QuestChat vs RealMen
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
QuestChat
Connect with local singles through text and a unique live voice feature. Discover and chat with new people, adding profiles to a personalized hotlist for easy access. Enjoy private conversations with complete control over your connections.
- Connect with local singles
- Unique live voice feature
- Text chat conversations
- Add profiles to Hotlist
- Private contact information
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Welcome To The QuestChat Dating App! Start Connecting With Local Singles Now! • Connect LIVE with our totally unique voice feature • Connect with other app users and chat line callers • Add your fave profiles to your Hotlist for easy access Connect live whenever and wherever you want with the QuestChat Dating App! Strike up a flirty conversation by text, connect live with voice. The choice is yours! With QuestChat, you always have total control over who you connect with and how. Your contact info is kept completely private, so you can enjoy chatting with local singles worry-free!
RealMen
This platform offers gay male dating with an intuitive design for easy use across devices. Find matches nearby with location-based search and filters, or explore new areas on a map. Customize your profile with photos and preferences to connect with others.
- Location-based search
- Explore map mode
- Dozens of search filters
- Chat with emoticons
- Favorites list
- Profile customization
- Privacy settings
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RealMen is an innovative and smart web platform for gay male dating, developed by a dedicated team with long experience in the industry. The intuitive and sleek native design makes RealMen easy to use, providing a seamless experience on all devices. You can search, chat with your favorites, and new matches. RealMen gives you for free all the features that you usually have to pay for in other dating apps. Our search engine is location-based, enabling you to find your perfect match nearby using dozens of filters. If you travel often, you can change your search location to see results for other areas. With the new GPS-based results and Explore map, you can browse locations directly on the map and refresh results as you move for an even smoother discovery experience. In addition, you can customize your profile and let others learn more about your personality with descriptions, photos, lifestyle preferences, and more! Key Features: GPS-based results to instantly see who’s nearby (enable Location Services). Explore mode: browse locations on the map and refresh results on the go. Perfect match search with dozens of filters. Chat service with hundreds of emoticons to make things more fun. Easy-to-use favorites list. Flexible privacy settings and activity tracking. Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ The RealMen platform is only for adults at the age of 18 or older.
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Verdict
The clearest difference is review sentiment: RealMen at 68% against QuestChat's 13%. RealMen also leads on rating (4.4 vs 2.8) and monetization model (free vs free with in-app purchases). On price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. QuestChat sells 10 one-off in-app purchases and RealMen sells 1 in-app purchase, starting at $9.95 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
RealMen holds the better App Store score, 4.4 against 2.8. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: RealMen has 440 ratings behind it against 8, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 13% of QuestChat's written reviews are positive against 68% of RealMen's.
Both ship on a similar rhythm, roughly monthly. The most recent releases landed on October 16, 2026 and October 12, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | QuestChat | RealMen |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 2.8 (8 ratings) | 4.4 (440 ratings) — better |
| Positive reviews | 13.1% of reviews | 68.1% of reviews — better |
| Number of ratings | 8 | 440 — better |
| Update frequency | Monthly | Monthly |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | Free — better |
| Devices | iPhone | iPhone, iPad, iPod — better |
| Requires iOS | 16.4 | 15.0 — better |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 51 MB | 37 MB |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | First Media Group Inc. | RMN Media Hub GmbH |
Customer experience
QuestChat
RealMen
User reviews
QuestChat
From 8 App Store ratingsWhat we love
- 👍 Voice-based communication is easier
- 👍 More people on the app
- 👍 Vast improvement over time
- 👍 Nice variety of people
- 👍 Fun to chat with hot girls
Room to improve
- 🐛 App is awful/horrible/crap
- 🐛 Can't upload photos
- 🐛 Profile creation takes forever
- 🐛 Paid for credits, not received
- 🐛 Banned paying customers
RealMen
From 440 App Store ratingsWhat we love
- 👍 User-friendly interface and easy to use
- 💑 Effective for finding meaningful connections and relationships
- 🌈 Inclusive and welcoming LGBTQ+ community
- 🔒 Strong safety features and reporting system
- 💬 Good messaging and communication features
Room to improve
- ⚠️ High prevalence of scammers and fake profiles
- 💰 Users requesting money and personal information
- 🚨 Scam artists harassing for financial information
- 📞 Unwanted direct phone calls from unshared numbers
- 👤 Fake and stolen profile images
Bugs and requests
QuestChat
Reported bugs
45 issues- Cannot upload photo
- Profile creation takes forever
- Credits not received after payment
- Filter has filtered out all results
- Inbox messages not loading
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- Unable to send messages
- App crashes and deletes profile info
- Live connection does not work
- Hot List does not save users
- Cannot connect with other person after acceptance
- Credits taken away without speaking
- Error purchasing credits
- Charged but never received credits
- Sign in with Facebook not working
- In-app purchase not working
- Error signing up
- Can't receive messages
- Can't hook up to hear callers
- Nothing loads
- Cannot buy credits
- Mailbox needs to refresh
- Cannot find men talked to
- Cannot give information in mailbox
- App not compatible with iOS 11
- Profile and menu interface defective
- Cannot reply, respond, or contact anyone
- Messages not received after iOS update
- Paid messages not sent
- Cannot record voice greeting
- App prone to crashing
- Error (0) when creating account
- Voice greeting not there after recording
- Cannot update profile info (height/weight)
- White screen when trying to change profile info
- Most features don't work
- Cannot see conversations
- No credits to get
- Unable to send audio messages
- Inbox function constantly loading
- Doesn't let user put profile picture
- App crashes when trying to listen to received message on iOS8
- Network issues
- Pictures don't appear when uploaded
- Poor sound quality
- No one on the app
Requested features
19 requests- Fix filter functionality
- Make it known that people are on the app and can't accept requests without initiating themselves
- Fix inbox loading issues
- Improve stability of the app
- Allow use on multiple devices simultaneously
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- Add options to filter through messages
- Fix profile and menu interface
- Fix Hot List feature
- Fix credit purchase errors
- Improve customer service
- Update app for newer iOS versions
- Fix voice greeting recording
- Allow profile information updates (height, weight, etc.)
- Fix message sending functionality
- Fix live connection issues
- Fix photo upload issues
- Improve sound quality
- Increase user base
- Add dark mode option
RealMen
Reported bugs
6 issues- Invalid action error when attempting login
- Account deletion without user initiation
- Pending account reactivation requests not resolving
- Verification code delivery failures to iMessage
- Password reset link errors
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- Account setup failures on some devices
Requested features
5 requests- Increased user base and advertising
- Better spam and scammer filtering
- Improved account security and verification
- More robust profile authentication
- Enhanced user moderation and vetting
In-app purchases
QuestChat
- 20 Credits$6.99
- 20 Chat Room Credits$9.99
- 40 Chat Room Credits$9.99
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- 60 Credits$13.99
- 120 Credits$21.99
- 90 Chat Room Credits$28.99
- 180 Chat Room Credits$28.99
- 160 Chat Room Credits$48.99
- 320 Chat Room Credits$48.99
- 420 Chat Room Credits$99.99
RealMen
- VIP PROFILE$9.951 Month
