coParenter vs Calm Message
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
coParenter
This app facilitates smoother co-parenting by providing tools for organized communication, shared calendars, and expense tracking. It offers mediation services and AI-powered messaging to reduce conflict, helping parents focus on their children's well-being.
- Shared parenting plans and calendars
- Co-parenting decision management
- On-demand mediation and counseling
- Conflict-reducing in-app messaging
- Expense tracking and agreements
- Child exchange check-ins with geo-tagging
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We know co-parenting can be hard. The coParenter app helps you manage and support your children through better communication and organization with your coParent. We can save you time and money, all while keeping you out of court. App features include: Parenting Plans & Calendars - Create customized and clear parenting plans with your coParent by answering a few simple questions. - Keep schedules organized with shared, color-coded calendars and clear responsibilities. - Schedule and track same-day visits. coParenting Requests - Agree on day-to-day coParenting decisions like haircuts, hygiene, diet, media, allowance, etc. - Request new calendar items such as parenting time and extracurricular activities. - Manage modifications to your parenting plans and calendars. Unlimited On-Demand coParenting Mediation and One-on-One Counseling - Connect with a live, qualified, coParenter Mediator who can help you and your coParent reach agreements. - Get one-on-one counseling to help you navigate and make better decisions for you and your children. coParenting Messenger - Instant, direct, and organized in-app messaging. - Messages can’t be edited or deleted, giving you a history of communication. - Focus on child-centric, positive coParenting with AI filters to help you avoid conflict language (don’t send or receive hostile messages). Expense Tracking and Agreements - Establish a record of your agreements to help you both focus on your kids. - Align / agree on spending decisions with your coParent. - Track and request expense reimbursements. Child Exchange Check-Ins - Keep a clear, secure record of your exchanges, pick-ups and drop-offs through in-app geo-tagging and time stamping. - Receive notifications and easily access records. Let us help you put your kids in the center, not the middle. Download the app with a 30-day trial today. After your trial expires you can pick one of four auto-renewing subscription options coParenter offers. SUBSCRIPTION PRICING AND TERMS CoParenter offers four auto-renewing subscription options: Monthly Plan - $12.99 per month. (Billed monthly) Annual Plan - $9.99* per month. (*Billed as one $119.99 payment annually) Shared Monthly Plan - $19.99 per month for two users. (Billed Monthly) Shared Annual Plan - $16.67** per month for two users. (**Billed as one $199.99 payment annually) These prices are for United States customers. Pricing in other countries may vary and actual charges may be converted to your local currency depending on the country of residence. Your coParenter subscription will automatically renew and your account will be charged unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. You can go to your Apple ID settings to manage your subscription and turn off auto-renew. Read more about our terms of use here - https://coparenter.com/terms-files/terms-of-use.html Read more about our term of service here - https://coparenter.com/terms-files/terms-of-service.html Read more about our privacy policy here - https://coparenter.com/terms-files/privacy-policy.html
Calm Message
This app helps you refine your messages before sending. It analyzes your text for tension and offers a steadier version in seconds, ensuring your message reflects your true intent. You maintain full control over the final output.
- AI-powered message analysis
- Tension detection
- One-tap rewriting
- User control over edits
- Tone and strength checking
- Flagged phrase identification
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There's a pause between typing and sending. That's where most damage happens, and where most people have no help at all. CalmMessage sits in that pause. It reads what you wrote, spots where tension is hiding, and gives you a steadier version. One tap. Around three seconds. Terms of Service: https://www.apple.com/legal/itunes/appstore/dev/stdeula You stay in control. The rewrite is advisory, not authoritative. Edit it, ignore it, or toggle back to your original. Nothing gets sent without your say. One week free. Then decide. CalmMessage turns the message you'd regret into the one you meant: de-escalate, set a boundary, or just make it shorter. Every rewrite is checked against your original intent, tone, and strength before you see it, and flagged phrases show you exactly what changed. And unlike other AI tools, the message you send is still unmistakably you.
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Verdict
The clearest difference is rating: Calm Message at 5.0 against coParenter's 3.5. Calm Message also leads on monetization model (freemium vs subscription). coParenter's advantage is ratings volume (166 vs 3) and device support (3 vs 1). On price, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. coParenter sells 8 in-app purchases, starting at $8.99 per month and Calm Message sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $12.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
Calm Message holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 3.5. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: coParenter has 166 ratings behind it against 3, so its average is the more settled of the two.
| Parameter | coParenter | Calm Message |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 3.5 (166 ratings) | 5.0 (3 ratings) — better |
| Positive reviews | 53.1% of reviews | — |
| Number of ratings | 166 — better | 3 |
| Update frequency | Every 3 weeks | — |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Monetization | Subscription | Freemium — better |
| Devices | iPhone, iPad, iPod — better | iPhone |
| Requires iOS | 13.0 — better | 16.0 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 107 MB | 13 MB |
| Age rating | 9+ | 4+ |
| Developer | Hyphenus | Struo LLC |
Bugs and requests
coParenter
Reported bugs
14 issues- Login screen loops and verification email expiration
- App crashes when accessing messaging features
- Calendar glitches and schedule sync failures
- Unread message notifications don't clear
- Messages fail to send or deliver
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- Random sign-outs and session termination
- Transcript generation fails for long conversations
- Event deletion possible after occurrence
- Notification bubbles persist despite clearing
- Cursor and text input not functioning properly
- iOS 17 compatibility issues
- App timeout errors during schedule creation
- Data loss during app updates
- Subscription renewal failures
Requested features
11 requests- Phone call recording feature with documentation
- Desktop/web version for end users
- Read receipts and message status indicators
- PDF export functionality for legal use
- Stepparent profile option
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- Shared calendar without approval requests
- Face ID or biometric login
- Live case status updates and monitoring
- Calendar tutorial for new users
- Spell-check functionality
- Better screenshot and document capture tools
Calm Message
Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.
In-app purchases
coParenter
- Monthly Subscription$8.991 Month
- Monthly Subscription$9.991 Month
- coParenter Monthly1 Month trial$12.991 Month
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- Monthly Subscription for 21 Month trial$19.991 Month
- Annual Subscription$89.991 Year
- Annual Subscription$99.991 Year
- coParenter Annual Subscription1 Month trial$119.991 Year
- coParenter Subscription for 21 Month trial$199.991 Year
Calm Message
- Calm Message7 Days trial$12.991 Month
- Calm Message7 Days trial$124.991 Year
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