Comparison

Privé Concierge vs Softly

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Privé Concierge

Features
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Private Butler 24/7 bespoke appeal to your needs. Available in the App: ⁃ Guides: the world at your fingertips, experiences tailored by exceptional service partners ⁃ Travel Butler: preferred partner programs at 1000+ luxury hotels and resorts worldwide ⁃ Gourmet Butler: one of the leading loyalty programs with 400+ partners: Priority reservation at world’s best restaurants Restaurant ranking and tailored selections Special offers available for Club Members only Special meet&greet and top-level service Ready to change your life?

About

Softly

This keyboard app helps you rephrase hurtful text messages into kinder, more constructive ones before you send them. It works across all your messaging platforms, offering a private way to improve your communication and reduce conflict.

Highlights
  • Keyboard works in all messaging apps
  • One-tap message softening
  • Reduces blame in texts
  • Based on Nonviolent Communication
  • Private communication tool
  • Unlimited transformations with Premium
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79% of couples fight over text. It's called fexting — and it makes everything worse. You type something hurtful at 11 pm. You hit send. You spend the next two hours escalating. By morning, a small misunderstanding has become a full-blown fight. Softly stops that cycle — right inside your keyboard. HOW IT WORKS Softly is a keyboard for iPhone that works in every messaging app. Type what you feel. Tap "Soften." See a kinder version that says the same thing without the blame. • Works in iMessage, WhatsApp, Telegram, Instagram DMs, Slack, Email — everywhere you type • One tap to soften — no copy-pasting, no switching apps, no awkward AI workarounds • Your feelings stay. The blame disappears. • Based on Nonviolent Communication (NVC) — the same framework therapists use WHAT MAKES SOFTLY DIFFERENT Unlike couples apps that require both partners to sign up, Softly works for you alone. It's your personal communication tool — like Grammarly for your relationship. No shared accounts. No partner onboarding. No one needs to know you use it. WHO IT'S FOR • You've been in therapy and know "I feel" statements work — but can't access them at midnight when you're exhausted • You've caught yourself using AI to rewrite messages — but it's awkward, and your partner might find out • You fight over text 3-5 times a month and regret what you send minutes after • You're in a long-distance relationship where 90% of conflict happens in chat BUILT ON SCIENCE Softly uses principles from Nonviolent Communication (Marshall Rosenberg) and research by the Gottman Institute. Studies show text-based conflicts resolve only 35% of the time vs 85% face-to-face. When you can't talk in person, Softly bridges the gap. PRICING Free: 5 message transformations per day. Softly Premium: $9.99/month or $59.99/year — unlimited transformations, full history, priority speed Your words shape your relationship. Make them count. Privacy Policy: https://softly.pulsecircle.studio/privacy Terms of Use: https://softly.pulsecircle.studio/terms

Screenshots

Privé Concierge3 screens
Softly4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: Privé Concierge at none against Softly's 2. Privé Concierge also leads on iOS requirement (13.0 vs 17.0). Softly's advantage is ads (none vs shown) and update cadence (fortnightly vs every 3 months). On price and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Softly sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $9.99 per month. Privé Concierge asks for nothing beyond the download.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Privé Concierge ships an update every 3 months, Softly fortnightly. The most recent releases landed on October 25, 2026 and October 24, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard4 real differences · 6 level
Privé Concierge versus Softly: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterPrivé ConciergeSoftly
PriceFreeFree
Rating—5.0 (1 ratings) — better
Positive reviews—100.0% of reviews
Number of ratings—1 — better
Update frequencyEvery 3 monthsFortnightly — better
AdsYesNo — better
In-app purchasesNo — betterYes
Monetization—Freemium
DevicesiPhone, iPod — betteriPhone
Requires iOS13.0 — better17.0
Further details — not scored
Size138 MB8 MB
Age rating4+4+
DeveloperARMONIA SYSTEMSPulse Circle L.L.C-FZ

In-app purchases

None

Privé Concierge

No in-app purchases

2 purchases

Softly

Subscriptions2
  • Softly Monthly7 Days trial$9.991 Month
  • Softly Annual7 Days trial$59.991 Year

Questions

Is Privé Concierge free?
Privé Concierge is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is Softly free?
Softly is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Privé Concierge or Softly have ads?
Privé Concierge shows ads; Softly does not.
Which is updated more often, Privé Concierge or Softly?
Privé Concierge ships an update every 3 months, and Softly fortnightly. Most recently, Privé Concierge was updated on October 25, 2026 and Softly on October 24, 2026.

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