Comparison

Ximo vs NYCGayBars

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Ximo

This app connects you with people nearby for chatting, meeting, or finding a match. It prioritizes privacy with verified profiles and customizable visibility settings for your photos and information. Users have full control over how their profile appears to others.

Highlights
  • Connect with people nearby
  • Privacy-focused design
  • Trust-based communication
  • Profile verification
  • Public or Private profile options
  • Photo sharing control
Features
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Ximo is a dating app built with the needs of gay men in mind. XImo lets you find and connect with people nearby who are interested in chatting, meeting up, making friends, finding their next great match, or more. We created a new trust-based mechanism for communication and sharing information, and designed Ximo so that everyone has fair and equal access to information on the app. Because of our high standards for profile-verification, you can feel safe and certain that people you meet on Ximo have valid profiles with real names and identities. In exchange for our policy of total information transparency, we give users full control over how their profile appears to others. How Can I Control How My Profile Appears to Others on Ximo? • Everyone can choose between a Public Profile or a Private Profile. • Choose a Public Profile if you want to make your photo visible to everyone. • Choose a Private Profile if you only want to share your photo with specific people. Your Profile Picture will appear hidden to everyone else. How Does Information Fairness on Ximo Work? • You can ask a Private Profile to unlock their photo with the simple press of a button. • You can unlock your Private Profile to anyone with the simple press of a button too. • Your Private Photo is never shared with anyone else unless they agree to share their photo in exchange! How Does Profile Verification Work on Ximo? We thought carefully about balancing our users' needs for privacy and anonymity with the importance of building a trusted online community of real people. We require that everyone verify their first name with a third-party social platform. We do not access additional information about you such as your personal photos, who your friends are, or any other information. 
Just your first name. That’s it! If you don’t have access to a social media account, you can sign up with a phone number (US only) to complete our verification process. To give you the privacy and freedom to control the anonymity of your profile, you can choose to unlink any social network from your Ximo profile once you verify your First Name. You can then manually add in your age and a photo to your profile, which you can choose to hide from anyone on Ximo. We know that people are looking for a safe and trustworthy way to date and meet others online, and that's why we built Ximo with these privacy and security standards in mind. So download Ximo today to discover your next great match, and to learn more about how we are setting standards for privacy and security in the online dating space. Ximo is mad-fun too!

About

NYCGayBars

Discover and track NYC's LGBTQ+ nightlife with a comprehensive guide to over 80 bars. Log your visits, drinks, and create a personal timeline of your nights out. Explore neighborhoods and earn badges for a gamified experience.

Highlights
  • Map and list of 80+ NYC gay bars
  • Filter and sort bars by neighborhood and distance
  • One-tap check-ins and drink logging
  • Calendar history of nights out
  • Personal stats and progress tracking
  • Unlockable badges
  • Optional friends feature for sharing check-ins
Features
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NYC Gay Bars is your personal guide to the city's LGBTQ+ nightlife — and a fun way to remember every night out. Browse 80+ gay bars across Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens on an interactive map or a searchable list. Filter by neighborhood, sort by distance, and find your next spot in seconds. Been somewhere? Check in and log what you drank — tonight or backdated. Your history builds a personal timeline of every bar, every drink, every night. FEATURES • Map + list of 80+ NYC gay bars, by neighborhood • Sort by distance to what's closest right now • One-tap check-ins and drink logging (today or any past day) • A calendar history of your nights out • Personal stats: favorite bar, top drink, biggest night, longest streak • Neighborhood progress bars — how much of the city have you hit? • 30 unlockable badges to chase • Optional Friends: share a check-in with exactly the friends you choose — they see it in their Tonight feed, with per-friend controls over who gets yours • Beautiful, fast, native design PRIVATE BY DESIGN Your drink log stays on your iPhone — no account, no sign-up, no tracking, no third-party servers. Friends is optional, runs on your iCloud, uses invite codes instead of a directory, and only shares a check-in when you tap the button. Whether you're a local completist or visiting for Pride, NYC Gay Bars makes exploring the scene a game worth playing.

Screenshots

Ximo4 screens
NYCGayBars4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is rating: NYCGayBars at 5.0 against Ximo's 3.8. NYCGayBars also leads on in-app purchases (none vs 1). Ximo's advantage is update cadence (weekly vs every 6 weeks) and ratings volume (11 vs 1). On price, ads and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Ximo sells 1 one-off in-app purchase. NYCGayBars asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

NYCGayBars holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 3.8. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Ximo has 11 ratings behind it against 1, so its average is the more settled of the two.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Ximo ships an update weekly, NYCGayBars every 6 weeks. The most recent releases landed on November 2, 2026 and November 5, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard6 real differences · 4 level
Ximo versus NYCGayBars: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterXimoNYCGayBars
PriceFreeFree
Rating3.8 (11 ratings)5.0 (1 ratings) — better
Positive reviews0.0% of reviews—
Number of ratings11 — better1
Update frequencyWeekly — betterEvery 6 weeks
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFree — better
DevicesiPhone, iPod — betteriPhone
Requires iOS13.0 — better26.0
Further details — not scored
Size52 MB3 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperAnimata Inc.Nha Hoang

Customer experience

Ximo

All ratings11 ratings
Positive63.6%
Neutral9.1%
Negative27.3%
Written reviews4 reviews
Positive0.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative100.0%

NYCGayBars

All ratings1 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

In-app purchases

1 purchases

Ximo

One-time1
  • SparkEngine$1.99
None

NYCGayBars

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is Ximo free?
Ximo is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is NYCGayBars free?
NYCGayBars is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Which has better reviews, Ximo or NYCGayBars?
NYCGayBars is rated higher. Ximo averages 3.8 out of 5 from 11 ratings, while NYCGayBars averages 5.0 from 1 ratings.
Do Ximo or NYCGayBars have ads?
Neither Ximo nor NYCGayBars shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Ximo or NYCGayBars?
Ximo ships an update weekly, and NYCGayBars every 6 weeks. Most recently, Ximo was updated on November 2, 2026 and NYCGayBars on November 5, 2026.

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