Patterns vs Reluma

Track how people make you feel. Keep the receipts. Notice the pattern. Patterns is a private relationship tracker and mood journal for understanding the connections in your life. Add a partner, date, friend, family member, or coworker, then record how each interaction leaves you feeling over time. QUICK EMOTIONAL CHECK-INS Log a feeling, choose its intensity, and add a note when context matters. A few seconds is enough to build an honest record you can return to later. KEEP THE RECEIPTS Save specific moments as green flags or red flags so important behavior does not get blurred by time. Add a title, private note, and optional photo or screenshot to remember what actually happened. SEE THE PATTERN Review relationship timelines, recurring feelings, flag totals, and 30-day trends. Notice which connections feel supportive, draining, calm, confusing, or mixed. MADE FOR EVERY RELATIONSHIP Patterns is not just a couples app. Use it for dating, friendships, family dynamics, work relationships, or any person whose behavior affects your wellbeing. Reflect on boundaries, positive signs, and difficult patterns without forcing everything into a single diary. PRIVATE BY DESIGN No account is required. Names, check-ins, notes, and receipt attachments stay locally on your device, giving you a calm space to be honest with yourself. Privacy Policy : EULA:https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

It won't tell you he's avoidant. It'll tell you he cancelled three times. Write what happened, in your own words. RELUMA shows you what you wrote — his moves and yours, dated — and names the pattern when there is one. Built by a licensed psychotherapist. No AI guessing why. No labels. Your first read is free, no account. HOW IT WORKS Say what happened, in your own words. RELUMA sorts who did what, flags what stands out, and remembers. You decide what happens next. RELUMA doesn't. After each moment, get a signal — red, yellow, or green — for you and for them. Not a verdict: RELUMA proposes, you confirm. One tap. Nothing counts until you say it's right. The more you use it, the clearer the picture gets: what you keep doing, not who you supposedly are. No diagnoses. No advice. Just what's actually going on, in your own words, handed back to you. WHY IT'S DIFFERENT Most dating content hands out labels — "you're anxious attachment," "he's avoidant" — from people with a bad breakup and a following. RELUMA was built by a licensed psychotherapist with real clinical training, for the moments therapy doesn't reach: 2am, mid-spiral, before you hit send. It's not you. It's the pattern. SAY WHAT HAPPENED Describe one moment in your own words. In 60 seconds, RELUMA hands it back sorted — who did what, what stands out, what you'd usually miss. No advice. No scripts. No labels. TRACK IT AS IT HAPPENS Log a date the night it happens. RELUMA keeps a private timeline and notices when something starts to look familiar — before you're six dates deep. SEE YOUR PATTERN Reflect a few times and RELUMA shows you what keeps happening — in your words, with dates. Not a quiz result. Not a diagnosis. A mirror. PRIVATE BY DESIGN Your entries are yours. Never shared, never public. Your first read is free. See what you keep doing. Terms of Use: https://app.getreluma.com/terms Privacy Policy: https://app.getreluma.com/privacy