Together vs Selfinder

Together helps couples stay connected - whether you're thousands of miles apart or curled up on the couch. Answer one shared question a day, send hand-drawn Doodles, count down to your next reunion, and build a bucket list of dreams for the future. Made for every couple. Perfect for long distance. DAILY CHALLENGE One shared question every day - and neither of you sees the other's answer until you've both replied. Questions, this-or-that with a guess, drawings, photos, scales and dares. A small daily reason to check in on each other. DOODLES Hand-drawn notes only the two of you see. Sketch a heart, scribble a silly face, leave a surprise on your partner's morning. Draw on top of their doodle to keep a private visual conversation going, and react to theirs with a heart, a laugh, or any emoji you like. Pens, crayons, colors, fonts, photos - no artistic skills required. Or schedule one: draw it now and have it arrive later, in your time zone or theirs. HOME SCREEN & LOCK SCREEN WIDGETS Your countdown, your partner's mood, the distance between you, the latest doodle - all one glance away. Beautiful widgets for your home screen and Lock Screen. PARTNER'S BATTERY AT A GLANCE Know when to text and when to let them charge. See your partner's battery level right on your home screen and Lock Screen - a small, thoughtful signal that they're reachable (or running low). COUNTDOWNS Create a countdown to your next date, trip, or moment worth celebrating. Watch it tick down live with beautiful widgets. DAILY MOOD CHECK-INS Share how you're feeling with one tap. See your partner's mood at a glance. Stay emotionally in sync, even on your busiest days. SHARED BUCKET LIST Dream it. Plan it. Do it. Build a list of places to visit, things to try, and experiences to share. Check them off as you go. Group it into boards - movies to watch, food ideas, trips - and move many at once when the list gets long. TIMELINE & MILESTONES Your love story, captured. Document your first date, trips, anniversaries - every moment that matters. Look back and see how far you've come. PRIVATE NOTES Remember the little things. Their coffee order, ring size, gift ideas, date plans. Keep a note private, or share it with your partner - you choose, note by note. TOGETHER PREMIUM One subscription covers both of you. - Unlimited countdowns, notes & milestones - Home screen & Lock Screen widgets - Partner's battery and distance widgets - Creative daily challenges: drawings, photos, scales & dares - Your full challenge history and stats - Premium fonts, crayons, and custom colors in Doodles Available as a monthly subscription or a one-time lifetime purchase. Made for every couple - newly together, long-distance, or celebrating years of love. https://together-app.co/terms

Raise your vibration — with a philosopher at your side. Most apps tell you how to feel. Selfinder starts by asking where you actually are. FIND WHERE YOU STAND Four short questions — about your body, mind, heart and spirit — place you on a map of 17 states, from shame to peace. Not a score, not a verdict: a position, like a dot on a map. Every state has its own page: what it feels like, where you meet it in the world, and what it's for. USE IT Every state carries something you can work with. Anger has fuel; grief has depth. A short guided session helps you put today's state to work in your day. SHIFT TOWARD LOVE When you want to, your philosopher walks with you from where you are toward love: slow breathing, a moment of warmth you already know, then letting it widen. About seven minutes, with sound underneath. At the end, you place yourself on the map again — and see where the walk took you. WALK WITH A REAL PHILOSOPHER Choose who guides you, each in their own place: Socrates in his portico, asking until you hear your own answer. Marcus Aurelius in his inner citadel, writing like an emperor's private notebook. Kierkegaard between two doors, on choice and anxiety. Camus on the hillside, living with what makes no sense. Aristotle in his library, turning everything into practice. Each is there to ask, never to tell you who you are. SAY WHAT YOU NEVER SAY OUT LOUD Talk it through in conversation, or write freely for one minute with no one watching. The answers were always yours — Selfinder just makes room to hear them. GO DEEPER Twelve Journeys — question paths into what you're really carrying: control, the choice in front of you, the loop you keep repeating, the voice that isn't yours, what's enough. WATCH YOUR ARC FORM Every reading becomes a point. Over weeks, the points draw the shape of your inner weather — a record of what happened, in your own words, never an analysis of you. MORE WAYS IN • Breathe — guided breath • Tune In — sound to settle into • A symbol, a message, or the moon, for right now • A gentle daily reminder, if you want one MADE TO FEEL LIKE AN EVENING BY THE FIRE, NOT ANOTHER APP No streaks. No badges. No guilt for missing a day. Your words stay yours: first-party analytics only, no ad tracking, and you can export or delete everything. Free. In English and Russian. Selfinder is a practice for self-reflection, not therapy or medical care. If you're struggling, please reach out to a professional or a local helpline — the app's "Need help now?" shows the line for your region.