Obedience vs Coregulation Journal
Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.
Obedience
This app helps couples in BDSM dynamics track daily and weekly habits, with one partner managing rewards and punishments. It facilitates real-time updates and communication between partners, supporting multiple participants.
- Customizable daily/weekly habits and tasks
- Define own punishments and rewards
- Track rules and assign points
- Live chat with partner
- Real-time sharing and multiple partner support
- Stats and graphs for habit tracking
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Obedience is a kinky habit tracker for couples in a BDSM dynamic. Whether you've been practising kink for a long time, or you're new to the scene, Obedience will help you and your partner(s) track daily and weekly habits, and puts the dominant in charge of rewards and punishments. Couples can connect their phones, which enables one to update their habit status and spend their rewarded coins, and the other to see these real time updates and set up a reward and punishment system. Features: -Add your own daily or weekly habits and tasks -Add your own punishments and rewards -Keep track of your rules -Live chat with partner -Assign rewards and/or punishments to your tasks and habits. -Give punishments and rewards automatically or manually -Give submissive points that they can spend on rewards -Real time sharing between dominant and submissive -Supports multiple partners -See stats and graphs about your habits -Set reminder/alarm notifications (coming soon!) ----------------------------------------- This app contains auto-renewable subscriptions. Subscriptions will automatically renew unless canceled within 24-hours before the end of the current period. You can cancel anytime with your iTunes account settings. Any unused portion of a free trial will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription. Privacy policy: https://obedienceapp.com/privacy-policy Terms and conditions: https://obedienceapp.com/terms-of-service
Coregulation Journal
This app provides a private space to log challenging parenting moments, detailing child and parent responses. It helps identify patterns in behavior, triggers, and effective calming strategies to foster understanding and growth.
- Behavior logging with intensity, duration, triggers
- Parent reaction tracking and reflection
- Pattern analysis dashboard
- Multiple child profiles
- Private iCloud sync
- Timeline and trend views
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Parenting through challenging moments is hard. Coregulation Journal gives you a private place to write down what happened, how your child responded, and how you responded too. Over time, those notes can turn into patterns you can actually use: what tends to set things off, what helps things settle, and where repair or support might be needed. Log the moment while it is still fresh. Capture intensity, duration, triggers, behaviors, consequences, location, and who was there. Add notes for the parts that do not fit neatly into a field. Reflect on your own reaction. Track how you felt, what you tried, what helped, what did not, and whether a repair conversation might be useful. The goal is not to judge the moment, but to learn from it. Notice patterns over time. The dashboard helps surface things that are hard to see day to day: behavior intensity, common antecedents, difficult times of day, day-of-week patterns, parent emotional states, and changes over time. NEW: See the month at a glance. The History calendar shows each child's month, with every day that has logs colored by its highest intensity. Tap a day to read what happened. NEW: Insights, provided by Apple Intelligence (Optional) On devices that support Apple Intelligence, you can turn on Insights. It reads your recent logs and writes a short summary for each child and one for you: the patterns it sees, a recommendation for each, and a note on whether things are improving. Insights are off by default, are generated entirely on your device, are never synced, and are deleted if you turn them off. Disclaimer: Insights are reflection aids, not professional advice. Built for all family types. Create separate profiles for each child and share with your partner or co-parent. Keep logs organized by day, and sync privately through your iCloud account. Features: - Behavior logging: intensity, duration, antecedents, behavior types, consequences, location, and people present - Reaction logging: emotional state, intensity, responses used, what helped, what did not, and repair tracking - Link a parent reaction directly to a behavior log (Reactions are always private and never shared) - History calendar with each day colored by intensity - Optional on-device Insights (requires a supported device) - Dashboard charts for behavior and reaction patterns - Period-over-period trend indicators - Multiple child profiles - Private iCloud sync Coregulation Journal is for caregivers who are trying to understand the hard moments, not just get through them.
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Verdict
The clearest difference is in-app purchases: Coregulation Journal at none against Obedience's 10. Coregulation Journal also leads on rating (5.0 vs 4.7). Obedience's advantage is ratings volume (3K vs 3) and update cadence (every 9 days vs every 2 months). On price and ads there is nothing between them.
Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS
Both are free to download. Obedience sells 9 in-app purchases, starting at $6.99 per month. Coregulation Journal asks for nothing beyond the download.
Coregulation Journal holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 4.7. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Obedience has 3K ratings behind it against 3, so its average is the more settled of the two.
Obedience ships an update every 9 days, Coregulation Journal every 2 months. The most recent releases landed on November 7, 2026 and November 5, 2026 respectively.
| Parameter | Obedience | Coregulation Journal |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | 4.7 (3K ratings) | 5.0 (3 ratings) — better |
| Positive reviews | 75.4% of reviews | — |
| Number of ratings | 3K — better | 3 |
| Update frequency | Every 9 days — better | Every 2 months |
| Ads | No | No |
| In-app purchases | Yes | No — better |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | Free — better |
| Devices | iPhone, iPad, iPod — better | iPhone |
| Requires iOS | 15.0 — better | 26.0 |
| Further details — not scored | ||
| Size | 123 MB | 4 MB |
| Age rating | 17+ | 4+ |
| Developer | Obedience B.V. | Charles Rogers |
Customer experience
Obedience
Coregulation Journal
Bugs and requests
Obedience
Reported bugs
5 issues- Tasks not tracking or resetting properly
- Points not updating accurately
- Messaging and notification issues
- Losing data when switching between partners
- Compatibility problems with older devices
Requested features
9 requests- Ability to add more than 5 habits on free version
- Option to pause tasks and habits
- Ability to request approval for completed tasks
- Customizable color themes
- Separate section for one-time tasks
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- Suggestions for limits, rules, punishments, and rewards
- Calendar view and progress tracking
- Dedicated journal feature
- Ability to add photos and media to tasks
Coregulation Journal
Not enough reviews yet to summarise bugs or requests.
In-app purchases
Obedience
- Obedience Pro 1 Month$6.991 Month
- Obedience Pro 3 Months$14.993 Months
- Yearly$14.991 Year
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- Obedience Pro 6 Months$19.996 Months
- Yearly1 Year trial2 variants$29.991 Year
- Yearly7 Days trial$29.991 Year
- Yearly14 Days trial$29.991 Year
- Yearly1 Month trial$29.991 Year
- Yearly$29.991 Year
Coregulation Journal
No in-app purchases
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