What’s the point for lesbians?
So much about transphobia around a biological lesbian woman only wanting to date another biological lesbian woman. Tell me why there are “trans” people on this app wearing clothes with pictures of them in a dressing room? That’s is very suspicious first of all, secondly getting banned for putting no theythem or no trans in your profile isn’t homophobia towards lesbians? That’s intolerance and discrimination. You’re not allowed to have your preference if you’re a lesbian who is not trans apparently. As a female who only dates other biological females. Men in dressing rooms with full beards is weird I don’t care who you are. And you got to pay for it? If you’re a lesbian and don’t want to be spammed by “trans” in odd locations taking pictures of themselves in full beards or people in a relationship looking for a side piece just skip it.
I’m a 33 year old biological woman and I’ve been out since I was in high school, it’s sad to see that the trans community is so terrible to anyone that doesn’t prefer them and it’s gotten to a point you’re not seemingly allowed to without having hate towards you. There is no genuine care in the community anymore if we can’t respect each others wants or needs.
I’m a 33 year old biological woman and I’ve been out since I was in high school, it’s sad to see that the trans community is so terrible to anyone that doesn’t prefer them and it’s gotten to a point you’re not seemingly allowed to without having hate towards you. There is no genuine care in the community anymore if we can’t respect each others wants or needs.
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Response from developer
HER is, and will continue to be, an inclusive & welcoming space for LGBTQ folks. We love lesbians. What we don’t love, or allow, is folks who think trans & non-binary folks are less than. Trans women are women, and if you don’t agree, this isn’t the app for you and we wish you the best.
Would be higher but boy your ads are ridiculous
I used to enjoy this dating app, but it’s now become frustrating and nearly unusable. While I don’t get many connections, I still appreciated the few I did make. However, the recent addition of full-page, unskippable ads has completely ruined the experience. My screen gets hijacked, and I can’t even exit the ad without closing the app entirely. It’s one thing to have ads disguised as profiles that you can easily swipe away, but this is a whole new level of greed. And don’t tell me that a premium subscription would remove the ads—it’s absurd to expect everyone to pay the ludicrous price tag for dating. Until this issue is fixed, this app is a definite one-star for me. Shame on you.
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Response from developer
So sorry to hear that this was your experience with the app. If you are still having trouble, please reach out to us at support@weareher.com for assistance.
Cool app, but EXPENSIVE & scam accounts
2 main points on why I give a low rating overall. 1. The app is impossible to make connections on unless you pay for premium which is $30 a month. Insanely overpriced. 2. Even if you decide to pay the money (which I have done twice), you will be contacted by dangerous scam accounts posing as women. I have spent the year on various dating apps. I’ve never had a problem with fake accounts on Hinge. I’ve had at least 7 first dates from Hinge. Everyone was who they said they were. Scam accounts have basically been nonexistent. I’ve spent much less time on Her and have already been contacted by 5 scam accounts (that I know of). Just be careful if you try using this app. I did have one meaningful connection when I paid for the app and they were who they said they were. So it is possible! Take extra precautions to verify the person is real. I typically ask for Snapchat and that tends to scare away the catfish (or make them angry). Either way I can figure out they’re not real. One more thing, the community message boards are absolutely filled with nudes and fake messages asking to hook up or send pics. It’s like the Wild West out there. Overall, making a connection IS possible IF YOU PAY an exorbitant amount. Her should charge a reasonable price like other dating apps. You WILL encounter scams. Be prepared and be cautious.
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Response from developer
I'm sorry to hear this was your experience on the app. We are in the process of updating our flagging system to improve scammer detection so you have confidence that the person you are talking to is real. Please report any suspicious profiles as you see them and our team will check them out as soon as possible. If you have any more feedback for us, please let us know at support@weareher.com :)
Works great unless you have a bad signal
EDIT: At the time, I did try deleting and reinstalling the app multiple times, to no avail. I was also on public wifi/mobile data (interchangeably). Once I got home and back on home wifi, it started working again. Still not sure what the issue was, but could have simply been a bad signal
I made an account through AppleID, and was able to use the app for all of 2hrs. Closed the app for an hour or two, and now it either won’t load at all, or when the login screen does load I can’t log in. Trying to log in with AppleID again gives a loading circle with “Building Profile”, and then eventually returns to the login screen.
I made an account through AppleID, and was able to use the app for all of 2hrs. Closed the app for an hour or two, and now it either won’t load at all, or when the login screen does load I can’t log in. Trying to log in with AppleID again gives a loading circle with “Building Profile”, and then eventually returns to the login screen.
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Response from developer
We're so sorry to hear this! Can you pretty please delete the app and reinstall it? If you're still having trouble after reloading the app, please send us details at support@weareher.com so we can help.
Disappointed Won’t be Using Again
OK I feel as though this app is a little bit too strict. We are all adults here. If we make a mistake or if you break a community guidelines OK flag is fair but give us a few chances because things can be flagged that shouldn’t be flagged and are flagged just because someone is mad instead of doing a proper investigation to have to beg for my account to be off hold is a bit ridiculous especially when you are part of a community that you felt. It was safe to discuss certain things. I don’t think the subscription is worth it due to the fact they are constantly looking for a way to put your account on hold, when your account is on hold, you cannot use the app. This also breaks any bun that you have established while your account is on hold. I do not feel like it is fair to flag. Every little thing. We are adults! There will be times where we will make a mistakes. We should not be harshly panelized. I feel like this is new to all of us when it comes to community guidelines I think that really no one really looks throughly at it and there should not be a penalty right off the back for it. There should be a email sent to the person that lets them know that they violated a community guideline, in other words I do feel like I met great people. I just think that guidelines should be adjusted. We are all humans and we make mistakes. Please adjust this.
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Response from developer
Hi there. We are sorry that you didn't enjoy the app. Please feel free to let us know what we can do to improve your experience on the app. Send us a message at support@weareher.com
Diverse and Inclusive — Essential for Sapphics
HER is a fantastic app that centres queer non-men. I’ve used it since 2020 and have met a diverse range of people, from casual flings to longer term things. While the premium function is a bit too expensive to be worth it (in my view) and sometimes the app wishes to be a bit of a jack of all trades in what it provides (I’ve never really used the community function, though I imagine others must do), nevertheless its basic functionality is solid and it is still the best place to meet queer women and non-binary people.
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Response from developer
Thank you so much for sharing your positive experience on HER! We're a small scrappy queer team of folks and are always thrilled to hear that we're on the right track. We appreciate your feedback on the premium function, and we're continuously working on improving our features to provide the best value for our users. We understand that everyone may have different preferences. We're glad to know that our basic functionality has been solid for you, and we remain committed to being the best place for meeting queer women and non-binary individuals. Thank you for being a part of our community. We're lucky to have you.
Locked me out & did not refund me
I had a monthly subscription and they locked me out for 11 days. They said it was because they have lots of fake profiles so it happens sometimes. I had to send copy of my passport for them to reinstate. I was locked out for 11 days. I’ve asked them multiple times via email to refund me and they haven’t responded to me. Update: after 3 unanswered emails they responded to my fourth one asking me to contact apple for a refund. No option via apple for refund as purchase was in May 23 (I’ve been emailing HER since then requesting a refund). In summary HER have been really cavalier throughout whole process. I’d avoid, they’re aren’t resolving issues and being fair in the way you would expect a more established company to do.
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Response from developer
We're sorry to hear that this was our experience with the app. Unfortunately, refunds come through Apple. We'd love to help in any other way that we can at support@weareher.com.
for lesbians?
says it’s for lesbians but then there is also bi options, he/him options and straight is a option? this is not what it’s advertised as at all, so disappointed
Best Accurate tracker!! Very awesome✅💯
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So far so good
Well, this is actually the first time I am opening myself up and this app seems I could be perfect for me. It is a little too expensive, but I’m gonna try it out for a month and see how it goes. It’s super easy to set up but I wish it was cheaper and a little bit easier to move throughout the website but other than that I’m happy so far.
Update:
Wow I’m actually even more impressed with HER. I’ve never had a developer take the time to write something on any of my reviews whether it’s been positive or negative. What does HER do? Not only read my review but took the time to send me a thank you note! Now that may seem insignificant to some but for me positivity isn’t something I’m around all that much. Reason #8,000 why I’m on a dating site😂So when I hear it I do my best to acknowledge it and send positive words back. It would be great if I met someone through HER but even if I don’t, I’d still refer HER to anyone looking for an open minded genuine love friendship and even just people to talk to. Thank you HER for making me feel noticed and putting a smile on my face! 💛
Update:
Wow I’m actually even more impressed with HER. I’ve never had a developer take the time to write something on any of my reviews whether it’s been positive or negative. What does HER do? Not only read my review but took the time to send me a thank you note! Now that may seem insignificant to some but for me positivity isn’t something I’m around all that much. Reason #8,000 why I’m on a dating site😂So when I hear it I do my best to acknowledge it and send positive words back. It would be great if I met someone through HER but even if I don’t, I’d still refer HER to anyone looking for an open minded genuine love friendship and even just people to talk to. Thank you HER for making me feel noticed and putting a smile on my face! 💛
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Response from developer
Aw! Thank you so much for the extra kind words! We'll be sure to pass it on to the rest of the HER team. It'll make their day. We're so thankful to have awesome people like you in our community!
