Helped him understand what I couldn't explain
For a long time I felt unheard in my marriage. Whenever I tried explaining how I felt, my husband would hear it as criticism and get defensive, and we'd end up in another argument. BlueRabbit helped me work through my side first, and when he eventually joined he had his own private sessions. I think having a neutral voice help him see some of what was happening between us made a difference. It didn't feel like me blaming him again.
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I could start without him
My husband wasn't interested in counseling, which was one of the reasons I downloaded BlueRabbit. I liked that I didn't need him to participate before I could start working on our relationship. The sessions focused on what was happening between us, how I was responding and what I could do differently. Later I asked him to join. Having something neutral guide both of us was much easier than trying to explain everything to him myself.
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Highly relevant to my actual struggles
The biggest thing I struggled with was feeling unheard, which would eventually turn into another argument. The sessions felt more relevant than generic relationship advice because they were based on what I was actually going through. It gave me a different way to approach conversations without immediately getting defensive.
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Practical solutions for the same old arguments
We kept having the same arguments over and over, and I felt like we were talking but never really communicating. BlueRabbit helped me look at what was happening underneath those arguments and gave me practical things to try instead of just telling me to “communicate better.” I also liked that I could start on my own without waiting for my partner to join.
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Good
My partner was not ready to join traditional counseling but somehow I was able to convince him to atleast try app based counseling and it worked really well for us. While we both completed sessions on our own device, this app made sure that the sessions communicate each other's needs effectively and helped us communicate better
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