Comparison

Affinitas vs SoleMait

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side β€” with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Affinitas

Features
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Affinitas is an AI-powered relationship coach designed for couples who want to reconnect, communicate better, and plan meaningful moments together. After a short onboarding, receive personalized conversation prompts, daily tips, and guided exercises tailored to your unique relationship. Features include: β€’ AI-driven conversation prompts and daily suggestions β€’ Guided communication and empathy exercises to improve understanding β€’ Curated date ideas and shared activities for quality time β€’ Private, device-scoped data handling and secure storage Start using Affinitas to foster better communication, deepen intimacy, and enjoy more intentional time together. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

About

SoleMait

Features
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Strengthen your relationship with science-based insights β€” together. SoleMait helps couples understand each other on a deeper level. Discover your love languages, explore personality dynamics, and grow closer with personalized guidance rooted in established relationship research. SoleMait draws on frameworks from leading relationship researchers. It is designed for general wellbeing and relationship reflection β€” not as a substitute for professional counseling, but an everyday tool to improve how you relate to each other. Together you can chat and message privately, with coach listening in, at your request to give you advice for how to better communicate with your partner. UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER β€’ Love Language Assessment β€” learn how you and your partner give and receive love β€’ Big Five Personality Insights β€” explore traits and communication styles β€’ Relational Compass β€” visualize your relationship dynamics across key dimensions β€’ Compatibility Score β€” see where you align and where you can grow CONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER β€’ Partner Linking β€” connect to share insights β€’Send messages to your partner with AI Coach advice for how to meet your partners expectations. β€’ Appreciation Cards β€” send meaningful messages to brighten their day β€’ Song Messages β€” share songs that capture how you feel β€’ Curiosity Invitations β€” spark deeper conversations together. β€’ Conversation cards; More than 900 cards to help you discuss what matters to you. GROW TOGETHER β€’ AI Relationship Coach β€” get personalized guidance based on both your personality profiles β€’ Moment Flow Check-ins β€” reflect on your emotional weather and relationship terrain together or by yourself β€’ Conflict Reflection β€” process disagreements with structured, empathic tools β€’ Repair Messages β€” reach out when things need mending. Conflicts happen, how you connect back is what matters. TRACK YOUR JOURNEY β€’ Couple Profile β€” an evolving portrait of your relationship strengths β€’ Compatibility Trends β€” watch your understanding deepen over time β€’ Weekly Check-ins β€” stay attuned to each other's emotional world Conflict is normal β€” repair is what matters. Reflect on a Conflict Together Both partners reflect from their perspective on the same moment. Coach SoleMait helps you see patterns and find a path forward. How it works; Your individual reflections stay private. Only Coach SoleMait's third party reflections are visible to both Partners. You each privately reflect on what happened and how you felt Once both have reflected, Coach SoleMait analyzes the pattern You both see insights about your cycle and how to repair Third-party perspective Coach SoleMait reads both sides without judgement and helps you understand each other's experience β€” not to assign blame, but to find the path back to connection. Your data is encrypted and protected. We will never sell your personal information. See our complete Privacy Policy at https://app.solemait.no/privacy-policy See our complete Terms of Service: https://app.solemait.no/terms-of-service Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Affinitas4 screens
SoleMait4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is iOS requirement: Affinitas at 13.0 against SoleMait's 15.0. On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price Β· Rating Β· Positive reviews Β· Number of ratings Β· Update frequency Β· Ads Β· In-app purchases Β· Monetization Β· Best chart rank Β· Devices Β· Requires iOS

CostPrice Β· In-app purchases Β· Ads Β· Monetization

Both are free to download. Affinitas sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month and SoleMait sells 1 in-app purchase, starting at $3.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Scorecard1 real difference Β· 4 level
Affinitas versus SoleMait: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterAffinitasSoleMait
PriceFreeFree
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod β€” better
Requires iOS13.0 β€” better15.0
Further details β€” not scored
Size90 MB48 MB
Age rating17+12+
DeveloperVictor MotricalaSoleMait AS

In-app purchases

2 purchases

Affinitas

Subscriptions2
  • Premium Monthly Subscription7 Days trial$4.991 Month
  • Premium Yearly Subscription7 Days trial$49.991 Year
1 purchases

SoleMait

Subscriptions1
  • SoleMait Premium Monthly1 Month trial$3.991 Month

Questions

Is Affinitas free?
Affinitas is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is SoleMait free?
SoleMait is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Affinitas or SoleMait have ads?
Neither Affinitas nor SoleMait shows ads.

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