Comparison

Empathy Set vs ThenFocus

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Empathy Set

This app helps you understand and express your emotions and needs, fostering deeper connections with yourself and others. It offers tools for self-reflection, empathic communication, and collaborative problem-solving, based on Nonviolent Communication principles.

Highlights
  • Understand your feelings and needs
  • Develop empathy for others
  • Engage in constructive conversations
  • Craft I-Statements
  • Brainstorm mutually beneficial solutions
  • Utilize structured feedback tools
  • Interactive journaling
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Explore Emotions, Build Empathy, Connect Deeply The Empathy Set App is your comprehensive toolkit for developing emotional intelligence and empathy across various facets of life. Rooted in the principles of Nonviolent Communication, our app serves as a dynamic guide to help you navigate your emotional world and build meaningful connections. The Empathy Set App focuses on cultivating empathy in three pivotal areas: Self-Empathy (Me): Embark on an introspective journey to better understand your own feelings and needs. Gain valuable insights into your emotional landscape and make sense of your experiences in different life situations. Empathy for Others (Other): Develop the skills to recognize and comprehend the emotional states and needs of those around you. Strengthen your bonds and cultivate more compassionate, empathetic relationships. Empathic Problem-Solving Conversations (Self and Other): Equip yourself with practical tools to engage in positive, constructive dialogues that address situations important to you. Features: --------- Dynamic Situations: Choose from three compelling levels—Starter, Enhancer, and Maximizer—to dive deep into your emotional landscape and identify your true needs. User-Friendly Dashboard: Effortlessly manage your point balance on our intuitive dashboard, where you can track points you've purchased, earned through referrals, or received as milestone rewards. All your point transactions are displayed in one convenient location for easy access and management. Intuitive Selectors & Funnels: Utilize our smart interface to effortlessly identify and prioritize your feelings and needs, bringing you closer to emotional clarity for both yourself and others. Empowered I-Statements: Craft straightforward or advanced I-Statements that enable you to articulate your emotions and desires with positivity and precision. The Brainstorming Tool: Unleash your creative potential to discover mutually beneficial solutions that cater to everyone's needs. SBI-Q Toolkit: Elevate your communication with our Situation, Background, Impact, and Question Tool, designed to offer structured feedback in both personal and professional settings. Interactive Journal: Make meaningful observations and record insightful notes to not only enhance memory but also capture the essence of the moment. Shareable Situation Summaries: Forward a PDF file of your situational analysis directly via email or text. A convenient way to communicate your emotional state to supportive individuals or initiate conflict resolution discussions. Referral Points: Earn points by inviting friends to download our app. Maintain a healthy point balance for free by using referrals, allowing you to open situations at Starter (56 points), Enhancer (78 points), and Maximizer (108 points) levels. Weekly Self-Reflections: Receive thoughtful notifications encouraging you to assess your emotional well-being and the state of your relationships. Community Connection: Participate in webinars and engage with a compassionate community that values and fosters empathy. Terms of use: https://www.empathyset.com/app-terms Privacy Policy: https://www.empathyset.com/app-privacy-policy

About

ThenFocus

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ThenFocus is a focus timer built for deep work. Set your intention, block distracting apps, and protect your attention when it matters most. PROVEN FOCUS PROTOCOLS Choose from three time-tested methods: Pomodoro (25 min work / 5 min rest) — The classic technique that millions trust. Short focused bursts with regular breaks keep your mind fresh. 33:33 (Eugene Schwartz Method) — The legendary copywriter's secret. One rule: work on your task or sit and do nothing. No switching, no distractions. Gimme Five (5 min quick sessions) — When starting feels hard, this gets you moving. Perfect for building momentum or tackling small tasks. SET DAILY GOALS Decide how many sessions you want to complete each day. See exactly how much focused work time that adds up to. Four Pomodoro sessions? That's 1 hour 40 minutes of deep work with 20 minutes of rest built in. BLOCK DISTRACTING APPS (Premium) This is where ThenFocus becomes your focus guardian. Using Apple's native Screen Time API, we can block entire app categories during your sessions — Social, Games, Entertainment, whatever pulls your attention away. This is not a gentle reminder. Blocked apps are inaccessible until your session ends. TRACK YOUR PROGRESS The History screen shows your focus journey through an intuitive heatmap. See patterns emerge — when do you focus best? Which days are most productive? Watch the grid fill in as you build your practice. Below the heatmap, browse your completed sessions with timestamps and protocol types. Free users see today and yesterday in full detail. Premium unlocks your complete history. DESIGNED FOR DEEP WORK ThenFocus is intentionally minimal. No gamification, no streaks with fire emojis, no shame mechanics. Just a clean, calm interface that helps you do what matters. We believe blocking should feel protective, not punitive. When you try to open a blocked app, the message is simple: "Session in progress." Then you return to your work. FREE VS PREMIUM Free: • All three focus protocols • Session logging • Today + Yesterday history • Heatmap visualization ThenFocus+ (Premium): • Block distracting apps during sessions • Everything in Free PRIVACY FIRST All your data stays on your device. We use Apple's Screen Time API which processes everything locally. No accounts required, no data uploaded, no tracking. PART OF THE THEN SUITE ThenFocus joins ThenAudit (time tracking) and ThenCommit (daily intentions) in our suite of mindful productivity tools. Each app works standalone, but together they create a complete system for intentional digital life. Start protecting your attention today. Your focus is worth defending. --- Legal Privacy Policy: houseofthen.com/pages/thenfocus-privacy-policy Terms of Use (EULA): houseofthen.com/pages/thenfocus-terms-and-conditions

Screenshots

Empathy Set4 screens
ThenFocus4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is update cadence: ThenFocus at weekly against Empathy Set's every 2 months. ThenFocus also leads on iOS requirement (13.0 vs 15.1). On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Empathy Set sells 6 in-app purchases, starting at $0.99 per month and ThenFocus sells 5 in-app purchases, starting at $3.00 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Empathy Set ships an update every 2 months, ThenFocus weekly. The most recent releases landed on November 7, 2026 and October 30, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard2 real differences · 8 level
Empathy Set versus ThenFocus: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterEmpathy SetThenFocus
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.7 (9 ratings) — better—
Positive reviews85.7% of reviews—
Number of ratings9 — better—
Update frequencyEvery 2 monthsWeekly — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPod
Requires iOS15.113.0 — better
Further details — not scored
Size54 MB44 MB
Age rating17+4+
DeveloperJohn FordThen LLC

In-app purchases

6 purchases

Empathy Set

Subscriptions1
  • Monthly subscription$0.991 Month
One-time5
  • 500 Points$4.99
  • 1500 Points$9.99
  • 4000 Points$19.99
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  • 7500 points$29.99
  • 30000 points$79.99
5 purchases

ThenFocus

Subscriptions4
  • ThenFocus+7 Days trial$3.001 Month
  • ThenBecome: The Life-changing Suite$15.001 Month
  • ThenFocus+ Annual$20.001 Year
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  • ThenBecome: The Life-changing Suite$150.001 Year
One-time1
  • ThenFocus+ Founder$40.00

Questions

Is Empathy Set free?
Empathy Set is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is ThenFocus free?
ThenFocus is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Empathy Set or ThenFocus have ads?
Neither Empathy Set nor ThenFocus shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Empathy Set or ThenFocus?
Empathy Set ships an update every 2 months, and ThenFocus weekly. Most recently, Empathy Set was updated on November 7, 2026 and ThenFocus on October 30, 2026.

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