Comparison

Affinitas vs Mend

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Affinitas

Features
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Affinitas is an AI-powered relationship coach designed for couples who want to reconnect, communicate better, and plan meaningful moments together. After a short onboarding, receive personalized conversation prompts, daily tips, and guided exercises tailored to your unique relationship. Features include: • AI-driven conversation prompts and daily suggestions • Guided communication and empathy exercises to improve understanding • Curated date ideas and shared activities for quality time • Private, device-scoped data handling and secure storage Start using Affinitas to foster better communication, deepen intimacy, and enjoy more intentional time together. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

About

Mend

Features
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A place to let it out and find your words when things get tense with someone you care about. Write what's going on, however it comes out. You don't need an account. Mend is communication coaching for the hard conversations with the people closest to you: your partner, your family, your friends, or the work that spills into your personal life. It's inspired by Marshall Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication and John Gottman's research on relationships. THREE SPACES, DEPENDING ON THE MOMENT COACH Ā· To understand and prepare Tell it what happened, or what you're struggling to say. Coach helps you see the situation from where you stand and from where the other person stands. It doesn't tell you what to say: it helps you find your own words. When it's worth it, it leaves you a line to take with you. NOW Ā· For what can't wait When you're in the middle of it and about to say something you'll regret. Breathe with a guide, or say what's going on, without judgment. Nothing you write in Now is saved. RITUAL Ā· One minute a day A short pause to see how you're doing. My journey shows how you've been feeling over time. Each day you complete your ritual or stay with a Coach conversation, you earn a paper crane. The widget keeps count on your Home Screen. FREE • Breathe in Now • The daily ritual and your cranes • My journey for the last 7 days • Help finding a support line in your country MEND PREMIUM • Unlimited Coach replies • Now, whenever you need it • Your whole journey: 30 days and all your older entries Mend Premium includes a 7-day free trial for eligible accounts. Your subscription renews automatically unless you cancel at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Cancel anytime in your Apple account settings. PRIVACY To reply to you, Mend uses AI from Anthropic: what you write in Coach and Now is sent to generate the reply. Creating an account is optional. Mend is a communication tool and is not a substitute for care from a mental health professional. If you're in danger, call your local emergency number. Terms of Use: https://aguapiedraestudio.app/mend/en/terms/ Privacy Policy: https://aguapiedraestudio.app/mend/en/privacy/

Screenshots

Affinitas4 screens
Mend4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is iOS requirement: Affinitas at 13.0 against Mend's 15.0. On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price Ā· Rating Ā· Positive reviews Ā· Number of ratings Ā· Update frequency Ā· Ads Ā· In-app purchases Ā· Monetization Ā· Best chart rank Ā· Devices Ā· Requires iOS

CostPrice Ā· In-app purchases Ā· Ads Ā· Monetization

Both are free to download. Affinitas sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month and Mend sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $12.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Scorecard1 real difference Ā· 5 level
Affinitas versus Mend: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterAffinitasMend
PriceFreeFree
Update frequency—Every 3 days
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPod
Requires iOS13.0 — better15.0
Further details — not scored
Size90 MB42 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperVictor MotricalaAntonio Gonzalez

In-app purchases

2 purchases

Affinitas

Subscriptions2
  • Premium Monthly Subscription7 Days trial$4.991 Month
  • Premium Yearly Subscription7 Days trial$49.991 Year
2 purchases

Mend

Subscriptions2
  • Mensual7 Days trial$12.991 Month
  • Anual7 Days trial$59.991 Year

Questions

Is Affinitas free?
Affinitas is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Mend free?
Mend is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Affinitas or Mend have ads?
Neither Affinitas nor Mend shows ads.

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