HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

65K ratings
1705 reviews
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Details

  • Released
  • Updated
  • November 24, 2012
  • September 14, 2026
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Connect with queer women, lesbians, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals for dating and community. Discover local matches, join interest-based groups, and express your authentic self with customizable profiles. Offers both free and premium features for enhanced experiences.

Safe queer dating and chat
Join 30+ interest-based communities
Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
Incognito mode
Advanced search filters
Ad-free experience
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What's New in HER

6.29.5

September 14, 2026

What's new: * Some minor refreshed visuals * Reply reminders in Meet * further improved chat reliability * Other enhancements across the user experience.

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Subscription plans

HER Gold

HER Gold provides premiere access on the app.

$9.991 Month
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Charts

Top Grossing

📉 32-2

Lifestyle

This app dropped -2 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on September 15, 2026.

Top Free

📈 142+2

Lifestyle

This app rose +2 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on September 15, 2026.

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User reviews

Fakeville

Soooo many fakes, its not even worth it!!
Please clean it up!!

Overrun by straight couples and your “preferences” are completely ignored

Capitalist romance app where you’ll get pimped out as a unicorn.
You’ll have hundreds of “likes” and they will only show you 5 people every 24 hours. 4/5 of those people will fall way outside your preferences: big age gaps, super far distances, looking for different things, fake/outdated profiles and SO MANY STRAIGHT COUPLES. You’ll come across one normal person about once every other month. The awful matching system and lack of ability to talk to the people who have actually liked you is sad and disappointing. It’s an app where straight people can prey on younger queer women because it makes them think that is all that is available to them in the dating pool… unless you pay them more than minimum wage. Big L for the queer community.
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App is trash

The app is supposed to be for gay women but there’s more men on the app then women. The app is charging for subscriptions but there’s no confirmation of linking or getting to know anyone due to it being a man behind the profile. It isn’t worth spending money for a subscription for.

Found my forever

I usually never write reviews, but I feel like this deserves one. I’ve tried some dating apps like Tinder and Hinge, but all were too complicated. This app really is easy to use and I love the sticker options and question prompts. In May, I found my now girlfriend of 3 months, and things have been going really smoothly. I’m very happy to have met her through this app, I haven’t felt a love such as this one. Forget what everyone says about dating app relationships, they do work out when they are the right people… Thank you for helping me find my forever.
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Needs better verification

Found amazing people… that I thought were real. There’s too much catfishing, scamming, “sugar mama’s”, looking for thirds.
Like y’all really need to have better verification for the security and safety of your users. Verification needs to be a requirement. Not an option. People steal others pictures from random places and make profiles pretending to be them. Good thing I know how to look for these things but this is happening way too often and it’s really pissing me off. Face recognition should be required so should a social media account link that is also verified. I’m on Raya and they have extensive verifications to even be on there.
Do better. Please fix this.
-an unhappy user
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User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Repeated profiles showing up

Bug

Incorrect location detection

Bug

Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

Bug

Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to set permanent location

Feature

More profile customization options

Feature

Improved notification controls

Feature

Better messaging system

Feature

FAQ

What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.