Comparison

Mendly vs the worry jar

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Mendly

This app helps you track and understand negative self-talk in real-time. Simply tap each time a critical thought arises to interrupt the pattern and gain awareness. It offers insights into your daily and weekly trends, with optional voice notes for self-compassion.

Highlights
  • Real-time negative thought tapping
  • Daily tap count and hourly patterns
  • Weekly trend analysis
  • Optional voice note recording
  • Milestone badges and shareable cards
  • On-device voice recording storage
Features
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The moment you notice a negative thought, tap. That's it. No journaling. No long exercises. No prompts to fill out. Mendly is a real-time tap counter for negative self-talk — a simple tap every time your inner critic shows up, and a record of how often it speaks. Most people are surprised by their number. That surprise is often where awareness begins. CATCH IT One tap every time a negative thought appears. The act of catching it interrupts the pattern. Over time, the voice gets quieter when it knows you're listening. UNDERSTAND IT See your daily tap count, hourly patterns, and weekly trends. Discover when your inner critic is loudest — morning, evening, certain days — and notice why. REFLECT ON IT Record a short voice note after tapping. Say one kind thing to yourself. It takes 15 seconds and the habit gets easier faster than catching alone. SHARE IT Milestone badges and shareable cards mark the moments that matter. Send them to a friend, post them, or keep them for yourself. YOUR PRIVACY, PROTECTED Voice recordings are stored on your device. They are never uploaded, never shared, never analyzed. You can delete them anytime. Mendly is not a meditation app, a journal, or a mood tracker. It's the smallest possible tool for the biggest habit — noticing. 7-day free trial. Then $7.99/month or $59.99/year. Your Apple ID will be charged upon confirmation of purchase. To cancel, go to iPhone Settings → Apple ID → Subscriptions → Mendly → Cancel Subscription. By downloading Mendly, you agree to Apple's Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

About

the worry jar

Features
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the worry jar is a small, quiet place for the things weighing on you. when something is on your mind, tap the jar and set it down. type it, or simply say it. it settles inside as a soft, glowing light, wandering gently, waiting. when you're ready, let it go. breathe out on your phone and the worry rises from the jar to become a star in your sky, resting near a real, named star you can look for tonight. some things belong to the sky now. — breathe out to let a worry go. the mic only feels your breath; nothing is recorded — a worry window: one gentle time each day to look at what's waiting, so worries don't follow you all day — your sky: a chart of every real star your worries were given, drawn where it truly sits — a jar of real glass under a calm night sky, with the moon in its real phase and extra shooting stars on meteor-shower nights — drop a worry in with siri, control center, the action button or your apple watch — a gentle daily reminder, on your terms. never a notification storm — lock the jar with face id — soft ambient sound and gentle haptics, and easy to use with voiceover and larger text private by design: no account, no analytics. your worries never leave your device. everything that helps stays free. if the jar has been helping, you can support it: new glass, skies and sounds, new ways to let go like a dandelion or a paper lantern, and your sky as a wallpaper. try any of them first, or simply leave a light: every thank-you hangs a lantern in your sky. built for moments when you don't need a journal, a therapist or an app full of features. just a place to set something down. sleep a little easier tonight.

Screenshots

Mendly4 screens
the worry jar4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is iOS requirement: Mendly at 15.1 against the worry jar's 17.0. On price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Mendly sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $7.99 per month and the worry jar sells 4 one-off in-app purchases. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Mendly ships an update every 2 months, the worry jar every 3 months. The most recent releases landed on October 20, 2026 and October 25, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard1 real difference · 8 level
Mendly versus the worry jar: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterMendlythe worry jar
PriceFreeFree
Rating5.0 (1 ratings) — better—
Number of ratings1 — better—
Update frequencyEvery 2 months — betterEvery 3 months
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, Apple Watch
Requires iOS15.1 — better17.0
Further details — not scored
Size54 MB15 MB
Age rating12+4+
DeveloperMathai PuthiakunnelKrishna Desai

In-app purchases

2 purchases

Mendly

Subscriptions2
  • Mendly Pro Monthly7 Days trial$7.991 Month
  • Mendly Pro Annual7 Days trial$59.991 Year
4 purchases

the worry jar

One-time4
  • a candle$1.99
  • supporter$4.99
  • a lantern$4.99
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  • a little moon$9.99

Questions

Is Mendly free?
Mendly is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is the worry jar free?
the worry jar is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Mendly or the worry jar have ads?
Neither Mendly nor the worry jar shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Mendly or the worry jar?
Mendly ships an update every 2 months, and the worry jar every 3 months. Most recently, Mendly was updated on October 20, 2026 and the worry jar on October 25, 2026.

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