE >> INSTALL GARBAGE APP— GET CONTACTED BY BITCOIN SCAMMERS ASKING ME FOR MONEY— THEN YOU GET PERMA BANNED — WHAT A GENIUS APP — GREAT CUSTOMER EXPERIENCE IDIOTS
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Paywall

If you actually want to find love, you have to do it in person.. I’m not paying just to see a “potential”. I’ll take my chances in person….

Good intentions

Basic free version but you can message and like people, seems a wide variety of people which is good and clear about what their intentions are

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User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Repeated profiles showing up

Bug

Incorrect location detection

Bug

Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

Bug

Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to set permanent location

Feature

More profile customization options

Feature

Improved notification controls

Feature

Better messaging system

Feature

FAQ

What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.