Mood Pass vs Ember
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
Mood Pass
This app helps couples communicate their emotional states and needs more effectively. It allows users to share their mood, express needs like needing space, and send gentle connection nudges. The goal is to foster greater emotional clarity and reduce misunderstandings.
- Share mood to partner's home screen
- Express needs like 'I need space'
- Send gentle connection nudges
- Create custom moods with emojis
- Use personal words for expression
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Built for couples who want fewer misunderstandings and more emotional clarity. Whether you’re feeling off, need space, or just crushed a big win. Some days you want closeness. Others, a little space. Mood Pass helps you show how you feel, without needing the perfect words. No more “What’s wrong?” loops. No more mismatched energy. Just clarity, care, and connection. Mood Pass helps you to: - Share your mood to your partner’s Home Screen - Express your needs, like “I need space” or “I’d love a hug” - Send gentle nudges to stay connected - Create custom moods, define your own vibes and pair them with emojis - Use your own words, because presets aren’t always enough Built for couples who: - Are in a long-distance relationship and want to feel closer between calls - Live together and want fewer unnecessary conflicts - Struggle to express how they feel in the moment - Want to feel seen without always having to explain How to get started with Mood Pass: - Both you and your partner download the app - Enter your partner’s name and share your unique 6-digit code. - Once they enter the code on their phone, you’re connected and ready to start sharing your mood. Upgrade to Mood Pass Plus to unlock the full mood library, custom emotions, personalized messages, and playful nudges. Speak your mood. Be understood. Stay connected. Whether you’re across the room or across the country, Mood Pass helps you stay emotionally connected. --- This app contains a subscription: You can subscribe for a plus account with unlimited access to all moods in the library, custom emotions, customised messages, access to nudges, new monthly content and no ads. The subscription period is 1 year with a 3 day trial or 1 month. Link to our Terms of Use: https://www.vanilla.nl/terms-of-use/ Link to our Privacy Policy: https://www.vanilla.nl/privacy-policy/
Ember
This app provides AI-powered coaching to help couples improve communication and connection. It offers tools for analyzing conversations, daily prompts for connection, and research-backed plans for relationship growth. Designed for proactive relationship care.
- AI couples coaching sessions
- Real-time argument analysis
- Daily conversation prompts
- Research-backed relationship plans
- Text communication analysis
- Relationship style quiz
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Ember is a relationship wellness app for couples who want to stay close - not just fix things when they go wrong. Most couples don't fall apart dramatically. They just get busy - and the small moments that kept them close quietly disappear. Ember gives those moments back. A Spark on the couch before bed. A check-in that takes ten minutes and actually covers something real. A question that takes you somewhere you didn't expect. Relationships do better with regular attention. Ember is the tending. ***Meet Em*** Em was created by Ellie Baker, a couples coach and Ember's founder. She's the AI at the heart of the app - sharp, warm, and built on real relationship expertise. She brings a systems-thinking perspective to your relationship, spotting patterns before drift becomes distance. ***Key Features*** Sparks Short prompts you and your partner answer separately, then compare. You don't see their answer until you've done yours. Takes minutes - gets you past the logistics and into something real. Talk to Em Voice or text conversations with Em, available whenever you need her. Talk to her solo to think something through privately - what you share stays between you and her. Or bring her in as a couple when you have something specific to work through together. Em keeps things on track and sends a useful summary at the end. Set up a recurring relationship check-in and Em handles the structure so you actually cover what matters, not just what's top of mind. Plans Guided programs on communication, conflict, and connection. Each chapter pairs short expert content with something to actually do - a conversation with Em, a challenge, or a nudge. Work through them at your own pace. Quizzes Find out something new about yourself and your partner. Start with the Love Animals Quiz - discover your relationship personality type, whether you're the dolphin, the hawk, or one of six others - and understand what drives you both. ***What you’ll get*** - Playful, lighthearted, straightforward practices that take less time than scrolling Instagram. - See your patterns clearly enough to actually change them. - A habit that builds quietly - without it feeling like work. **Subscription Information** Ember offers an auto-renewing 1-month and annual subscription – both of which give you full access to the entire library of content, app features and two hours of talk time with Em per month for as long as you maintain an active subscription. Payment will be charged to your Apple account at the time of initial subscription purchase. Subscriptions automatically renew unless you cancel your subscription at least 24 hours before the current subscription period ends. Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours prior to the end of the current period end date. You may cancel your subscription at any time by going to your Account Settings and tapping on “Manage Membership” after the purchase. --- Ember is designed for users 18+. Ember is not therapy, and is not a replacement for any medical diagnostic or treatments. Ember cannot, and does not intend to, provide medical advice or diagnosis. Ember is not designed to be used in crisis. If you are in crisis, please seek out professional help, or a crisis line. You can find resources at www.findahelpline.com. Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula Privacy Policy: https://www.embercouples.com/privacy-policy
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Verdict
The clearest difference is monetization model: Mood Pass at free with in-app purchases against Ember's subscription. Mood Pass also leads on ads (none vs shown) and update cadence (daily vs weekly). Ember's advantage is ratings volume (710 vs 10) and rating (4.6 vs 4.3). On price, in-app purchases, device support and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Mood Pass sells 3 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month and Ember sells 15 in-app purchases, starting at $14.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
Ember holds the better App Store score, 4.6 against 4.3. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Ember has 710 ratings behind it against 10, so its average is the more settled of the two.
Mood Pass ships an update daily, Ember weekly. The most recent releases landed on September 9, 2026 and October 16, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | Mood Pass | Ember |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 4.3 (10 ratings) | 4.6 (710 ratings) — better |
| Positive reviews | — | 51.8% of reviews |
| Number of ratings | 10 | 710 — better |
| Update frequency | Daily — better | Weekly |
| Ads | No — better | Yes |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases — better | Subscription |
| Devices | iPhone | iPhone |
| Requires iOS | 17.6 | 16.4 — better |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 28 MB | 171 MB |
| Age rating | 4+ | 12+ |
| Developer | Vanilla b.v. | Ember Couples Ltd |
Customer experience
Mood Pass
Ember
Bugs and requests
Mood Pass
Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.
Ember
Reported bugs
2 issues- AI coach sometimes fails to understand context
- App can feel repetitive and impersonal
Requested features
2 requests- Upload feature to share files/images
- More customization options
In-app purchases
Mood Pass
- Mood Pass Plus Monthly$4.991 Month
- Mood Pass Plus Yearly Special3 Days trial$11.951 Year
- Mood Pass Plus Yearly3 Days trial$35.901 Year
Ember
- Monthly$14.991 Month
- Monthly3 Days trial$14.991 Month
- Full Access - Monthly$19.991 Month
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- Monthly3 Days trial$19.991 Month
- Full Access - Monthly$24.991 Month
- Full Access - Quarterly$44.993 Months
- Quarterly3 Days trial$44.993 Months
- Full Access - Quarterly$54.993 Months
- Annual$59.991 Year
- Yearly3 Days trial$59.991 Year
- Full Access - Yearly$109.991 Year
- Yearly3 Days trial$154.991 Year
- Full Access - Yearly$167.991 Year
- 1 Hour of conversation credits$19.99
- 10 hours of conversation credits$109.99









