Honest experience with Mutual
I’ve used Mutual on and off for years…and for the last 3 or so years I have had 0 matches. The year before that all my matches were guys looking for one night stands.
I am tired of all my likes being from foreign countries or from guys who have no standards.
I joined mutual in 2019. I have spent hundreds of dollars on premium throughout the years and in return have had a grand total of 4 guys I actually went on dates with that I matched with. I don’t think I matched with more than 10-20 guys, of which 75% or so either never messaged or responded.
Notes and gold notes are a joke, since all of the ones I got were either “hi” or a really nice message from a guy in Nigeria, Brazil, or elsewhere that realistically would never work out. All the ones I sent I never heard back from…so my best guess is they were not interested? But there is no way to know since the people you send notes to do not disappear from your like history if they swipe down.
Maybe my standards are “too high” wanting a guy who wants to get married in the temple for himself, has some form of form of education outside of just high school, and actually lives somewhere we could realistically go out and make something happen.
Now, mutual has made a lot of good, and even great improvements. Seeing who you liked, blind speed dating which I admit I unfortunately never got to do (Sunday evenings I get caught up with family and forget), and seeing one person a day who liked you for free members are great. It’s just once again 98% of my likes…are from foreign countries, or guys with no standards.
With that said, I’m done with the app. If Mutual ever decides to implement being able to block people from seeing my profile outside of state/country/distance something, I would be happy to check it out again because that is my #1 biggest frustration with it. I’m tired of wasting my time and money on swiping down on foreign likes.
I am tired of all my likes being from foreign countries or from guys who have no standards.
I joined mutual in 2019. I have spent hundreds of dollars on premium throughout the years and in return have had a grand total of 4 guys I actually went on dates with that I matched with. I don’t think I matched with more than 10-20 guys, of which 75% or so either never messaged or responded.
Notes and gold notes are a joke, since all of the ones I got were either “hi” or a really nice message from a guy in Nigeria, Brazil, or elsewhere that realistically would never work out. All the ones I sent I never heard back from…so my best guess is they were not interested? But there is no way to know since the people you send notes to do not disappear from your like history if they swipe down.
Maybe my standards are “too high” wanting a guy who wants to get married in the temple for himself, has some form of form of education outside of just high school, and actually lives somewhere we could realistically go out and make something happen.
Now, mutual has made a lot of good, and even great improvements. Seeing who you liked, blind speed dating which I admit I unfortunately never got to do (Sunday evenings I get caught up with family and forget), and seeing one person a day who liked you for free members are great. It’s just once again 98% of my likes…are from foreign countries, or guys with no standards.
With that said, I’m done with the app. If Mutual ever decides to implement being able to block people from seeing my profile outside of state/country/distance something, I would be happy to check it out again because that is my #1 biggest frustration with it. I’m tired of wasting my time and money on swiping down on foreign likes.
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Pictures
I like to see what people look like, not there pets or vacation locations, real pictures of them self.
Met my wife
I met my eternal wife through mutual. 100% recommend, I love her so much and I was usually against dating apps but after meeting her I am grateful to have this as a catalyst for our relationship.
Horrible for older singles!!
Horrible ! Everyone I like doesn’t like me and everyone I don’t like likes me! Plus you can barely write any profile ! It’s probably great for you her single adults but it’s not for older ones!
Not a fan
The app doesn’t seem to work all that well. The filters I set are within my country for the most part and it only shows people from Ghana and Mexico. When I filter for only within 100 miles, I get nothing. When I use the “anywhere in the world” filter I find people within 30 miles from me. Make it make sense
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