
Text Me Not
Do not text your ex tonight
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About
Text Me Not is for the texts your ex should not receive after 10 PM.
You know the message. It feels urgent at midnight and mortifying by morning. Text Me Not is the pause between the urge and the send button: a funny, kind cooldown that lets clear-headed you protect late-night you.
HOW IT WORKS
1. Pick the person. Your ex, your situationship, a former friend, a family boundary, or the boss who should not hear from you after hours.
2. Set your danger hours. The window when loneliness and nostalgia usually win. Every night, weekends only, or custom days, and windows that cross midnight work exactly as they should.
3. Survive the urge. When you want to reach out, open Text Me Not first. Five quick questions, one screen at a time, written like a best friend who loves you enough to be honest.
YOUR OWN REASONS
Write your reasons while your head is clear. The app keeps the receipts and shows them back to you at the exact moment of weakness. Add as many as you need.
CHOOSE YOUR ENDING
Do Not Send. Save it for tomorrow. Text someone safer instead. Or take a quiet minute and let the urge pass while the flower breathes with you. The choice is always yours; you are just no longer making it alone at midnight.
THREE VOICES
Gentle, Funny, or Unhinged but Helpful. Every headline, notification, and pep talk follows your lead.
ALWAYS WITHIN REACH
A Home Screen widget shows your danger hours at a glance and counts every text you never sent. Siri can start a cooldown hands free. The Lifeline heart in the corner of every screen jumps straight to a person who is good for you.
HONEST BY DESIGN
Text Me Not never reads your texts, monitors your calls, or blocks Messages. It cannot and it should not. It is a pause button you choose to press, and that is exactly why it works.
PRIVATE BY DEFAULT
No accounts, no tracking, no analytics. Your protected contacts, reasons, and drafts stay on your device.
TEXT ME NOT PLUS
The free version protects one contact with the full cooldown, reasons, and notifications. Plus unlocks up to 20 protected contacts, accountability buddies, and stats, for $0.99 a month or $9.99 a year. Subscriptions renew automatically and can be cancelled anytime in your App Store settings.
Terms of service - https://solocosmo.github.io/textmenot/terms.html
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What's New in Text Me Not
1.0
November 4, 2026
2
Subscriptions & In-App Purchases
Text Me Not Plus Yearly
Up to 20 contacts, buddies, and stats
$9.991 Year









