Comparison

Slowly vs Cogar

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Slowly

This app facilitates making friends globally through a unique letter-writing experience. It emphasizes thoughtful correspondence and cultural exchange, with letters arriving based on distance, fostering anticipation and deeper connections.

Highlights
  • Distance-based letter delivery
  • Collect unique regional stamps
  • Safe and secure communication
  • Unlimited free letters
  • Focus on thoughtful correspondence
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Slowly: Build Authentic Friendships at Your Own Pace "In a world dominated by instant messaging, meaningful connections have become a rare luxury." Slowly reimagines the art of correspondence, offering a unique way to make friends. Connect with penpals around the world and explore the beauty of cultural and linguistic exchange through thoughtfully written letters. Rediscover the joy of anticipation and dive into heartfelt, written conversations. Designed for those who prefer to take their time and focus on genuine connections, Slowly brings back the charm of traditional penpals. Each letter takes time to arrive—anywhere from a few hours to a few days—depending on the distance between you and your new friend. Whether you’re looking for foreign friends, a language exchange partner, or simply a quiet space to write a meaningful letter, Slowly is here for you. Key Features: ► Distance-Based Letter Delivery Each letter travels at a speed that reflects the physical distance between you and your friend, creating a sense of anticipation. With no pressure to respond instantly, you have time to reflect, compose your thoughts, and share your story. This slower pace nurtures deeper and more meaningful connections. ► Collect Over 2,000 Unique Stamps Turn every letter into an adventure by collecting unique regional stamps from across the globe. These stamps add a personal and cultural touch to your correspondence, serving as reminders of the friendships you create. ► A Safe and Secure Space for Everyone No photos, no real names—just your thoughts, shared in a secure and stress-free environment. Whether you're an introvert looking for deeper conversations or someone who values privacy, Slowly offers a safe place to express yourself and connect authentically. ► Unlimited Letters, Always Free Enjoy the art of writing without limits—send and receive as many letters as you like, completely free. Optional premium features are available to enhance your experience and meet your unique needs. Who Is Slowly For? - Anyone looking to make friends at their own pace, free from the rush of instant communication. - Language learners seeking partners for meaningful language exchange. - People who love writing letters and want to explore different cultures. - Introverts and thoughtful individuals who prefer calm, meaningful interactions. - Anyone hoping to meet new friends from all over the world. Slowly: Authentic Friendships, at Your Speed. Whether you’re looking to reconnect with the joy of letter writing, discover new perspectives, or simply build friendships that matter, Slowly is your perfect companion for creating meaningful connections in a fast-paced world. Terms of Service: https://slowly.app/terms/

About

Cogar

A social media platform dedicated to the Irish language and culture. It offers a space for speakers of all levels to connect, share content, and engage with Irish arts, heritage, and music.

Highlights
  • Irish-language social platform
  • Community for speakers of all levels
  • Promotes Irish arts and culture
  • International reach
  • Content sharing
Features
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Cogar is an Irish-language social media platform, aiming to create an online platform for the Irish language community - both in Ireland, and internationally. Whether you're a native speaker, have some experience, or are a beginner, the app aims to provide an "on-ramp" to Irish language content and activity, and create a space for the language, arts, heritage, music and culture to thrive. Is ardán sóisialta Gaeilge é Cogar, a bhfuil sé mar aidhm aige ardán ar líne a chruthú do phobal na Gaeilge - in Éirinn agus go hidirnáisiúnta araon. Cibé acu cainteoir dúchais thú, nó má tá roinnt taithí agat, nó más tosaitheoir thú, tá sé mar aidhm ag an aip "rampa isteach" a chur ar fáil d'ábhar agus do ghníomhaíochtaí Gaeilge, agus spás a chruthú don teanga, do na healaíona, don oidhreacht, don cheol agus don chultúr chun rathú.

Screenshots

Slowly4 screens
Cogar4 screens

Verdict

The call

Slowly and Cogar both sit at 4.7 stars, but that hides the real split: 72% of Slowly's written reviews are positive against 0% of Cogar's. Slowly also leads on ratings volume (11K vs 4) and update cadence (every 10 days vs every 3 weeks). Cogar's advantage is in-app purchases (none vs 10). On price, rating, ads and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Slowly sells 9 in-app purchases, starting at $7.99 per month. Cogar asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

Slowly holds the better App Store score, 4.7 against 4.5. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Slowly has 11K ratings behind it against 4, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 72% of Slowly's written reviews are positive against 0% of Cogar's.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Slowly ships an update every 10 days, Cogar every 3 weeks. The most recent releases landed on November 8, 2026 and October 30, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard6 real differences · 5 level
Slowly versus Cogar: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterSlowlyCogar
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.7 (11K ratings) — better4.5 (4 ratings)
Positive reviews72.4% of reviews — better0.0% of reviews
Number of ratings11K — better4
Update frequencyEvery 10 days — betterEvery 3 weeks
AdsYesYes
In-app purchasesYesNo — better
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesAd-supported — better
Best chart rank#209 — better—
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPod — betteriPhone, iPod
Requires iOS15.115.1
Further details — not scored
Size95 MB89 MB
Age rating17+17+
DeveloperSlowly Communications Ltd.Ronan O'Leary

Customer experience

Slowly

All ratings11,286 ratings
Positive92.9%
Neutral2.8%
Negative4.3%
Written reviews1,708 reviews
Positive72.4%
Neutral9.4%
Negative18.2%

Cogar

Written reviews1 reviews
Positive0.0%
Neutral100.0%
Negative0.0%

Bugs and requests

Slowly

Reported bugs

4 issues
  • Login issues and system errors
  • Inconsistent real-time updates
  • Crashes when replying to messages
  • Incorrect sent/received message counts

Requested features

7 requests
  • Ability to organize/categorize pen pals
  • Option to save draft letters
  • Customizable fonts and formatting for letters
  • Offline mode or message queuing
  • Ability to delete sent messages
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  • More age range filter options
  • Localization in multiple languages

Cogar

Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.

In-app purchases

9 purchases

Slowly

Subscriptions4
  • Slowly Plus$7.991 Month
  • Slowly Plus$42.991 Year
  • Slowly Plus3 Months trial2 variants$42.991 Year
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  • Slowly Plus7 Days trial$42.991 Year
One-time5
  • 50 SLOWLY COINS$0.99
  • 100 SLOWLY COINS$1.99
  • 200 SLOWLY COINS$3.99
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  • 500 SLOWLY COINS$7.99
  • 800 SLOWLY COINS$11.99
None

Cogar

No in-app purchases

Questions

Is Slowly free?
Slowly is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Cogar free?
Cogar is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Which has better reviews, Slowly or Cogar?
Slowly is rated higher. Slowly averages 4.7 out of 5 from 11K ratings, while Cogar averages 4.5 from 4 ratings.
Do Slowly or Cogar have ads?
Both Slowly and Cogar show ads.
Which is updated more often, Slowly or Cogar?
Slowly ships an update every 10 days, and Cogar every 3 weeks. Most recently, Slowly was updated on November 8, 2026 and Cogar on October 30, 2026.

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