Great idea, poor execution
It'd probably be my favorite dating app if it wasn't such a drag to use. The notification badge always shows silly high numbers, the chats are a little clunky to manage (unmatched chats stay in your inbox and can't be removed) and the worst for me, it forces me to use the horrible stock apple keyboard.
They don't automatically make you verify and there's a lot of scammers too.
The idea and functionality, other than these pain points, are great. Definitely the least predatory feeling of the ones I tried.
They don't automatically make you verify and there's a lot of scammers too.
The idea and functionality, other than these pain points, are great. Definitely the least predatory feeling of the ones I tried.
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My type?
Finally?
I’m sis-male. Never stated that hg at first…. Looking for new friends from the trans-community. For g they last 2-3 months, I’ve been getting matched with 95% lesbians.
With about
4 1/2%bi- females.
Thanx
No/thanx
I’ll keep my money an go to as decent local bar and depend upon my innate charm and natural-magnetics
How do I quit???
I’m sis-male. Never stated that hg at first…. Looking for new friends from the trans-community. For g they last 2-3 months, I’ve been getting matched with 95% lesbians.
With about
4 1/2%bi- females.
Thanx
No/thanx
I’ll keep my money an go to as decent local bar and depend upon my innate charm and natural-magnetics
How do I quit???
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Needs fixed badly
People become unavailable. And the chat is stuck and I can’t delete and or report the account, cause 2 of them are at least scams. The pop ups from the app won’t stop, and are getting in the way. The chat is stuck, there’s no option to delete it if the person becomes unavailable.
INFESTED WITH BOTS
SUGAR MOMMY BOTS LIKING YOU LEFT AND RIGHT, that’s where the 30$ you gave this app goes.
super buggy
constantly bugs out in messages and won’t show the message sent by the other person and to get it you have to close the app and reopen. also if you click messages from your notification screen and you are having an active conversation, each click opens a new window that you have to hit the back button on to get back to the home page. love it for it’s purpose but sooooo buggy
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Expensive
Really expensive! Should add a fetish section
Full of cis men
Reporting wouldnt change a thing!
Match Group ruined HER
They advertised on OkCupid, which I saw, that ad brought a ton of straight guys to this little lesbian bar, if you will. Now it’s overrun with straight guys harassing us. In the last week or so, way more straight guys liked me than women, extremely unusual. Or used to be! They trashed our space. It was such a nice experience. But it’s over now. But Match Group is bigoted af anyway. They ruined dating. NEVER GIVE THEM ANY MONEY. They don’t deserve it
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Can’t filter by non-monogamous without paying
The inability to filter by non-monogamous makes the basic version essentially unusable for polyamorous people.
almost no point of the app if you don’t pay for platinum
almost no point of the app if you don’t pay for platinum and platinum is 30 DOLLARS A MONTH! that’s insane. you can have a ton of likes on your profile and it only lets you see like one a day… so you basically get to have like no conversations even if ur profile is getting matches. sad to see a dating app meant for women and queer ppl and it being such a HUGE money sucking plot:(
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Broken
App is very buggy. Spent money on a boost and no one is seeing my profile. I close the app and it’s opening again on its own. Waste of money
sketchy practices
i tried to make an account a few months ago and immediately got my account suspended before i even made a profile/spoke to anyone. when i emailed it was automatic due to “funky business” on my account and i needed to read the community guidelines (like, what? i haven’t even made an account yet?) and the only way to get my account unlocked was to send in full face scans along with full id/passport over email. how does that not sound like a scam when i’ve never even used to app?
anyway, i asked them to delete my account and all my information as i don’t trust the app at all and was assured they would. three months later im still painfully single and was willing to try again with Her, i go to make an account again and lo and behold they hadn’t deleted any of my data as they said they would and emailing again they said again it was my fault for how i practiced (still never even made a profile lol).
tldr:
staff lie via emails and ask for personal identifying information. staff pass the blame to you before you can even make a profile. app keeps your private information even when they tell you they’ve deleted it
anyway, i asked them to delete my account and all my information as i don’t trust the app at all and was assured they would. three months later im still painfully single and was willing to try again with Her, i go to make an account again and lo and behold they hadn’t deleted any of my data as they said they would and emailing again they said again it was my fault for how i practiced (still never even made a profile lol).
tldr:
staff lie via emails and ask for personal identifying information. staff pass the blame to you before you can even make a profile. app keeps your private information even when they tell you they’ve deleted it
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I thought this was supposed to be for women??
This app has gone downhill immensely over the years. It has decent features in concept, but politics ruined it because now you have to slog through a ton of MEN’s profiles (which are usually pretty perverted I notice, or blatantly lying by calling themselves actual lesbians, or both) so it’s harder to find actual women. I actually feel bad for the creator. It used to be an awesome place to meet other women even if it was just to have a running buddy or something.
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Why are there men on here?
If it’s an app for HER , let it be for HER not HIM, men have grinder. Why are there men on here?
I wish we could search users
Once you initially message, someone, you can’t go on their profile and start a message thread afterwards. You have to search through your archive to find them as there is no search bar on the message as well.. As a premium user, it is kind of an inconvenience because you can look at all of the likes, but you can’t message directly! Still a great app just wish this one bug was fixed
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Is there a zero star i can check?
Horrible app for emotionally available people or for good looking healthy people who are not looking for hookups only or threesomes or obese men pretending to be women- also can they clean up the scam phishing accounts who are somewhere in asia or russia and want to take you off app and on whatsapp only so they can ask you for money.
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Not worth your time
Pretty sure a large chunk of the user base is scam bots and inactive accounts. Also they lock the ability to see who liked you behind a paywall, making it difficult to actually connect with anyone.
I guess I’ll update my review if anything changes, but I’m probably gonna try something else.
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Update:
I have started a few conversations, but the majority of the people who like my profile are middle-aged men who want hookups, which is not what this app is supposedly meant for.
I guess I’ll update my review if anything changes, but I’m probably gonna try something else.
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Update:
I have started a few conversations, but the majority of the people who like my profile are middle-aged men who want hookups, which is not what this app is supposedly meant for.
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Trash
This app is absolutely trash. Kept freezing my account with nothing as evidence to show me what I did “ wrong “. I don’t know, I think the app is a joke and highly DO NOT recommend it.
Glitchy and users will punish you
Users who submit a complaint that freezes your account should maybe looked closer at. Like if they liked your profile sent you a flower and a note and weirdly found you on instagram when you didn’t match. Then shortly after your account is frozen for violating community standards 🤔
Meh
Sick of the standard hot or not style of swiping. The app interface is too sensitive, I’ve accidentally swiped no on too many people that I thought were cute and there is no way to reverse those accidents without paying way too much money (as in, get your pricing structure under control!). Being alone forever is better than paying you crooks to actually have a good chance to match with someone I might get along with. Also, the amount of cis gender guys on this app is getting out of hand. Are there literally no spaces where women can be safe from them? Smh
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