Candle vs Dispute

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Some arguments go in circles. You have both made the same point four times, you both feel unheard, and neither of you can say what you are actually disagreeing about any more. Dispute is for that. One phone, two people, about fifteen minutes. HOW IT WORKS 1. Say what the argument is, in one line, and put both your names in. 2. Each of you takes the phone and writes your side properly, on your own, with the other person not reading over your shoulder. 3. The app turns both sides into one list of points, shuffled together, with no names on it. You each go through the same list and tick what you agree with. Because you cannot tell whose point is whose, you end up judging the point. 4. It shows you what you already agree on. In most arguments this is more than either person expected. 5. Then it names the crux: the one question where, depending on the answer, either of you would change your mind. Not a summary, not a compromise, and not a verdict. One question, and something you could actually go and do to settle it. 6. At the end you get the whole thing written up, which you can keep or share. WHAT IT WILL NOT DO It never takes a side. It does not tell you who is right, it does not score the argument, and it does not comment on your relationship. It has no opinion about either of you and it is not supposed to. WHAT IT COSTS Nothing. There is no account, no sign-in, no subscription and no ads. You do not need to make an account with anyone, and there is nothing to set up before you start. THE AI, AND WHAT LEAVES YOUR PHONE The list of points and the crux are written by Mistral, and the first screen asks whether you want that before anything happens. The AI is off until you say yes. Say yes and what you both type is sent away to be read by an AI model, run by Mistral or by Cloudflare. It costs you nothing, and neither of them uses it to train anything. The app tells you all of this on that same first screen, before you type anything. Say no and the app still works: you write your own points, you name the crux together from a filled-in draft, and nothing leaves the phone. That is a complete way to use it and it is how the app started. You can change your mind either way in Settings. The one argument you have open is stored in one file on your phone. Deleting it in Settings deletes it. There is no cloud copy, no sync, and nothing on our end with your name on it, because there is no account to put a name in.