Tryst vs Ratemate

Tryst is a date planner for couples who want to stop winging it. Friday rolls around. You care—you really do. But somehow you end up in the same place, having the same conversation about trying something new. Planning better dates shouldn't be hard. Tryst helps you discover thoughtful date ideas, stay ahead of important moments, and make date night something you both look forward to. WHAT YOU CAN DO Discover better dates Choose your mood—Romantic, Fun, Chill, or Adventurous—and browse 550+ curated date ideas across seven categories, from cozy nights at home to weekend adventures. Build a complete plan Pick a venue, choose a time, and let Tryst organize everything into one simple checklist so nothing gets forgotten. Plan your way Whether you're looking for an Easy Night In, a Thoughtful Date, an All-Out Experience, or want to hit Surprise Me, Tryst adapts to the night you're planning. Never miss the moments that matter Stay ahead of anniversaries, birthdays, and Valentine's Day with reminders weeks in advance. Keep gifts, cards, reservations, and special touches organized separately so every detail gets done. Learn what your partner loves The two-minute Partner Survey personalizes recommendations based on both of your preferences, helping every date feel more intentional. Remember your best dates Reflect after each date, save favorite moments, and build a private history of your relationship that helps Tryst make better recommendations over time. PRIVATE BY DESIGN Your data belongs to you. No account. No password. No phone number. No ads. Everything is stored locally on your device using Apple's SwiftData. If iCloud is enabled, your data syncs securely through Apple's encrypted CloudKit—not our servers. We never store your personal data. Delete everything anytime with a single tap. START FREE Explore date ideas, build plans, and try every feature free for 30 days. After your trial, Tryst Pro unlocks sending plans to your partner, Compatibility Test, Tryst Undercover, date stacking, Pulse insights across dates, and more. Your date history, reflections, and profile editing remain free forever. Built by a couple for couples. Your next favorite date starts with Tryst Tryst Pro is an auto-renewable subscription: $5.99/month or $39.99/year, with a 30-day free trial. Payment is charged to your Apple ID at confirmation of purchase. It renews automatically unless turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in your Apple ID settings. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://trystdateplanner.com/privacy

45 minutes of scrolling and still nothing to watch. Your mates already found it. ratemate: ratings from people you actually know. That resto everyone's posting about — is it really a 4.7? And your closest mates: do you actually know what they'd call Trash? Rate movies, shows, restaurants, cafes, places, hotels, products, books, and even moments, then see what your mates loved (or trashed). No anonymous star ratings, no strangers' opinions. Trust your circle, not the crowd! RATE ANYTHING Leave your mark. Slide the bar from Trash to Banger, ratemate's signature four-tier scale. Add photos and a comment to tell the story behind your rating. If something isn't in any catalog, capture it as a Moment and rate it anyway. A FEED YOU CAN TRUST No algorithm, just mates. Your home feed is built from your mates' latest ratings. Comment on their takes, save what you want to try, and share finds directly with friends. MEET MATE, YOUR AI SIDEKICK Can't decide what to watch, read, or where to eat? Or curious about what your friends have been loving lately? Ask Mate. It blends your friends' ratings, what's popular around you, and a rich catalog of places and media to suggest things you'll like. Try "Italian restaurants my mates loved" or "something fun to watch tonight." DISCOVER WHAT'S NEARBY Open the map to explore restaurants, cafes and spots around you, and see how your mates rated them before you go. VERSUS: LET YOUR MATES DECIDE Torn between two options? Start a Versus poll and let your mates vote. No peeking though: results stay hidden until you cast your own vote, so pick a side first. CURATIONS Turn your favorites into curations, lists like "Best ramen in town" or "Movies for a rainy day," and share them on your profile to inspire your mates. CHAT WITH YOUR MATES Talk it over in direct messages, share ratings and items in chat, and plan what to try next together, whether it's a date night or a movie marathon. FIND YOUR MATES Your trusted circle needs you. Follow friends, discover people with great taste, and match your contacts to find friends already on ratemate. Contact matching is optional and done securely. Your privacy matters. Location is used only while the app is open, to show places nearby. Ratemate needs an internet connection. Some features work best with location access. Privacy Policy: https://www.ratemate.com/privacy-policy Terms: https://www.ratemate.com/terms-and-conditions Support: https://www.ratemate.com/support