sonder - find your people

sonder - find your people

make connections that last

16 ratings
45 reviews
Free
In-App Purchases

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  • Released
  • Updated
  • September 27, 2025
  • August 26, 2026
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This app offers a refreshing approach to making meaningful connections, moving beyond superficial interactions. It provides a platform for authentic self-expression and facilitates real-world meetups for genuine friendships and relationships.

Authentic self-expression
Meaningful connections
Real-world events
No superficial prompts
Find friends or partners
Community building
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What's New in sonder

1.0.83

August 26, 2026

App stability improvements :)

3

In-App Purchases

$4.99

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12 extra likes

User reviews

literally the BEST app!!

absolutely obsessed with sonder! the ppl I’ve spoken to here I’ve met and they’ve become very dear friends of mine. I have found it so tough to meet new people, and I’m tired of spending so much money going to pubs and excursions just to meet people - here I’ve met so many people like myself and that’s just the app! The in person events sonder holds are soooooo fun. Feels like I’m back in uni hanging out with my mates except I’ve got adult money now 😆 100% recommend!!!
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Response from developer

thank you sooo much for trying sonder!! we're so glad you're enjoying it and have made some genuine connections 😊 if you ever have any feedback, we'd love to hear it. thanks again for the kind words!!

Amazing app

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I’ve had a great experience using Sonder. The app is easy to use, and it’s been a really nice way to meet new people and make genuine connections. I like that it brings together people who are looking to expand their social circle, and the community feels welcoming and friendly. It’s perfect if you’ve moved to a new city or just want to meet like-minded people. I’d definitely recommend giving it a try!
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Response from developer

so glad you've had a great experience with sonder! thanks so much for the kind words. we're really happy to hear that it's helped you meet new people and make genuine connections. if you ever have any ideas or feedback, we'd love to hear them!

Be careful also location is not accurate

I’ve met a few weirdos off this app ngl which is unfortunate so just have your wits about you if you do use it and also the location is very off I’m getting people from Florida and different countries when my settings are set to 1km. Nice idea but disappointing app. Also matches should be removed if the person doesn’t reply ina. Timeframe a lot of time wasters on there
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Response from developer

hey, sorry about this. we're always improving the app, and we'll look into the issues around location filtering. also, feel free to report any concerning interaction or user. we take reports very seriously and respond to them within 12 hours.

A hope for social apps

Honestly, I would say the app is fun and unique. I haven’t had the chance to attend any events yet, but hopefully I will sooner or later. Even though I’m not usually comfortable in group settings, it’s still something I’m looking forward to.

I matched with all kinds of people and met a couple of them in person. Some conversations and encounters were disappointing, but they all taught me something in the end. I know many people, myself included, have busy lives and don’t always have time to meet up in real life. However, there are also some people who seem to prefer only talking online, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Personally, I’d rather interact face to face.

Nowadays, it’s hard to find genuine friends, so any social app can be hit or miss.

When I tried talking to guys romantically, it was exciting at first, but after meeting in person, I realised their intentions were different from mine, or the energy between us changed.

Overall, my experience using Sonder was about 50/50, but I still think it’s much better than many other social apps. My favourite feature was definitely the Mood Board!

I’ve also seen a lot of people mention that it’s difficult to find others nearby, especially if you don’t live in London. I’d definitely encourage the team to expand to more cities. Please consider Oxford too!
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AMAZING APP!!

The people on here seem to be more fun & interesting than people on other apps & I believe this is due to the creativity than can be unleashed through your profile design. It helps you identify which person you may befriend more easily. They also host regular events which seem like so much fun (e.g. painting tote bags). Incredibly underrated app, definitely the best I’ve ever used to try and meet new friends — that can actually hold a convo (ofc not everyone, but I believe there’s a lot more interesting ones than other apps). The founders seem like lovely people who actually care about the quality of their app the experiences of the people using the app. Theres also a ton of options to design your profile (you can even import things) and sm stickers to use in chats. The only improvement I could think of is adding voice notes 🙏
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FAQ

What makes sonder different from other social apps?

sonder focuses on authentic self-expression and genuine connections, moving away from performance-driven algorithms and superficial prompts common in other social media and dating apps. It aims to foster deeper relationships.

Does sonder have ads?

No, sonder does not contain advertisements. The app is free to download and use, with optional in-app purchases available for enhanced features.

What kind of events does sonder host?

sonder hosts real-world events designed for meaningful conversations and genuine connection, free from the pressure of performance or forced mingling. These events are intended to help users connect without a screen.

What is the age rating for sonder?

sonder has an age rating of 17+, indicating it is intended for mature audiences. This is likely due to the nature of forming adult relationships and social interactions.

How often is sonder updated?

The latest version of sonder is 1.0.57, and it was last updated on May 24, 2026. This suggests a relatively active development cycle for the application.

What devices does sonder support?

sonder is currently supported on iPhone and iPod devices. Compatibility with other platforms may be considered in future updates.

What are the benefits of in-app purchases in sonder?

While the app is free, in-app purchases are available. Specific benefits are not detailed in the provided data, but they typically enhance user experience or offer additional features within the app.

What is the user sentiment towards sonder based on ratings?

sonder has received a high rating of 4.7 stars from 167 ratings, indicating strong positive user sentiment. Users appear to appreciate the app's approach to connection and its features.