Comparison

Held vs Stages

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Held

This app provides a private space to process loss and grief at your own pace. It offers daily check-ins, guided reflections, support for difficult days, and a place to store memories. It's designed to be a gentle companion through the grieving process.

Highlights
  • Daily check-ins
  • Guided reflection and journaling
  • Support for difficult days
  • Memory Garden for cherished moments
  • Gentle encouragement and reminders
  • Private and personal space
Features
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Grief is not something you get over. It is something you learn to carry. Held is a gentle, private space to carry loss with Scripture, prayer and honest reflection, at your own pace. You do not have to navigate this alone. WHAT HELD OFFERS Daily Check-Ins Start each day with a gentle prompt that meets you where you are. No performance. No right answers. Just a quiet moment to acknowledge how you are feeling. Guided Reflection and Journaling Work through grief with prompts drawn from a companion book written for people in the middle of real loss. Each reflection invites you to slow down, feel what is true and find words for what is hard to say. Support for Difficult Days Some days are heavier than others. Held includes a space to return to when grief feels especially close, on anniversaries, hard mornings or unexpected waves of sadness. A Place for Memories Keep the people and moments you have loved. The Memory Garden gives you a quiet corner to hold what matters. Gentle Encouragement Held does not rush you. It walks with you. Receive soft reminders that bring you back when you are ready. ROOTED IN FAITH Held is shaped by Scripture and written from more than 25 years of walking with grieving people. Each chapter offers a passage to sit with, a prayer when words are hard, and space to be honest with God about what hurts. If you are uncertain about faith but open to comfort, you are welcome here too. DESIGNED FOR REAL GRIEF There is no right way to grieve. Held does not offer a five-step process or a finish line. It offers a place to be honest, to reflect and to feel less alone after loss. Use it daily, occasionally or only when you need it most. No pressure to keep up. PRIVATE AND PERSONAL Your journal entries and reflections stay on your device. What you write in Held belongs to you. You are not alone. Held is here to walk with you through grief, one step at a time.

About

Stages

This app provides a safe and anonymous space for individuals to connect with peers who have experienced similar losses. Users can share in community forums, have private conversations, and journal their thoughts. It's designed for those navigating grief and seeking understanding from others who have lived through it.

Highlights
  • Anonymous peer connections
  • Grief stage matching
  • Community forums
  • Private peer conversations
  • Private journaling
  • Loss-based matching
Features
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Stages was built by someone who lost their sister and couldn't find what they actually needed. Grief doesn't follow a schedule. It arrives in waves; at 2am, in the middle of a workday, on what should have been a good day. Stages was born from those moments. When grief overwhelms you and you need someone who truly understands, not because they read about it, but because they lived it - there hasn't been a place to turn. Until now. Grief isn't something you heal from completely. It's something you carry. But you don't have to carry it alone. Stages connects you anonymously with peers who get it, people navigating loss just like you. No therapists, no algorithms pushing engagement, no pressure. Just real people helping real people. On Stages, you can: • Connect with others based on your loss, grief stage, and matching preferences • Share in community forums with people who understand what you're going through • Have private, anonymous peer conversations when you need to talk • Journal your thoughts and memories on a private, safe platform We believe that helping others ultimately helps you. Terms of Use: https://thestagesapp.com/terms

Screenshots

Held4 screens
Stages4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is monetization model: Held at free against Stages's freemium. On price, rating, ratings volume and update cadence there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Held sells 6 one-off in-app purchases and Stages sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $6.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

On the App Store both sit at effectively the same score — 5.0 for Held against 5.0 for Stages. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 3 and 4 respectively.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Both ship on a similar rhythm, roughly weekly. The most recent releases landed on November 5, 2026 and October 31, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard1 real difference · 8 level
Held versus Stages: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterHeldStages
PriceFreeFree
Rating5.0 (3 ratings)5.0 (4 ratings)
Number of ratings34 — better
Update frequencyWeeklyWeekly
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree — betterFreemium
DevicesiPhone, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod — better
Requires iOS15.115.1
Further details — not scored
Size32 MB53 MB
Age rating4+17+
DeveloperCompassion Innovations LLCStages Limited Liability Company

Customer experience

Held

All ratings3 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

Stages

All ratings4 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

In-app purchases

6 purchases

Held

One-time6
  • Held While in the Valley - Digital$9.99
  • Held Digital Book - Pay it Forward$9.99
  • 2 Digital Books$18.99
Show 3 more
  • 3 Digital Books$26.99
  • 4 Digital Books$34.99
  • 5 Digital Books$42.99
2 purchases

Stages

Subscriptions2
  • Stages Premium Monthly$6.991 Month
  • Stages Premium$64.991 Year

Questions

Is Held free?
Held is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Stages free?
Stages is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, Held or Stages?
Held and Stages are both rated 5.0 out of 5 on the App Store, from 3 and 4 ratings respectively.
Do Held or Stages have ads?
Neither Held nor Stages shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Held or Stages?
Held ships an update weekly, and Stages weekly. Most recently, Held was updated on November 5, 2026 and Stages on October 31, 2026.

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