Comparison

Datey vs Trysta

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Datey

This app helps you privately track your dating life, remembering details about people, dates, and patterns. It offers insights into your dating habits with charts and maps, all while prioritizing your privacy with on-device storage.

Highlights
  • Track potential, exploring, dated, and relationship statuses
  • Rich profiles with photos, meeting details, and notes
  • Log date activities, ratings, and create recap cards
  • Calendar integration for planned dates
  • Visualize dating patterns with charts and stats
  • World map with dating history and country stamps
  • On-device storage and optional Face ID/iCloud sync
Features
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Datey is a relationship tracker and journal for couples and singles. Count your days together, save shared memories and make plans as a couple. Use Single mode to keep track of your dates, the people you’re seeing and how you felt. COUPLE MODE • Track your days together from your relationship start date, and keep anniversaries and special days in view. • Link with your partner to build a shared collection of memories and photos from your time together. • Plan your next date and make a bucket list of places to go and things to do together. • Keep your trips and places visited together in one place, so you can look back on where you’ve been. • Answer questions, guess your partner’s answers and compare your responses. • Add widgets for your days together, upcoming plans and special days, so you can check them at a glance. SINGLE MODE • Create profiles for the people you date and keep notes and photos organized by person. • Record each date with its place, your feelings and what you spent, then revisit the details later. • Plan upcoming dates and add them to your calendar to keep track of what’s next. • Review your dating history with stats about the people you’ve met, places you’ve been and spending. • Create shareable recaps to look back on your dating experiences. PRIVACY Use an optional app lock and a private photo vault. Optional iCloud sync connects your own devices; linking with a partner requires iCloud. DATEY PRO Datey requires a monthly or yearly subscription, or a one-time Lifetime purchase. An invited partner can use Couple mode without a separate purchase while shared access is active. Payment is charged to your Apple Account at purchase confirmation. Subscriptions renew automatically unless canceled at least 24 hours before the current period ends. Manage or cancel in your Apple Account settings. Terms of Use: https://dateyapp.co/terms/ Privacy Policy: https://dateyapp.co/privacy/

About

Trysta

Features
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Trysta is a private diary for your dating life. Everything you'd never write down anywhere else, in one place, behind a lock. TRACK WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED • Every date, every partner — notes, photos, ratings, voice memos • The moments between dates: gifts, milestones, things that came out • What it costs you. Dating is expensive and nobody counts. • STI check-ups, with reminders that know exactly how many contacts a test would clear • Achievements for real milestones, not gamified nonsense THEN SEE WHAT YOU'VE BEEN MISSING Far enough in, patterns show up that you can't see from the inside. Who you actually go for. What your best relationships had in common. How things tend to end — and whether it's always the same way. Statistics do the counting. AI insights do the part that stings: an honest read on your own behaviour, drawn from your own history. They stay off until you turn them on — your text goes to Google's Gemini only when you ask for an analysis, and only after you agree. WHEN IT BECOMES SOMETHING Start a relationship and the app changes with you: a home screen for the two of you, a photo, and a count of how long it's been. NOBODY ELSE GETS TO READ THIS • Passcode and Face ID lock • iCloud sync through your own private iCloud — your data never touches our servers • No account, no feed, nothing shared with anyone, ever • Export it or delete it whenever you want Trysta is for adults keeping a record of their own dating life. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Screenshots

Datey4 screens
Trysta4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is iOS requirement: Datey at 18.0 against Trysta's 26.2. On price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Datey sells 4 in-app purchases, starting at $12.99 per month and Trysta sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Both ship on a similar rhythm, roughly daily. Both last shipped on October 24, 2026.

Scorecard1 real difference · 9 level
Datey versus Trysta: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterDateyTrysta
PriceFreeFree
Rating5.0 (2 ratings) — better—
Positive reviews100.0% of reviews—
Number of ratings2 — better—
Update frequencyDailyDaily
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchases—
DevicesiPhone, iPad — betteriPhone
Requires iOS18.0 — better26.2
Further details — not scored
Size834 MB37 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperTortuga Global Tech LLCAnton Mischenko

In-app purchases

4 purchases

Datey

Subscriptions3
  • Monthly7 Days trial$12.991 Month
  • Datey Pro Yearly14 Days trial$29.991 Year
  • Yearly14 Days trial$39.991 Year
One-time1
  • Lifetime$129.99
2 purchases

Trysta

Subscriptions2
  • Trysta Pro (Monthly)$4.991 Month
  • Trysta Pro (Yearly)$29.991 Year

Questions

Is Datey free?
Datey is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Trysta free?
Trysta is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Datey or Trysta have ads?
Neither Datey nor Trysta shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Datey or Trysta?
Datey ships an update daily, and Trysta daily. Most recently, Datey was updated on October 24, 2026 and Trysta on October 24, 2026.

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