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Cool app, but EXPENSIVE & scam accounts
2 main points on why I give a low rating overall. 1. The app is impossible to make connections on unless you pay for premium which is $30 a month. Insanely overpriced. 2. Even if you decide to pay the money (which I have done twice), you will be contacted by dangerous scam accounts posing as women. I have spent the year on various dating apps. I’ve never had a problem with fake accounts on Hinge. I’ve had at least 7 first dates from Hinge. Everyone was who they said they were. Scam accounts have basically been nonexistent. I’ve spent much less time on Her and have already been contacted by 5 scam accounts (that I know of). Just be careful if you try using this app. I did have one meaningful connection when I paid for the app and they were who they said they were. So it is possible! Take extra precautions to verify the person is real. I typically ask for Snapchat and that tends to scare away the catfish (or make them angry). Either way I can figure out they’re not real. One more thing, the community message boards are absolutely filled with nudes and fake messages asking to hook up or send pics. It’s like the Wild West out there. Overall, making a connection IS possible IF YOU PAY an exorbitant amount. Her should charge a reasonable price like other dating apps. You WILL encounter scams. Be prepared and be cautious.Show lessyouSuck738762584
Developer Response
I'm sorry to hear this was your experience on the app. We are in the process of updating our flagging system to improve scammer detection so you have confidence that the person you are talking to is real. Please report any suspicious profiles as you see them and our team will check them out as soon as possible. If you have any more feedback for us, please let us know at support@weareher.com :)Disappointed Won’t be Using Again
OK I feel as though this app is a little bit too strict. We are all adults here. If we make a mistake or if you break a community guidelines OK flag is fair but give us a few chances because things can be flagged that shouldn’t be flagged and are flagged just because someone is mad instead of doing a proper investigation to have to beg for my account to be off hold is a bit ridiculous especially when you are part of a community that you felt. It was safe to discuss certain things. I don’t think the subscription is worth it due to the fact they are constantly looking for a way to put your account on hold, when your account is on hold, you cannot use the app. This also breaks any bun that you have established while your account is on hold. I do not feel like it is fair to flag. Every little thing. We are adults! There will be times where we will make a mistakes. We should not be harshly panelized. I feel like this is new to all of us when it comes to community guidelines I think that really no one really looks throughly at it and there should not be a penalty right off the back for it. There should be a email sent to the person that lets them know that they violated a community guideline, in other words I do feel like I met great people. I just think that guidelines should be adjusted. We are all humans and we make mistakes. Please adjust this.Show lessSugar cookies 123
Developer Response
Hi there. We are sorry that you didn't enjoy the app. Please feel free to let us know what we can do to improve your experience on the app. Send us a message at support@weareher.comBest Accurate tracker!! Very awesome✅💯
Recommend monitoring and tracking suspected cheating wife and activities at work. However some great app couldn't grant all access I needed to detect and catch my wife red handed in her deceptive ways. It all started when I had a suspicion on her with some recently inherited behavior like staying out late nights after work, being clingy to her phones and so on. I came to the internet to find a lasting solution to solve my marital problems. Thank God, faz came my way after checking through positive reviews, how he helped a woman catch her cheating husband red handed. I reached him via his mail at saradupe999 (@) gmailcom and he requested for certain info such as my spouses phone number and phone model. Within hrs I got a notification popped up on my phone it was from Faz. he gave me a spy link which I accessed with my phone web browser there I was able to see all of his texts, call logs, WhatsApp, Snapchat, deleted conversation, social media shared pictures and videos etc as if I got her phone in my palms. It's really a great opportunity to use the services of saradupe999 (@) gmailcom, if you got similar issues right now I'll strongly advice you write him for an excellent spying and tracking services. This is the most highly recommended and genuine services that works efficiently than the spy apps.
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So far so good
Well, this is actually the first time I am opening myself up and this app seems I could be perfect for me. It is a little too expensive, but I’m gonna try it out for a month and see how it goes. It’s super easy to set up but I wish it was cheaper and a little bit easier to move throughout the website but other than that I’m happy so far.
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Wow I’m actually even more impressed with HER. I’ve never had a developer take the time to write something on any of my reviews whether it’s been positive or negative. What does HER do? Not only read my review but took the time to send me a thank you note! Now that may seem insignificant to some but for me positivity isn’t something I’m around all that much. Reason #8,000 why I’m on a dating site😂So when I hear it I do my best to acknowledge it and send positive words back. It would be great if I met someone through HER but even if I don’t, I’d still refer HER to anyone looking for an open minded genuine love friendship and even just people to talk to. Thank you HER for making me feel noticed and putting a smile on my face! 💛Show less2kool kid
Developer Response
Aw! Thank you so much for the extra kind words! We'll be sure to pass it on to the rest of the HER team. It'll make their day. We're so thankful to have awesome people like you in our community!It's a good app- if you can pay for the subscription !
I really like this app. I live in Ohio so it's hard for me to find a gf and a girl. I like how i can swipe but i wish I could see who's swooped on me and message people without the subscription. I wish that there was like a limited amount of people you could talk to a day. For example, instead of having no way to see who's liked you and no way to message anyone, maybe do a limited amount of people until they have to pay. I'm 18 and can't afford a membership right now. I think it had the potential of being really good, I just don't know because I can't buy the membership. BUT i will say setting your profile up is so cool. I personally am not a big drinker because of my parents so i like when i can tell if someone drinks a lot or not because it's part of the profile (you can skip that part if you don't wanna answer it of course). I like how the profiles are set up. it's easy to tell if you'll get along with someone by looking at their profile. I can also tell by the profile if someone is looking for a relationship or just hookups because there's a choice for that in your profile too. All in all, it's really good but I just wish the app wasn't so limited so i can see what it's actually like if i wanted to buy the membership in the future.Show lessAvaDavaDog
Developer Response
Thanks for the feedback and I'm sorry to hear that you're frustrated with the experience. Users do get a limited amount of free likes per day. We try to keep all important features free - swiping, making & receiving likes, Communities and messaging. We are a small team with limited resources, but we hope you get value and are able to meet someone through all our free features.Great app
It’s a good app to message and meet other people online, but you can’t do much unless you pay. You get limited swipes. After you have used all your swipes you have to wait 5-13 hours to get more. I was ready to delete the app because I kept seeing people who only wanted a one night stand of couples looking for threesomes. People seem to put 2% effort when it comes to meeting other. One day I decided to give it one more try before I deleted it. I saw someone I knew from a college course I needed to take to get my degree. I reached out and after messaging her for a few days we met at school. I guess I got very lucky because her and I have been together for many years now. If it wasn’t for this app I wouldn’t have talked to her since we only had one class together. I’m glad I decided to give it one more try. We’ve been together for years now. I understand people’s complaints and concerns in the review section but they have to remember that every dating app isn’t perfect. You just have to put yourself out there and give things a shot. Good luck!Show lessyouuuutuuum
Developer Response
Congratulations! We love hearing these stories, and appreciate you taking the time out to tell us your amazing news! Thanks for your feedback. 🌈 If you don't mind, please fill out this typeform: https://her.typeform.com/to/x7PRxF, so that we can keep in touch, share your story on our social media platforms, and more.Lots of members, but $$$
I joined Her hoping to meet more LGBTQ women for friendship or more, and there are a lot of us! The app seems really popular, and people seem to interact with my profile more than on other platforms which is nice. But I do have a few issues: the user interface is a bit glitchy. Multiple of the same profile tend to show up when swiping, causing errors. Takes a few swipes left for the same profiles to go away and bring up someone new. But the biggest problem that actually steers me away is the price for premium. I don’t know when dating apps became so expensive! $25 a month is the lowest option, and you don’t even get to see your likes if you purchase it. You have to do the higher tier. I understand having to run the app and support developers, but there are in-app ads AND multiple paywall tiers? It’s so excessive and predatory. Using the free version you can swipe freely but only get access to like 10 likes every 24 hours, so you get notifications that people are liking you but you can’t do anything about it. I’m sharing my thoughts here just for a shot at a free trial to clear out my notifications.Show lessmilok9starr
Developer Response
Thanks for the feedback and I'm sorry to hear that you're frustrated with the experience. We try to keep all important features free - swiping, making & receiving likes, Communities and messaging. We are a small team with limited resources, but we hope you get value and are able to meet someone through all our free features.Decent App
Excellent in the sense that it brings together a wide variety of LGBT+ identities. There’s a big community and even smaller sub-communities dedicated to varying interests. Bots and scammers can be an issue, but they’re easy to identify based on their copy-and-paste walls of text (“looking for a Sugar baby” lol) and lack of verification. Just block them and move on! There’s also an occasional nude posted to the main feed, which can be bothersome, but hey—people are horny. Regardless, there should still be some moderation on that front. Some people are actually trying to find someone to settle down with. On another note, a lot of users will complain that they can’t find “the one,” but that’s an issue revolving around the users—not the app itself. Can’t expect a partner to be handed to you on a silver platter! You gotta work towards them.
All in all, this is a decent app (though it’s got its small issues, as mentioned) to use if you’re looking to find a casual date or maybe even a friend. I wouldn’t recommend completely relying on HER to find “the one,” (as is the case with all dating apps) but you never know what you’re going to discover if you actively look for it. Good luck to everyone on HER! Hope you find what you’re looking for. :)
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Developer Response
Thanks for sharing your feedback! Please feel free to email us at support@weareher.com to let us know what we can improve to create a better experience for you. Have an amazing day.MUCH improved!!
I used this app maybe 4/5 years ago and it quickly became a joke in my queer community due to the unsavory amount of fake sexworking bot accounts and the glitchy UI. I made a single friend that kept showing up "in my area" somehow but happened to be a whole country away.
I got a new phone with more space and redownloaded after seeing the new look and my mind has officially been blown. I would say it's 90% more user-friendly and the app itself has been made very well. Virtually none of the past glitches (profiles repeating endlessly, images getting stuck, messages not loading, the app backing out of something before you're done)
AND THE ENTIRE USER BASE IS ITSELF AN UPGRADE!! This app going from a scattered handful of real lesbians to every single queer creature out there is amazing. I downloaded it three days ago and have made a few friends already, in my area and with similar interests/worldviews/lifestyles.
amazing work, what a healthy evolution of a virtual social group 🥰 way to take it beyond hookup culture (without removing the option entirely heh)
some of the notifications can be a bit obnoxious and the way the matches work once matched is a little hairy, but especially considering I am on the free version i am astounded. not gonna lie you gave me everything i needed and i will probably never pay for it (though i never planned on it). the free version has a lot available and anyone who says otherwise is using it wrong. -applauseShow lessjustalilguy001
Developer Response
You made us beam with Pride - thanks for being part of our community! 🌈Good app
I like the general layout and it’s an alright dating app that allows people in the LGBTQIA+ community to connect with others in the same community, but it’s lacking in one key area. You can see how many people have “liked” you, but aren’t allowed to actually view the list of people, their profiles, or match with them without paying for gold. Moreover, the app only allows you to see around 3-4 of these “likes” a day in your notification tab. While you can still go the organic route and swipe until you find a match, this is time-consuming and is yet another feature that is limited, as you quickly run out of swipes that does not replenish until after a full day has passed. Personally, I am not willing to revisit a dating app every day just to get another shot of maybe finding someone I’m interested in within the restrictive set amount of swipes. This makes the app a less appealing option when compared to competitors.Show lessDucky1242
