Obedience vs Utimi
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
Obedience
This app helps couples in BDSM dynamics track daily and weekly habits, with one partner managing rewards and punishments. It facilitates real-time updates and communication between partners, supporting multiple participants.
- Customizable daily/weekly habits and tasks
- Define own punishments and rewards
- Track rules and assign points
- Live chat with partner
- Real-time sharing and multiple partner support
- Stats and graphs for habit tracking
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Obedience is a kinky habit tracker for couples in a BDSM dynamic. Whether you've been practising kink for a long time, or you're new to the scene, Obedience will help you and your partner(s) track daily and weekly habits, and puts the dominant in charge of rewards and punishments. Couples can connect their phones, which enables one to update their habit status and spend their rewarded coins, and the other to see these real time updates and set up a reward and punishment system. Features: -Add your own daily or weekly habits and tasks -Add your own punishments and rewards -Keep track of your rules -Live chat with partner -Assign rewards and/or punishments to your tasks and habits. -Give punishments and rewards automatically or manually -Give submissive points that they can spend on rewards -Real time sharing between dominant and submissive -Supports multiple partners -See stats and graphs about your habits -Set reminder/alarm notifications (coming soon!) ----------------------------------------- This app contains auto-renewable subscriptions. Subscriptions will automatically renew unless canceled within 24-hours before the end of the current period. You can cancel anytime with your iTunes account settings. Any unused portion of a free trial will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription. Privacy policy: https://obedienceapp.com/privacy-policy Terms and conditions: https://obedienceapp.com/terms-of-service
Utimi
Control wearable toys remotely for solo or shared experiences. Customize settings for personalized pleasure and receive notifications during text messages. Suggestions for new features are welcomed by the development team.
- Remote control for wearable toys
- Solo play mode
- Discreet public play
- Long-distance play
- Shared control with partners
- Vibration notifications
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This app is the remote control for Utimi wearable toys. Take Control Utimi from Anywhere. Share the Joy with partners Tailor Your Pleasure to Perfection Settings: 1. Solo Play 2. Discreet Public Play 3. Long Distance Play 4. Give full control to some 5. Vibration notifications during text messages Not seeing a feature you would like? Contact us at support@utimi.com! Our full time development team would love to incorporate your suggestions into our app.
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Verdict
The clearest difference is review sentiment: Obedience at 75% against Utimi's 14%. Obedience also leads on rating (4.7 vs 1.3) and update cadence (every 9 days vs every 2 months). Utimi's advantage is in-app purchases (none vs 11). On price, ads, device support and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Obedience sells 9 in-app purchases, starting at $6.99 per month. Utimi asks for nothing beyond the download.
Obedience holds the better App Store score, 4.7 against 1.3. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Obedience has 3K ratings behind it against 12, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 75% of Obedience's written reviews are positive against 14% of Utimi's.
Obedience ships an update every 9 days, Utimi every 2 months. The most recent releases landed on October 30, 2026 and October 25, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | Obedience | Utimi |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 4.7 (3K ratings) — better | 1.3 (12 ratings) |
| Positive reviews | 75.4% of reviews — better | 14.3% of reviews |
| Number of ratings | 3K — better | 12 |
| Update frequency | Every 9 days — better | Every 2 months |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | No — better |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | Free — better |
| Devices | iPhone, iPad, iPod — better | iPhone, iPod |
| Requires iOS | 15.0 | 15.0 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 123 MB | 89 MB |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | Obedience B.V. | Shenzhen Youdimi Technology Co., Ltd. |
Customer experience
Obedience
Utimi
Bugs and requests
Obedience
Reported bugs
5 issues- Tasks not tracking or resetting properly
- Points not updating accurately
- Messaging and notification issues
- Losing data when switching between partners
- Compatibility problems with older devices
Requested features
9 requests- Ability to add more than 5 habits on free version
- Option to pause tasks and habits
- Ability to request approval for completed tasks
- Customizable color themes
- Separate section for one-time tasks
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- Suggestions for limits, rules, punishments, and rewards
- Calendar view and progress tracking
- Dedicated journal feature
- Ability to add photos and media to tasks
Utimi
Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.
In-app purchases
Obedience
- Obedience Pro 1 Month$6.991 Month
- Obedience Pro 3 Months$14.993 Months
- Yearly$14.991 Year
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- Obedience Pro 6 Months$19.996 Months
- Yearly1 Year trial2 variants$29.991 Year
- Yearly7 Days trial$29.991 Year
- Yearly14 Days trial$29.991 Year
- Yearly1 Month trial$29.991 Year
- Yearly2 variants$29.991 Year
Utimi
No in-app purchases
