Dated vs Intimassy
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
Dated
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There's a pattern in how you date. You can feel it, but you can't quite see it, because you're inside it. Dated is a private journal for your love life. Write after a date, a text spiral, a breakup, a situationship that won't end. Over time, the patterns you keep missing start to surface, in the words you already wrote. Therapy only hears the latest story. Friends react to this guy, not the last five. A blank notes app just holds the rant until you forget it. Dated is the one place that reads across everything. WRITE FOR FREE - Unlimited entries, by text or voice - Guided prompts built for dating, not generic "how was your day" - Tag the people you date and watch your timeline build - Full access to everything you've written, anytime - Export your entries whenever you want - iCloud backup and Face ID lock UPGRADE FOR THE INTELLIGENCE Premium is where the AI reads across your entries and shows you what you can't see alone: - Your Dating Blueprint: your type, your patterns, and the gap between what you want and what you choose - AI pattern insights across every entry and every person - Weekly summaries you'll actually want to screenshot - Emotional arcs that show how a connection shifted, week by week - Cluster view that groups the people who were quietly the same - AI insights included in your exports The writing is always free. The pattern recognition is the paid part. No AI in the free tier, no bait, no surprise. WHO IT'S FOR Single women who have done the therapy, read the books, built the career, and still keep ending up in the same place. In therapy or not. About to delete the apps again, or already have. Ever said "I keep dating the same type"? This shows you the answer, in your own words. PRIVATE BY DESIGN This is intimate writing, and it's treated that way. Entries on your device are encrypted. iCloud backups are protected by Apple's encryption. Your entries stay between you and your devices. No feed, no followers, no one reading over your shoulder. Dated doesn't diagnose you and it won't fix you. It isn't therapy. It's a private space to see what you keep choosing, so the next time can actually be different. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
Intimassy
This app serves as a private, encrypted journal for relationships, allowing users to log intimate moments with detailed fields, track patterns over time, and manage partner profiles. It offers insights through statistics and health records, all secured with a PIN and encryption.
- Detailed logging with 11 fields per entry
- Partner profiles with history and statistics
- 15+ relationship statistics and charts
- Interactive calendar and history view
- Private intimate health records
- PIN lock and strong encryption
- Customizable themes and fields
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Intimassy is a private journal for your love life. A PIN lock keeps the app closed to anyone else. Every entry is encrypted on your phone before it is backed up. Record each moment in detail and see your patterns grow over the years. It works the same with one partner, several, or on your own. DETAILED LOG — 14 FIELDS PER ENTRY Tap any date and record as much or as little as you like: • Partner — link each entry to one or more partners • Type — built-in types, or your own • Position — your own, with names, notes and intensity • Toys — your own toy list, each linkable to a position • Duration — how long it lasted • Satisfaction — rate how it felt • Initiator — note who started • Protection — note whether you used it • Place — remember where it happened • Notes — anything you want to remember • Photos — attach private images Save an entry as a named template and fill the whole form in one tap. Hide the fields you never use. PARTNER PROFILES Keep a profile for every partner: photo, gender, relationship type and notes. See your statistics for one partner or for all of them, and how your entries split between partners. Filter your calendar and history by partner. Archive a past partner: their history stays, and your lists stay clean. 15+ STATISTICS See real patterns, for all partners or just one: • Frequency — how often, by day or month • Satisfaction and duration over time • Your most-used types, places, positions and toys • Activity by weekday • Month & year comparison — this month against the last, or any two months or years side by side CALENDAR & HISTORY Browse everything on a calendar with daily icons. Tap any date to revisit an entry or add a new one. Filter the calendar and your history by partner, or show only solo entries. The days-since card shows how long it has been since your last entry, and your usual rhythm. APPLE WATCH Log from your wrist. Time an activity on your Apple Watch, or record one from a template with one tap. Template names hide when you lower your wrist. CYCLE TRACKING Mark period days for yourself or for a partner. The calendar shows the estimated next period, fertile window and ovulation day, based on your entries. These are estimates only: not medical advice, and not a contraceptive method. HEALTH RECORDS Keep private health records next to your history: what it is, when it started, whether it is ongoing, and whether it is yours or a partner told you. Mark those dates on your calendar and history if you choose. Intimassy only shows what you saved. It never diagnoses. ANONYMOUS BENCHMARKS See how your frequency, duration and satisfaction compare with anonymized averages across all users. You only ever see averages, never another person's entries. BUILT FOR PRIVACY • PIN lock — the app asks for your PIN before it opens • Encrypted on your phone — every entry and photo is encrypted before it is backed up • Hidden in the app switcher — no preview of your data • No personalized ads, and no tracking across other apps • Analytics and crash reports stay off until you turn them on • Cloud backup — entries, photos, partners, templates and settings come back on a new phone • Delete your account and all cloud data from inside the app MAKE IT YOURS • Color themes, plus dark and light mode • Your own types, places, positions and toys • Custom calendar day icons • A customizable days-since card • Choose which fields to show • Private photo gallery • LGBTQ+ friendly — every orientation and identity is welcome Intimassy is built for the long run: a private record that grows richer year after year. Terms of Use: https://intimassy.app/terms-of-use/ Privacy Policy: https://intimassy.app/privacy-policy/
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Verdict
The clearest difference is device support: Intimassy at 4 against Dated's 1. Intimassy also leads on iOS requirement (15.0 vs 27.0). On price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Dated sells 3 in-app purchases, starting at $8.99 per month and Intimassy sells 10 in-app purchases, starting at $2.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.
Dated ships an update every 9 days, Intimassy fortnightly. Both last shipped on October 31, 2026.
| Parameter | Dated | Intimassy |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | — | 5.0 (2 ratings) — better |
| Number of ratings | — | 2 — better |
| Update frequency | Every 9 days — better | Fortnightly |
| Ads | Yes | Yes |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Monetization | — | Free with in-app purchases |
| Devices | iPhone | iPhone, iPad, iPod, Apple Watch — better |
| Requires iOS | 27.0 | 15.0 — better |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 43 MB | 68 MB |
| Age rating | 4+ | 17+ |
| Developer | Evocentra Ventures LLC | Significant Inc |
In-app purchases
Dated
- Premium Monthly$8.991 Month
- Founding Yearly$39.991 Year
- Premium Yearly7 Days trial$49.991 Year
Intimassy
- Platinum Monthly$2.991 Month
- Platinum Yearly Discount$7.991 Year
- Platinum Yearly$34.991 Year
- Lock Feature Discounted$2.99
- Lock Feature$5.99
- Remove Ads Discounted$6.99
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- Activity Image Gallery Discounted$7.99
- Limitless Partner$7.99
- Activity Image Gallery$9.99
- Platinum Pack Discounted$14.99









