Comparison

Obedience vs DiapStash

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Obedience

This app helps couples in BDSM dynamics track daily and weekly habits, with one partner managing rewards and punishments. It facilitates real-time updates and communication between partners, supporting multiple participants.

Highlights
  • Customizable daily/weekly habits and tasks
  • Define own punishments and rewards
  • Track rules and assign points
  • Live chat with partner
  • Real-time sharing and multiple partner support
  • Stats and graphs for habit tracking
Features
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Obedience is a kinky habit tracker for couples in a BDSM dynamic. Whether you've been practising kink for a long time, or you're new to the scene, Obedience will help you and your partner(s) track daily and weekly habits, and puts the dominant in charge of rewards and punishments. Couples can connect their phones, which enables one to update their habit status and spend their rewarded coins, and the other to see these real time updates and set up a reward and punishment system. Features: -Add your own daily or weekly habits and tasks -Add your own punishments and rewards -Keep track of your rules -Live chat with partner -Assign rewards and/or punishments to your tasks and habits. -Give punishments and rewards automatically or manually -Give submissive points that they can spend on rewards -Real time sharing between dominant and submissive -Supports multiple partners -See stats and graphs about your habits -Set reminder/alarm notifications (coming soon!) ----------------------------------------- This app contains auto-renewable subscriptions. Subscriptions will automatically renew unless canceled within 24-hours before the end of the current period. You can cancel anytime with your iTunes account settings. Any unused portion of a free trial will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription. Privacy policy: https://obedienceapp.com/privacy-policy Terms and conditions: https://obedienceapp.com/terms-of-service

About

DiapStash

This app helps manage diaper inventory and track diaper changes. It synchronizes stock and history across multiple devices, making it useful for individuals managing incontinence or those in the ABDL community.

Highlights
  • Diaper inventory tracking
  • Diaper change logging
  • Cross-device synchronization
  • Stock and history management
  • Personalized for incontinence and ABDL needs
Features
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DiapStash is the app built for adults who wear diapers, whether for medical reasons, incontinence, or personal choice. Track your usage, manage your stock, and stay organized, all in one place. STOCK • Add to your stock in seconds by scanning the barcode on a pack • Know exactly how many diapers you have left • Track cloth diapers and laundry cycles alongside your disposable stock HISTORY • Log every change and every accident in just a few taps • Get reminders to change, or to put a diaper back on after a while without wearing one CATALOG • Browse more than 2,000 references from over 300 brands • Built with the community: if a diaper you wear is not listed yet, add it yourself and help grow the catalog for everyone STATS • Clear charts and totals to understand your usage over time • Share your stats as an image or export your data to process them outside the app SYNC, SHARING AND PRIVACY • View history shared with you by a partner or caregiver, read only, so it always reflects the truth • See stock shared with you, only if the owner chooses to allow it • Keep everything backed up and synced across your devices with Cloud Sync • Your data stays yours, with full control over what you share and with whom DiapStash also comes with home screen widgets to check your current diaper or log an accident in one tap, plus a random diaper picker for the days you cannot decide what to wear. DiapStash is suitable for anyone who wears diapers, including the ABDL community and those who suffer from incontinence.

Screenshots

Obedience4 screens
DiapStash4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: DiapStash at none against Obedience's 11. DiapStash also leads on review sentiment (100% vs 75%) and rating (4.9 vs 4.7). Obedience's advantage is ratings volume (3K vs 39). On price, update cadence, ads and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Obedience sells 9 in-app purchases, starting at $6.99 per month. DiapStash asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

DiapStash holds the better App Store score, 4.9 against 4.7. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Obedience has 3K ratings behind it against 39, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 75% of Obedience's written reviews are positive against 100% of DiapStash's.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Obedience ships an update every 9 days, DiapStash every 2 weeks. The most recent releases landed on October 30, 2026 and October 25, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard5 real differences · 5 level
Obedience versus DiapStash: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterObedienceDiapStash
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.7 (3K ratings)4.9 (39 ratings) — better
Positive reviews75.4% of reviews100.0% of reviews — better
Number of ratings3K — better39
Update frequencyEvery 9 days — betterEvery 2 weeks
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFree — better
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPhone, iPad
Requires iOS15.0 — better16.0
Further details — not scored
Size123 MB144 MB
Age rating17+4+
DeveloperObedience B.V.DStash Foundation

Customer experience

Obedience

All ratings2,978 ratings
Positive92.8%
Neutral3.6%
Negative3.7%
Written reviews398 reviews
Positive75.4%
Neutral11.3%
Negative13.3%

DiapStash

All ratings39 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%
Written reviews8 reviews
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

Bugs and requests

Obedience

Reported bugs

5 issues
  • Tasks not tracking or resetting properly
  • Points not updating accurately
  • Messaging and notification issues
  • Losing data when switching between partners
  • Compatibility problems with older devices

Requested features

9 requests
  • Ability to add more than 5 habits on free version
  • Option to pause tasks and habits
  • Ability to request approval for completed tasks
  • Customizable color themes
  • Separate section for one-time tasks
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  • Suggestions for limits, rules, punishments, and rewards
  • Calendar view and progress tracking
  • Dedicated journal feature
  • Ability to add photos and media to tasks

DiapStash

Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.

In-app purchases

9 purchases

Obedience

Subscriptions9
  • Obedience Pro 1 Month$6.991 Month
  • Obedience Pro 3 Months$14.993 Months
  • Yearly$14.991 Year
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  • Obedience Pro 6 Months$19.996 Months
  • Yearly1 Year trial2 variants$29.991 Year
  • Yearly7 Days trial$29.991 Year
  • Yearly14 Days trial$29.991 Year
  • Yearly1 Month trial$29.991 Year
  • Yearly2 variants$29.991 Year
None

DiapStash

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is Obedience free?
Obedience is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is DiapStash free?
DiapStash is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Which has better reviews, Obedience or DiapStash?
DiapStash is rated higher. Obedience averages 4.7 out of 5 from 3K ratings, while DiapStash averages 4.9 from 39 ratings.
Do Obedience or DiapStash have ads?
Neither Obedience nor DiapStash shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Obedience or DiapStash?
Obedience ships an update every 9 days, and DiapStash every 2 weeks. Most recently, Obedience was updated on October 30, 2026 and DiapStash on October 25, 2026.

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