Comparison

Stabilize vs DearMe

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Stabilize

Track hormone replacement therapy (HRT) for menopause and perimenopause. Log medication doses, symptoms with severity, and generate reports for your doctor. Designed for privacy with no account required.

Highlights
  • HRT regimen tracking (patches, pills, gels, injections)
  • Continuous, intermittent, and cyclic progesterone schedules
  • Log doses taken and missed
  • Daily symptom logging with severity
  • Custom symptom addition
  • Printable reports for doctors
  • Private data storage via iCloud
Features
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Finally, a way to make sense of menopause. Hot flashes. Brain fog. Mood swings. Sleep problems. When you're going through menopause, every day feels different; and unpredictable. Stabilize helps you track your symptoms, spot your patterns, and feel more in control. TRACK WHAT MATTERS • Log symptoms in seconds with our quick-tap tracker • Track 40+ menopause symptoms including hot flashes, night sweats, mood changes, sleep quality, and more • Add custom symptoms unique to your experience • Rate severity so you can see what's getting better (or worse) SEE YOUR PATTERNS • Visual charts show how symptoms change over time • Correlate symptoms with sleep, stress, and lifestyle • Spot triggers you might be missing • Share reports with your doctor FOR HRT USERS • Track medications, patches, and supplements • Log doses and refill reminders • See how treatments affect your symptoms over time BUILT FOR REAL LIFE • Private and secure—your data stays on your device • No account required • Simple, clean design that doesn't overwhelm • Created by people who get it Whether you're pre-menopause, in the thick of it, or post-menopause, Stabilize helps you understand your body and take back control. --- Stabilize Premium unlocks unlimited symptom history, detailed analytics, and medication tracking. Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

About

DearMe

This app provides a private space to reflect on your personal identity through daily meaningful questions. It helps you rediscover your dreams, passions, and values, building a unique constellation of your inner world over time.

Highlights
  • Daily meaningful questions
  • Personal constellation visualization
  • Identity Profile creation
  • 15 discoverable badges
  • Story wall for all answers
  • 7 question categories
Features
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You were someone before you were a parent. DearMe helps you remember. DearMe is a quiet, beautiful space just for you. Every day, answer one meaningful question about yourself — not about your kids, not about your home. Just you. Your dreams. Your memories. Your passions. Who you actually are. Each answer adds a glowing light to your personal constellation. Over days and weeks, your sky fills with color and meaning — a living portrait of your inner world. WHAT MAKES DEARME DIFFERENT • Questions about YOU — not productivity, not parenting, not self-improvement metrics • Answer as many or as few questions as you feel like on any given day • Your constellation never dies — missing a day doesn't erase your progress • 7 categories unlock over time: Dreams, Passions, Memories, Values, Strengths, Curiosity, Joy • After 10 answers, your Identity Profile emerges — your top values, passions, and strengths • 15 badges to discover as you explore different parts of yourself • Your story wall holds every answer you've ever written — a growing portrait of who you are 7 QUESTION CATEGORIES Questions unlock gradually as you go deeper: • Dreams — what you'd do with a free day, who you wanted to be • Passions — hobbies you miss, topics that light you up (unlocks day 7) • Memories — moments you felt most like yourself (unlocks day 14) • Values — what you stand for, what you'd never compromise (unlocks day 21) • Strengths — what you're good at, what people come to you for (unlocks day 30) • Curiosity — what you wish you'd learned, what fascinates you (unlocks day 45) • Joy — what makes you laugh, what makes ordinary days beautiful (unlocks day 60) YOUR CONSTELLATION Every answer adds a glowing colored dot to your personal night sky. Each category has its own color — warm gold for dreams, coral for passions, soft blue for memories. Watch your unique sky take shape over time. COMPLETELY PRIVATE Everything stays on your device. No account required. No data collected. No internet connection needed. Your answers are yours alone. COMPLETELY FREE No ads. No in-app purchases. No subscription. Ever. DearMe is for anyone who has ever felt like they lost themselves in a role — parent, caregiver, partner. It's a small daily act of remembering that you are a full person with a rich interior life worth exploring. Open it in the quiet moments. Answer honestly. Watch yourself emerge.

Screenshots

Stabilize4 screens
DearMe3 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: DearMe at none against Stabilize's 8. DearMe also leads on ads (none vs shown) and rating (5.0 vs 4.6). Stabilize's advantage is ratings volume (20 vs 1). On price, update cadence, device support and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Stabilize sells 8 in-app purchases, starting at $7.99 per 7 days. DearMe asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

DearMe holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 4.6. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Stabilize has 20 ratings behind it against 1, so its average is the more settled of the two.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Stabilize ships an update weekly, DearMe every 3 days. The most recent releases landed on October 30, 2026 and October 31, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard5 real differences · 5 level
Stabilize versus DearMe: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterStabilizeDearMe
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.6 (20 ratings)5.0 (1 ratings) — better
Positive reviews66.7% of reviews—
Number of ratings20 — better1
Update frequencyWeeklyEvery 3 days — better
AdsYesNo — better
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFree — better
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPod
Requires iOS15.115.1
Further details — not scored
Size112 MB21 MB
Age rating12+4+
Developer8 O'Clock, LLCChristopher Jalbert

Customer experience

Stabilize

All ratings19 ratings
Positive89.5%
Neutral5.3%
Negative5.3%
Written reviews3 reviews
Positive66.7%
Neutral0.0%
Negative33.3%

DearMe

All ratings1 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

In-app purchases

8 purchases

Stabilize

Subscriptions8
  • Stabilize Membership (Weekly)$7.997 Days
  • Stabilize Monthly$14.991 Month
  • Stabilize Pro - 3 Months$24.993 Months
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  • Stabilize Annual + Trial3 Days trial$49.991 Year
  • Stabilize Annual + Trial14 Days trial$49.991 Year
  • Stabilize Annual$49.991 Year
  • Stabilize Family Plan14 Days trial$69.991 Year
  • Stabilize Family Plan$69.991 Year
None

DearMe

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is Stabilize free?
Stabilize is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is DearMe free?
DearMe is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Which has better reviews, Stabilize or DearMe?
DearMe is rated higher. Stabilize averages 4.6 out of 5 from 20 ratings, while DearMe averages 5.0 from 1 ratings.
Do Stabilize or DearMe have ads?
Stabilize shows ads; DearMe does not.
Which is updated more often, Stabilize or DearMe?
Stabilize ships an update weekly, and DearMe every 3 days. Most recently, Stabilize was updated on October 30, 2026 and DearMe on October 31, 2026.

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