HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating

Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

64K ratings
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  • Released
  • Updated
  • November 24, 2012
  • July 14, 2026
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Connect with queer women, lesbians, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals for dating and community. Discover local matches, join interest-based groups, and express your authentic self with customizable profiles. Offers both free and premium features for enhanced experiences.

Safe queer dating and chat
Join 30+ interest-based communities
Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
Incognito mode
Advanced search filters
Ad-free experience
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What's New in HER

6.29.1

July 14, 2026

Updates and bug fixes

Subscription plans

HER Gold

HER Gold provides premiere access on the app.

$9.991 Month
How to cancel HER subscription ⁉️

Charts

Top Grossing

📉 38-2

Lifestyle

This app dropped -2 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on August 4, 2026.

Top Free

📈 163+3

Lifestyle

This app rose +3 positions in Lifestyle chart.

Last updated on August 4, 2026.

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User reviews

Flooded with scams

At first I could really appreciate the app and the space it holds for everyone but cis men. It’s almost perfect. But there are so many “sugar mommy” scams on the app that it makes it almost unsuable. I would say on average 9/10 of my likes are from these scam accounts that are trying to take your money. I wish the developers would filter these things out or give an option to filter out keyboard s in peoples profiles. Until this issue is resolved I would say the app is fine as long as you are prepared to deal with this frustration
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impossible to use without subscription

App is good, i like that it is dedicated to preserving the wlw community but it doesn’t let you see who has liked you unless you pay an obscene amount of money for a subscription or wait 24 hours every 3 likes you open and there’s no control over which likes they are. There’s also no way to filter out age preference or location so I’m wasting my time clicking through likes from 40 yr old women from a different state when I want to be looking at likes from girls my age and in my town.
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Useless, bug ridden and non-existent customer service 0 STARS

Honestly don’t bother, decided to give it another try and my account is on hold due to ‘network problems’ what does that mean and why do customer service not respond for months. It’s not a new issue but one they have no desire to fix and I don’t even trust them to delete my data

Over charged- Will not reply to customer service emails

I was $24.99 charged weekly for several months when the advertised price is $24.99 a month, Apple refuses to refund, and Her will not reply. DO NOT SUBSCRIBE!

Flooded with bots, men, and bigots.

I’ve been using this app since around November last year, and I have never had a single match that went anywhere.

The app is constantly flooded with the same stream of bots that somehow never get flagged off the bat. Every day I get 2/3 likes off of the same bots. The second plague is the men on this site trying to “prove us wrong” or whatever, most of the time it’s lads who don’t realise this place is for queer women, or they’re cosplaying as non binary to “experiment” (this actually happened to me on this app btw).

The third and most concerning is the amount of bigots and transphobes this app harbours, the amount of times I’ve had people match w me before they say “oh you’re a trans?” Is concerning and shouldn’t be allowed or even tolerated on such an app. Dgaf if you’re queer, if you’re transphobic you’re not welcome in our community.

This app sucks, please just go outside and meet real people everyone.
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User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Repeated profiles showing up

Bug

Incorrect location detection

Bug

Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

Bug

Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to set permanent location

Feature

More profile customization options

Feature

Improved notification controls

Feature

Better messaging system

Feature

FAQ

What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.