Wingmate - AI Dating Coach
Always know what to text back
About
This AI-powered dating coach analyzes your conversations and suggests personalized replies. It offers different coaching styles and remembers your chat history for tailored advice. Get help with openers, date planning, and more, all while keeping your data private.
What's New in Wingmate
1.4.2
September 12, 2026
Your coach now shows which app each conversation lives on, in words — pick Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Instagram, Snapchat, Messages or Any app, and the coaching adapts to that app's own rules. Added Snapchat. Fixed a bug where choosing an app changed the icon but not the label, where a new chat inherited the previous conversation's app, and where editing a connection in Connections never reached an open chat.
MoreSubscription plans
Wingmate Plus (Monthly)
60 coaching messages a day. Billed monthly.
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FAQ
What is Wingmate's primary function?
Wingmate acts as an AI dating coach. It analyzes your conversations, provides insights into what the other person might be thinking, and suggests replies you can send. It also offers help with personalized openers and date planning.
How does Wingmate protect user privacy?
Wingmate is designed with privacy in mind. It does not require an account, sign-up, or personal information. Your chat history and connections are stored locally on your device, and your messages are only sent to the AI to generate replies. The developers state they do not sell data, run ads, or track users.
What are the different coaching styles available in Wingmate?
Wingmate offers four distinct coaches: Marcus, Jade, Eli, and Ava. Each coach has a unique communication style, but they all share the context of your conversations, ensuring consistent advice regardless of which coach you choose.
Can Wingmate remember past conversations for specific people?
Yes, Wingmate allows you to save profiles for each person you are communicating with. This feature ensures that the advice provided is personalized, taking into account their name, the platform you're using, and your previous interactions.
What are the benefits of upgrading to Wingmate Plus?
Upgrading to Wingmate Plus significantly increases your daily usage allowance, offering 60 daily interactions instead of 3. This expanded allowance covers both screenshot coaching and generated openers, and is shared across all coaches. Read-aloud functionality has a separate allowance.
How much does Wingmate Plus cost?
Wingmate Plus is available as a subscription. The monthly plan costs $4.99, and the annual plan is priced at $29.99. These are auto-renewable subscriptions managed through your Apple Account settings.
How often is Wingmate updated?
Wingmate was last updated on August 26, 2026, with version 1.2. The app was initially released on August 19, 2026. This indicates a recent update and ongoing development.
What devices is Wingmate available on?
Wingmate is currently supported on iPhones. The app has an age rating of 17+, suggesting mature content or themes.