Affinitas vs Mend
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side โ with what reviewers say about each.
Affinitas
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Affinitas is an AI-powered relationship coach designed for couples who want to reconnect, communicate better, and plan meaningful moments together. After a short onboarding, receive personalized conversation prompts, daily tips, and guided exercises tailored to your unique relationship. Features include: โข AI-driven conversation prompts and daily suggestions โข Guided communication and empathy exercises to improve understanding โข Curated date ideas and shared activities for quality time โข Private, device-scoped data handling and secure storage Start using Affinitas to foster better communication, deepen intimacy, and enjoy more intentional time together. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
Mend
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When something gets tense with the people who matter most and you don't know how to talk about it, Mend is built for that exact moment. Mend is communication coaching for the hard conversations with the people closest to you: your partner, your family, close friends, or the work dynamics that spill into your personal life. It's built on Nonviolent Communication (Marshall Rosenberg) and John Gottman's research on lasting relationships โ two of the most studied methodologies in the world โ adapted to the moment you're in and the way you talk. Three modes, depending on the moment: RITUAL ยท Your daily practice Five minutes a day. Questions that help you notice what you feel before it comes out as a reaction. The habit of listening to yourself changes how you talk to everyone else. Not overnight. Over weeks. COACH ยท Guided difficult conversations When you need to prepare for a conversation that matters, or make sense of one that's already gotten away from you. Coach helps you see the situation from where you stand โ and from where the other person stands. It doesn't tell you what to say. It helps you see what you're missing. LIGHTHOUSE ยท For the moments that can't wait When you're already in the middle of it and about to say something you'll regret, Lighthouse gives you guidance right then. Ephemeral by design: nothing you share there is saved. Mend is private. It's a daily communication tool โ not a substitute for working with a mental health professional if you need one. Subscription with a 7-day free trial. Cancel anytime from your Apple account. Terms of Use: https://legal.mymend.app/en/terms.html Privacy Policy: https://legal.mymend.app/en/privacy.html
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Verdict
Affinitas and Mend are too close to call on the numbers: across 5 compared parameters โ price, ads, in-app purchases and device support among them โ neither pulls far enough ahead to decide it. What separates them is feature set and interface, not measurable difference.
Scored on Price ยท Rating ยท Positive reviews ยท Number of ratings ยท Update frequency ยท Ads ยท In-app purchases ยท Monetization ยท Best chart rank ยท Devices ยท Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Affinitas sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month and Mend sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $12.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
| Parameter | Affinitas | Mend |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Update frequency | โ | Every 3 days |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod | iPhone, iPod |
| Requires iOS | 13.0 | 13.0 |
| Further details โ not scored | ||
| Size | 90 MB | 39 MB |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | Victor Motricala | Antonio Gonzalez |
In-app purchases
Affinitas
- Premium Monthly Subscription7 Days trial$4.991 Month
- Premium Yearly Subscription7 Days trial$49.991 Year
Mend
- Mensual7 Days trial$12.991 Month
- Anual7 Days trial$59.991 Year





