Not there yet
I really wanted to like this app because the concept is exactly what I was looking for, but so far I’ve been very disappointed.
I even upgraded my subscription thinking it might improve my experience or visibility, yet my profile has received absolutely no views. Not a few. None. That seems very strange for a paid dating/connection app.
What’s even more frustrating is that most of the profiles I’m seeing are straight men looking for women, which is not what I joined a Lavender Marriage app to find. I was looking for people interested in genuine platonic or nontraditional partnerships, companionship, and arrangements that actually fit the concept of a lavender marriage.
At this point, it feels much more like a poorly filtered traditional dating app than the unique community it advertises itself to be. I love the idea behind the app, but the actual experience and matching pool need significant improvement, especially if people are being asked to pay for a subscription. I’ll revisit another time.
I even upgraded my subscription thinking it might improve my experience or visibility, yet my profile has received absolutely no views. Not a few. None. That seems very strange for a paid dating/connection app.
What’s even more frustrating is that most of the profiles I’m seeing are straight men looking for women, which is not what I joined a Lavender Marriage app to find. I was looking for people interested in genuine platonic or nontraditional partnerships, companionship, and arrangements that actually fit the concept of a lavender marriage.
At this point, it feels much more like a poorly filtered traditional dating app than the unique community it advertises itself to be. I love the idea behind the app, but the actual experience and matching pool need significant improvement, especially if people are being asked to pay for a subscription. I’ll revisit another time.
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SSday157
Hopeful
There is no help section that I can find! The insights section just continuously buffers. The views stay at zero which could be just a me problem lol but I feel like I would at least have a couple views after a week. I upgraded to the premium thinking I’d get better everything not sure what’s changed because I’m not seeing any activity whatsoever. Hoping this is just new app bugs and not a me problem 🤞 love the idea of this app though
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TTrkrgirl
Misleading
I had two issues with this dating app: low value and most men were not looking for a lavender marriage.
By low value I mean it was complicated to use and every feature seemed to be extra. There is no way to use this app successfully on the free version and in its current state I do not see why you’d want to pay.
It seemed like most of the profiles show to me were not seeking a lavender marriage. Additionally there were quite a few men who seemed to want to be sponsored and financially supported.
I don’t see this app lasting long term without major changes.
By low value I mean it was complicated to use and every feature seemed to be extra. There is no way to use this app successfully on the free version and in its current state I do not see why you’d want to pay.
It seemed like most of the profiles show to me were not seeking a lavender marriage. Additionally there were quite a few men who seemed to want to be sponsored and financially supported.
I don’t see this app lasting long term without major changes.
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E6EL 626
Response from developer
“Low value” because every feature isn’t free is certainly one way to review a brand-new niche app 😂 LLMA is built around intentional connections, not unlimited browsing. As for men wanting to be “sponsored,” that’s a user-quality issue we actively monitor—not the business model. We’re improving fast, but predicting our funeral this early feels ambitious.
Can’t change my pic to be visible, paid for $19 membership
How can people evaluate me if they can’t see all my photos?
PPandamammamama
Response from developer
You should absolutely be able to see their photos. Please start a chat in the app or email support@llma.app so we can take a look at what’s happening.
Can’t View Requests
I signed up for this and have a few connection requests, but when I try to click on any of their profiles, the app just glitches and the page jumps around. Super disappointing.
SRSara A. R.
Response from developer
That’s definitely not the experience we want. You should be able to open connection profiles without the page jumping or glitching. Please start a chat in the app or email support@llma.app so we can troubleshoot it and get you back in.
