Comparison

Obedience vs NextSelf AI

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Obedience

This app helps couples in BDSM dynamics track daily and weekly habits, with one partner managing rewards and punishments. It facilitates real-time updates and communication between partners, supporting multiple participants.

Highlights
  • Customizable daily/weekly habits and tasks
  • Define own punishments and rewards
  • Track rules and assign points
  • Live chat with partner
  • Real-time sharing and multiple partner support
  • Stats and graphs for habit tracking
Features
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Obedience is a kinky habit tracker for couples in a BDSM dynamic. Whether you've been practising kink for a long time, or you're new to the scene, Obedience will help you and your partner(s) track daily and weekly habits, and puts the dominant in charge of rewards and punishments. Couples can connect their phones, which enables one to update their habit status and spend their rewarded coins, and the other to see these real time updates and set up a reward and punishment system. Features: -Add your own daily or weekly habits and tasks -Add your own punishments and rewards -Keep track of your rules -Live chat with partner -Assign rewards and/or punishments to your tasks and habits. -Give punishments and rewards automatically or manually -Give submissive points that they can spend on rewards -Real time sharing between dominant and submissive -Supports multiple partners -See stats and graphs about your habits -Set reminder/alarm notifications (coming soon!) ----------------------------------------- This app contains auto-renewable subscriptions. Subscriptions will automatically renew unless canceled within 24-hours before the end of the current period. You can cancel anytime with your iTunes account settings. Any unused portion of a free trial will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription. Privacy policy: https://obedienceapp.com/privacy-policy Terms and conditions: https://obedienceapp.com/terms-of-service

About

NextSelf AI

Features
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NextSelf AI is a premium personal growth and identity transformation app designed to help you become the future version of yourself. Most self-improvement apps track habits. NextSelf AI helps you build a stronger identity through daily missions, voice journaling, AI coaching, future-self conversations, check-ins, progress insights, and transformation milestones. Core features: • Future Self conversations Talk with a motivational AI future-self companion built to help you reflect, stay consistent, and take practical next steps. • Voice journaling Record your thoughts, wins, setbacks, and goals. NextSelf AI turns reflections into summaries, themes, and growth insights. • Daily missions Complete focused actions for discipline, health, learning, confidence, productivity, recovery support, and personal growth. • NextSelf Score Track your transformation progress through consistency, journaling, missions, streaks, and check-ins. • Daily check-ins Reflect on mood, energy, focus, confidence, stress, and sleep quality. • Transformation timeline Capture milestones, achievements, streaks, journal highlights, and moments of growth. • Comeback Engine When consistency breaks, NextSelf AI helps you reset with a practical comeback plan and your next clear action. • Premium analytics See habit consistency, score trends, growth velocity, strongest habits, and areas to improve. NextSelf AI is designed for people who want a more cinematic, personal, and emotionally engaging growth experience. Important wellness disclaimer: NextSelf AI is a wellness and personal growth tool only. It does not provide therapy, diagnosis, medical advice, addiction treatment, crisis intervention, or professional healthcare. If you need medical, mental health, addiction, or crisis support, please contact a qualified professional or local emergency service. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Obedience4 screens
NextSelf AI4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is iOS requirement: Obedience at 15.0 against NextSelf AI's 17.0. On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Obedience sells 9 in-app purchases, starting at $6.99 per month and NextSelf AI sells 3 in-app purchases, starting at $9.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Scorecard1 real difference · 9 level
Obedience versus NextSelf AI: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterObedienceNextSelf AI
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.7 (3K ratings) — better—
Positive reviews75.4% of reviews—
Number of ratings3K — better—
Update frequencyEvery 9 days—
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPhone, iPad
Requires iOS15.0 — better17.0
Further details — not scored
Size123 MB1 MB
Age rating17+4+
DeveloperObedience B.V.Olanrewaju Bankole

Bugs and requests

Obedience

Reported bugs

5 issues
  • Tasks not tracking or resetting properly
  • Points not updating accurately
  • Messaging and notification issues
  • Losing data when switching between partners
  • Compatibility problems with older devices

Requested features

9 requests
  • Ability to add more than 5 habits on free version
  • Option to pause tasks and habits
  • Ability to request approval for completed tasks
  • Customizable color themes
  • Separate section for one-time tasks
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  • Suggestions for limits, rules, punishments, and rewards
  • Calendar view and progress tracking
  • Dedicated journal feature
  • Ability to add photos and media to tasks

NextSelf AI

Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.

In-app purchases

9 purchases

Obedience

Subscriptions9
  • Obedience Pro 1 Month$6.991 Month
  • Obedience Pro 3 Months$14.993 Months
  • Yearly$14.991 Year
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  • Obedience Pro 6 Months$19.996 Months
  • Yearly1 Year trial2 variants$29.991 Year
  • Yearly7 Days trial$29.991 Year
  • Yearly14 Days trial$29.991 Year
  • Yearly1 Month trial$29.991 Year
  • Yearly$29.991 Year
3 purchases

NextSelf AI

Subscriptions3
  • NextSelf Premium$9.991 Month
  • NextSelf Elite$19.991 Month
  • NextSelf Premium Yearly$79.991 Year

Questions

Is Obedience free?
Obedience is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is NextSelf AI free?
NextSelf AI is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Obedience or NextSelf AI have ads?
Neither Obedience nor NextSelf AI shows ads.

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