TransMe: Transgender Dating

TransMe: Transgender Dating

Crossdresser,Trans,TS Dating

3.7K ratings
433 reviews
Free
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Released
March 13, 2021
Updated
November 3, 2026

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A safe and inclusive dating app for transgender, transsexual, crossdresser, non-binary, queer, and LGBTQ singles. Connect with open-minded individuals for meaningful relationships, friendships, or new dating experiences in a respectful, identity-affirming environment.

✓Connect with transgender singles
✓Explore LGBTQ dating
✓Meet queer people and allies
✓Build honest connections
✓Identity-affirming environment
✓Safety-focused moderation
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What users say about TransMe

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What's New in TransMe

2.11.0

November 3, 2026

Various bug fixes and performance improvements

4

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User reviews

Took me a minute, but wow

I was totally overthinking this app at first. I'm a cis guy, and while I've always been curious about dating trans women, I was terrified of saying the wrong thing and coming off like a total creep. So, I played it too safe with basic "hey"s, and unsurprisingly, my chats just weren't going anywhere. Then I realized I was approaching it all wrong. If I wanted an actual connection, I needed to put in some real effort. I fleshed out my profile and started using the extra tools to push my messages to the top so they wouldn't get lost in the pile.

Huge difference. I matched with this awesome trans girl. We spent our whole first date laughing about terrible horror movies and complaining about our jobs. I didn't ask her any invasive questions, and she didn't treat me like a freak. It was just super chill and normal. So yeah, if you're a little hesitant like I was, just be respectful and actually use the tools to stand out. Don't just rely on the basic stuff. You'll be surprised how cool the people here are.
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Response from developer

Dear member, Thanks for the 5-star review! We totally get the initial hesitation, but we love how you figured things out. Building a detailed profile and utilizing the tools to get your messages seen is a game changer. We're thrilled that this approach led you to such a great match and a relaxing date. Thanks for being part of TransMe and for treating the community with respect! Transme

Finally some peace of mind.

Honestly, dating as a trans woman can be exhausting. Other apps are full of guys who send weird fetish stuff or want to treat you like a dirty secret. I was so close to giving up. Downloaded TransMe and the vibe is just... different. I ended up paying for Premium mostly just to use the Incognito mode. Being able to look around without my inbox getting flooded by creeps was honestly 100% worth it. I finally feel like I have control over who sees me. Matched with a guy last week who actually respects boundaries. We went to a museum date and it was just... normal? Like no invasive questions, no making it weird. Just a chill time. If you're tired of the usual dating app drama, give this one a shot.
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Response from developer

Developer Response: Hi Markrev344, thank you so much for sharing this. Reading about your museum date genuinely made our day! We know how exhausting and invasive dating apps can be, and building a space where you feel completely in control is exactly why we created the Incognito mode. Hearing that it gave you the peace of mind to find someone who respects your boundaries is the best feedback we could ask for. Welcome to the community—we're so happy you're here! Transme

Real people nearby but wish connect faster

The vibe here is definitely more authentic than the big apps. It’s a safe space, so you get fewer bots and more pure intentions. I used the Nearby function and saw a few cute trans girls in my city right away. However, it was a bit frustrating that it took almost a week before we actually set up a real date. I feel like if I had used a Boost or Premium to push my messages to the top, things might have moved a lot faster. Still, once we finally met, it was totally worth it. No weird vibes, just a chill time. If you're tired of fake profiles and want genuine local matches, it's a solid app.
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Response from developer

Developer Response: Hi Malomark, thank you for sharing your experience! We're so glad you noticed the genuine vibe here—keeping out the bots and fostering real local connections is our top priority. We appreciate your patience while setting up that first date, and we're thrilled to hear it was a chill, normal time once you finally met. Thanks for the recommendation! Transme

Liambenjamin

So far I like the app. It feels like a nice place to meet new people and see who you connect with. I like that it focuses on inclusive dating because not every dating app feels the same. Browsing profiles is pretty simple and I’m curious to see who I might meet on here. I’m still exploring the app but my first impression is good. Hopefully I get to meet some interesting people and have some good conversations. it really has potential and I’m looking forward to using it more.
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Response from developer

Hi Liam, Thanks for the great feedback! We’re so glad you appreciate our inclusive vibe. Since you’re looking forward to some good conversations, we want to make sure you get the most out of your experience. Keep exploring the app—we have some great interactive tools designed to help you break the ice and get noticed by the people you actually want to connect with. Welcome to TransMe, and we can't wait to hear about your matches! Transme

I connect and meet new people

I’ve had a good experience exploring this app so far. I like the idea behind it because it gives people in the trans community an opportunity to meet new people, explore different profiles, and build connections with others who may share similar interests. The app is easy to navigate, and browsing through profiles makes the experience interesting. I also appreciate having a platform focused on dating and meeting people in a community where finding like-minded individuals can sometimes be challenging. There is still room for improvement, especially when it comes to adding more features and making connections even easier, but overall, it’s a promising app. I look forward to seeing how it develops and hopefully meeting some interesting people along the way.
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Response from developer

Dear member, First — we see you. And we're proud of you. Thanks for choosing us! TransMe isn't just an app for dating — it's a community that values honesty. We built this platform to lift up trans love, not hide deception. The goal isn't just to help you find someone. It's to help you find someone worthy of you. Someone who deletes the app because they already have everything they need. Hope you find more amazing peole on our app! TransMe Team

User experience

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Reported Bugs

3 issues

Login screen freezes

Bug

Incompatibility with older devices

Bug

Repeated display of same profiles

Bug
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Requested Features

4 requests

Ability to see likes/matches without paying

Feature

More ways to earn coins/credits

Feature

Improved search and filtering options

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Enhanced messaging capabilities for free users

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FAQ

What is TransMe?

TransMe is a safe, inclusive, and welcoming dating app specifically designed for transgender, transsexual, crossdresser, non-binary, queer, and LGBTQ singles. It aims to provide a respectful and identity-affirming environment for users to connect with open-minded individuals for meaningful relationships, friendships, or new dating experiences.

What are the key features of TransMe?

Key features include the ability to connect with transgender singles, explore LGBTQ dating opportunities, meet queer people and allies, and build honest and real connections. The app prioritizes an identity-affirming environment and offers safety-focused community moderation.

Is TransMe free to use?

Yes, it is free to join the app and chat with other trans singles. However, like many dating apps, it offers in-app purchases for additional features or benefits.

Who is TransMe for?

TransMe is for transgender, transsexual, crossdresser, non-binary, queer, and LGBTQ singles, as well as allies who are looking for respectful and inclusive dating experiences. It's ideal for those transitioning, exploring their identity, or simply seeking supportive LGBTQ singles.

How does TransMe ensure a safe dating experience?

The app emphasizes safety through identity-friendly options, encouragement of respectful behavior, and profile quality over random matching. It also provides safety-focused community moderation to ensure a positive experience for all users.