RM Messenger vs ItsHim
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
RM Messenger
Connect instantly with the LGBT community globally. This messenger allows for fast, easy, and convenient communication, including sending messages and sharing media.
- Instant messaging
- Media sharing
- Global LGBT community connection
- Fast and convenient communication
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Instant messenger. Connect with the LGBT community worldwide — fast, easy and convenient. Send instant messages, share media and more. Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
ItsHim
This social networking app allows users to join a club and sign up for exclusive access. It provides a platform for community engagement and interaction within the club.
- Club membership
- User sign-up
- Community interaction
- Exclusive access
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Join the It's Him Club! Sign up today with the It's Him App.
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Verdict
The clearest difference is review sentiment: ItsHim at 67% against RM Messenger's 13%. ItsHim also leads on rating (3.9 vs 2.8) and update cadence (every 4 days vs monthly). RM Messenger's advantage is ads (none vs shown) and monetization model (free vs ad-supported). On price, ratings volume, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Neither carries in-app purchases, so what you see is what you pay.
ItsHim holds the better App Store score, 3.9 against 2.8. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 18 and 11 respectively. Written reviews point the same way: 13% of RM Messenger's written reviews are positive against 67% of ItsHim's.
RM Messenger ships an update monthly, ItsHim every 4 days. The most recent releases landed on October 7, 2026 and September 24, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | RM Messenger | ItsHim |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 2.8 (18 ratings) | 3.9 (11 ratings) — better |
| Positive reviews | 13.5% of reviews | 66.7% of reviews — better |
| Number of ratings | 18 — better | 11 |
| Update frequency | Monthly | Every 4 days — better |
| Ads | No — better | Yes |
| In-app purchases | No | No |
| Monetization | Free — better | Ad-supported |
| Devices | iPhone, iPad, iPod — better | iPhone, iPod |
| Requires iOS | 15.0 — better | 15.1 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 20 MB | 95 MB |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | RMN Media Hub GmbH | It's Him LLC |
Customer experience
RM Messenger
ItsHim
Bugs and requests
RM Messenger
Reported bugs
23 issues- Messages take forever to arrive
- Messages don't update
- Can't log in
- App loaded with bugs
- App turns off music in the background
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- Auto-correct doesn't work
- App crashes
- Never get notifications
- App won't send notifications
- Don't receive message notifications
- Notifications stop working
- Have to delete and reinstall app for notifications
- Keyboard does not follow same autocorrect rules
- Only displays profile photos sometimes
- Text field for message not showing text as you type
- Notifications and app badges are still buggy
- Can't sign in
- No option to reset password
- App doesn't seem to relate to actual account
- Incorrect password or nickname error
- Cannot pull ad/page up to view full profile from messenger
- Picture upload includes unintended photos
- Not encrypted, collects personal data
Requested features
4 requests- Fix login issues
- Improve notification reliability
- Add translation option
- Increase age rating to 18+
ItsHim
Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.
In-app purchases
RM Messenger
No in-app purchases
ItsHim
No in-app purchases
